If it wouldn't make a difference, why are you hoping she hasn't?
I'm just winding you up here, I do know what you mean.
I think many people have hang ups about how many partners their gf/bf/wife/husband has had but they should move on if it's a problem and not condemn their other half. Everyone has a past dont they. If people focused on the present and also looked forward, then life would be far nicer all round.
When I'm going out with someone, I'm open about my sexual history and don't have a problem discussing anything at all with them. I'd certainly hope they wouldn't be slagging me off and discussing it with their pals down the pub. That's awful really and one of the reasons I'm single. Trust is a huge issue, especially with my career choice.
I was kidding about your wife btw x
He felt her hands slide slowly up his thigh, he couldn't stop himself from growing hard. She caught his eye and in that second he knew: This erotic, sensual Lady is bold if she is anything. She would be upto mischief in no time...
Some things never change
I've always found it better not to ask, especially if your a bit sensitive about it. Does it really matter if your happy together ?
As for talking with your mates about it, bit childish really
Cable87 (28-02-13)
mellors (27-02-13)
Being a male it's a numbers thing, variety is the spice of life. I was previously married and widowed at a young age, the last I married you could have counted my partners on both hands. If I was to marry again I wouldn't like to know the numbers she would have had but would hope it was in single numbers, but girls have their needs i'm told as well as us males. For relationships it wouldn't bother me for a keeper it would lol
mellors (27-02-13)
I've only been with one woman in my entire life