Is it not easier to be nice and civil?

[Westsidex]

I am not happy discussing anyones personal business on any site please read my posts I do not get involved in that its negative and harms the other person.

LOL well some of your pals on the other site do. Im not on here enough these days to see all threads.

Thank god,
Westside.

[experiencedguy]

I'm afraid you have got that wrong, totally wrong in my case. I don't come on here, because it's my 'job' depending on it. There are many women who do very well without posting and I'm sure I would continue to as well. I come on here, because I'm a social creature and this job is very isolating. It's somewhere I should be able to be myself, not worry about talking about the things that effect my day to day life and not be judged for who I am.

Sadly, that is not always the case.

Apologies. It was an assumption on my part.

[Alyssa Jenkins]

LOL well some of your pals on the other site do. Im not on here enough these days to see all threads.

Thank god,
Westside.

I thought we were not allowed to discuss any other sites here? I am certainly not doing so.
Frankly I am pals with most people on many sites worldwide its nice to be nice as I said before. I have not singled any person out on this thread its a general topic in general chat. I have no control over what other people like to post or not simply expressing my opinion not that of anyone else. xx

[ana massage]

this thread made my day.so happy when i see people getting along very well....wish this could hapen everyday

[Rachel Divine]

LOL well some of your pals on the other site do. Im not on here enough these days to see all threads.

Thank god,
Westside.

You are missing some good posts though

[Alyssa Jenkins]

You are missing some good posts though

Yes like the one about Ciaras new pictures I think thats a great post about a fabulous lady those are posts that are nice to read and possibly the thread about the horsemeat there are a few good threads still popping up at least xx

[mellors]

Hi Alyssa, i sort of agree with you, and like Experienced i too have sort of lost interest in reading the forum. Im all for manners and respect but when it descends into fluffy and lick arse posts, i stiffle a big yawn. Im all for a good old debate, a bit of genial slagging,in fact some of the most inciteful and hilarious threads have come about through this banter. Also,defending your position on opinions isnt bitching, but the trouble begins when good interesting threads turn into slagging, you said this,i said that etc,and goes off topic ,again it just gets boring after you;ve heard it once.

[jerryc]

I have been reading the forums recently with total lack of interest and a feeling that there is much nastiness on here. It has become like the kind of place you log into if you feel like reading unpleasant threads where there is always insults going around?

I found myself wondering is it not easier to be nice and civil and actually have conversations rather than bitching all the time.

I do not know about other posters but as an occasional poster but quite frequent reader of forums that this type of carry on makes me reluctant to post and sometimes even read threads at all....

I think as an escort forum things should be alot more friendly and people should not be hurling insults at others all the time or has this community become this way?

Why discuss other peoples private business here and why go on and insult people with malicious gossip?
This used to be a place where people posted about all types of things and could openly have a debate without things getting nasty.

So imo the forum recently has become a most unfriendly place to be...There are ofcourse decent posters here and some threads are actually interesting however they are far and few in between.

May I appeal to posters to try and maintain this community and be nice to one another and save the nastiness for another place? xxx

Very good post Alyssa, you have covered alot with it.
Hopefully, people will read this and some of your other recent posts and have a rethink of their behaviour and attitude towards others.

[dr love]

I have been reading the forums recently with total lack of interest and a feeling that there is much nastiness on here. It has become like the kind of place you log into if you feel like reading unpleasant threads where there is always insults going around?

I found myself wondering is it not easier to be nice and civil and actually have conversations rather than bitching all the time.

I do not know about other posters but as an occasional poster but quite frequent reader of forums that this type of carry on makes me reluctant to post and sometimes even read threads at all....

I think as an escort forum things should be alot more friendly and people should not be hurling insults at others all the time or has this community become this way?

Why discuss other peoples private business here and why go on and insult people with malicious gossip?
This used to be a place where people posted about all types of things and could openly have a debate without things getting nasty.

So imo the forum recently has become a most unfriendly place to be...There are ofcourse decent posters here and some threads are actually interesting however they are far and few in between.

May I appeal to posters to try and maintain this community and be nice to one another and save the nastiness for another place? xxx

we can hope I suspose alyssa .: doc
https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...ty-and-respect

[ryder]

we can hope I suspose alyssa .: doc
https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...ty-and-respect

Thanks Alyssa for shaking up this place ,what with the Pope resigning and all that this forum is in a state of turmoil and dissaray .