Question for the UK ladies

[funlover12]

In this case, maybe they don't like a large appendage ( there I go with racial stereotypes ) xx

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[anon361]

Yeah, escorts lives are difficult enough without having to log on here and explain their racial prejudices to you? .... gawd!

Hi there.

If an escort has had a bad experience with a certain race/nationality, she mightn't be inclined to accept appointments from that nationality again.

The lady might have a partner who is black/asian/whatever and so refuses on the grounds that they might be her partners family.

Racial Prejudices? You're just looking for an argument there. I'd call it common sense, and as the job we do is extremely personal (I can think of no other that's more so) then it really is our choice who we invite in OUR bedroom.

Our Bodies, Our Business.

Don't waste your breath replying to this idiot..

[Big J]

Boys , boys..

Do you have a preference for blonde/brunette etc ? Large breast, small breast, sporty, curvy, athletic, voluptious etc ??

Do you prefer black girls, white girls, Asians ?? Why ??

How would you explain your personal preference ?? It is just a personal like, loike ?



Also take into consideration your cultural comfort zone. Would you seek out an escort that you would feel uncomfortable with,

where that discomfort might even be based on nothing more than cultural differences ?

Why on earth should any escort have to explain her own personal preferences ? It may not even be a conscious decision,

may simply be 'knowing' what she does/doesn't like.



In this case, maybe they don't like a large appendage ( there I go with racial stereotypes ) xx

I agree totally,and anyway whats the point in meeting an Escort if she clearly did nt want to see you in the first place.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I think also it depends on where you live in England and what your experience is growing up. Where I live there are mostly white people and most people who live here integrate very well and take on our way of life, while we respect their cultural differences.

However in some parts of England there are huge areas that are now minority white and the white people are looked down on and made to feel second rate. They also treat the Escorts quite badly and try to see them by underhand means. An example of this would be a lady I know who lives in Huddersfield (I think). She had a client who was Asian turn up with a takeaway, after she had already declined his offer of food. He had booked for half an hour but stayed for over two and when she tried to get him to leave, he would not listen and kept going on about how nice to her he was for bringing her food.

Now I have never encountered anything like that, but she could give you several examples and knows of plenty more from the other ladies living in her area, so she now refuses to see Asian men that she does not already know. I think that is understandable.

It is a shame when a few bad eggs spoil it for everyone else, but you have to work within your comfort zone and if you have had problems, you are going to eventually look for the common denominator and rule it out.

[Mississippi]

Boys , boys..

Do you have a preference for blonde/brunette etc ? Large breast, small breast, sporty, curvy, athletic, voluptious etc ??

Do you prefer black girls, white girls, Asians ?? Why ??

How would you explain your personal preference ?? It is just a personal like, loike ?



Also take into consideration your cultural comfort zone. Would you seek out an escort that you would feel uncomfortable with,

where that discomfort might even be based on nothing more than cultural differences ?

Why on earth should any escort have to explain her own personal preferences ? It may not even be a conscious decision,

may simply be 'knowing' what she does/doesn't like.



In this case, maybe they don't like a large appendage ( there I go with racial stereotypes ) xx

Spot on Stephanie. If you know at the outset then no big deal.

I have a preference for UK girls. Wonder what that makes me ......

[Curvaceous Kate]

Spot on Stephanie. If you know at the outset then no big deal.

I have a preference for UK girls. Wonder what that makes me ......

A target

[Mississippi]

A target

Lol........I am an easy target...And where should I paint my bullseye

[Curvaceous Kate]

Lol........I am an easy target...And where should I paint my bullseye

I guess that depends on where you would like the attention directed

[bluefan1]

Boys , boys..

Do you have a preference for blonde/brunette etc ? Large breast, small breast, sporty, curvy, athletic, voluptious etc ??

Do you prefer black girls, white girls, Asians ?? Why ??

How would you explain your personal preference ?? It is just a personal like, loike ?



Also take into consideration your cultural comfort zone. Would you seek out an escort that you would feel uncomfortable with,

where that discomfort might even be based on nothing more than cultural differences ?

Why on earth should any escort have to explain her own personal preferences ? It may not even be a conscious decision,

may simply be 'knowing' what she does/doesn't like.



In this case, maybe they don't like a large appendage ( there I go with racial stereotypes ) xx

Now Stephanie that all seems very reasonable.... but is it really?

You might choose a sex partner because the size of their breasts match your desires and the colour of their hair and the largeness of their ass ( or appendage ) but are you saying you will not choose the one who matched all those criteria, if their skin was of a different shade?

I don't get the 'cultural comfort zone' either. If you're a black American or a black Irishman what are the differences in cultures compared to your white brethren? - granted they may have a greater interest in Rap music for instance but many white Irishmen would have a fondness for Daniel O'Donnell ( god forbid) but this is not apparent from the colour of their skin. Take the OhAilpin brothers (Setanta, Sean Og and Aisake) - all black but probably the greatest examples of all that is good about Irish culture and Irishness. Judging people by the colour and tone of their skin is always, in my opinion, racist and can never be justified.

Now there might be another argument about whether an escort has the right to reject customers on the basis of their ethnicity but I would argue that it is the thin edge of the wedge... should we stop black people from sitting on the same side of the bus, ought we to ban Asians from our pubs? Or should we stop white people from dancing altogether?

Interestingly, this thread relates to the UK were we all remember seeing the, NO BLACKS, NO IRISH, NO DOGS signs outside their shit B&B's.

Finally, and thankfully some physical traits skip ethnic stereotypes - as you and I know when we're talking about appendages!!

[bluefan1]

I think also it depends on where you live in England and what your experience is growing up. Where I live there are mostly white people and most people who live here integrate very well and take on our way of life, while we respect their cultural differences.

However in some parts of England there are huge areas that are now minority white and the white people are looked down on and made to feel second rate. They also treat the Escorts quite badly and try to see them by underhand means. An example of this would be a lady I know who lives in Huddersfield (I think). She had a client who was Asian turn up with a takeaway, after she had already declined his offer of food. He had booked for half an hour but stayed for over two and when she tried to get him to leave, he would not listen and kept going on about how nice to her he was for bringing her food.

Now I have never encountered anything like that, but she could give you several examples and knows of plenty more from the other ladies living in her area, so she now refuses to see Asian men that she does not already know. I think that is understandable.

It is a shame when a few bad eggs spoil it for everyone else, but you have to work within your comfort zone and if you have had problems, you are going to eventually look for the common denominator and rule it out.

But Kate your Huddersfield friend will have heard your own stories of Irish punters who double book most of the time and when they do show up, are often smelly and unwashed. This can then be retold as a stereotypical experience of Irish clients. Bad eggs smell and should be discarded, the rest of the good eggs should be embraced and enjoyed for the wholesome food they are and the contribution they make to a varied and rich diet we can all share .....