why do you punt

[skyliner]

after a rather unpleasant visit over the week Ive been asking myself why?why do i bother going to see escorts!ive a lovely partner who is absolutely stunning.I still cant come up a good reason as to why I bother? so im asking all you guys with partners why do you visit escorts?

I just do it to share my love around!!! Cant be keeping it all to myself now can I?

Plus I get incredibly horny everytime I go near Dublin 2/4/Sandyford

[wolfie]

I Punt Coz I Love It .............. and I'm a cheating B*****d

[ThomasJ]

I punt because there is no way in hell an ugly guy like me would ever have the chance to have sex with such stunning girls otherwise

[EnglishAlex]

after a rather unpleasant visit over the week Ive been asking myself why?why do i bother going to see escorts!ive a lovely partner who is absolutely stunning.I still cant come up a good reason as to why I bother? so im asking all you guys with partners why do you visit escorts?

Only after an unpleasant visit do you ask yourself this, that says a lot in itself. If the meeting had gone well, would you be questioning why you pay for sex?

Imo, I think that men in relationships who are paying for sex either aren't able to explore themselves sexually with their partners or need to prove their masculinity to themselves or others they discuss their antics with (friends down the pub, people online, leaving reviews on a sex site etc). They're proving that they've 'still got it' coz they can go hell for leather with a hot sexually aware woman. The Ego needs feeding

You pay for an appointment, and for that time the Escort is totally committed to making you happy. You can be what you want, who you want, including getting involved in sexual acts you don't think would be appropriate with your partner. There's no pressure to please the Escort either, she's already pleased because she has the money for the job she's doing and you the consumer are buying your fantasy. Your escape. In no other situation will you be as sexually 'attended to' and allowed to explore the depths of your sexual urges than being with a prostitute.

It's all about you and I don't mean this in a bad way, I'm stating a fact. Mostly, it's nothing to do with your partner. I don't think it matters how sexy, beautiful, stunning etc she is. It doesn't really come into it. What comes into it is you and your needs, your desire to escape the mundane reality of life.

There are of course cases of mismatched sex drive and bad relationships too, but from your short post, who can tell if either of these apply?

Everybody needs an escape from time to time. If you're questioning your motives and feel guilty about what you're doing then maybe invest the money you usually pay for sex with in some therapy instead.

Good Luck x

[TomEA]

Dammmmm guuuurrrrll

[john connor]

If you have a stunning partner and u are seeing escorts you are not getting enough at home. Trust Me I know.
Men's and women's sex drive is normally very different. Some women have more sex than they would normally choose in order to keep their relationship hot with their man. Some don't.
I don't feel bad seeing escorts because if my partner was more sexual as she used to be I would not be seeing them.
This is life. Also when u start this game it is hard to stop. Sometimes I find myself on a visit and asking myself why the hell am I going as I am not even that horny. It can become a compulsion or a feel good thing just like any other vice.

[Zoidberg]

one word ANAL

[gamey27]

It seems there are a few reasons

1. Wildly different libidos between the man and the woman. Men's libidos aren't always higher than womens, but on average it seems they are. Also, they're more easily aroused by just visual attraction.

2. Some men just want variety. They may be have a satisfying sex life at home, but they just want a bit of variety also.

3. Man not getting the type of sex he wants, e.g. Anal as Zoidberg says above. Sometimes this can be due to poor communication in the bedroom. However, a man may have asked for something with his wife and been declined. They may also have very different tastes e.g. one person is into roleplay/ DOM, whereas the other is just totally straightforward.

4. Problems with the relationship in general. Both partners may have similar libidos and tastes but have just grown apart. Could be due to parenting taking preference in the relationship or just loss of attraction.

I'm not in a relationship, nor have I ever been in one where I've cheated, so all this is just based on what other people seem to say!

[blue8671]

after a rather unpleasant visit over the week Ive been asking myself why?why do i bother going to see escorts!ive a lovely partner who is absolutely stunning.I still cant come up a good reason as to why I bother? so im asking all you guys with partners why do you visit escorts?

Because if I met any of these girls in a bar they would not even speak to me, and I enjoy sex with beautiful women. Lets be honest here most guy's that visit escorts do not have the same as you at home.

[dr love]

Why do I punt

Simply and truthful answer , uncomplicated fun with a beautiful woman .

Yep it's that simply gents , try not to over think it .: doc