Is it not easier to be nice and civil?

[Alyssa Jenkins]

I have been reading the forums recently with total lack of interest and a feeling that there is much nastiness on here. It has become like the kind of place you log into if you feel like reading unpleasant threads where there is always insults going around?

I found myself wondering is it not easier to be nice and civil and actually have conversations rather than bitching all the time.

I do not know about other posters but as an occasional poster but quite frequent reader of forums that this type of carry on makes me reluctant to post and sometimes even read threads at all....

I think as an escort forum things should be alot more friendly and people should not be hurling insults at others all the time or has this community become this way?

Why discuss other peoples private business here and why go on and insult people with malicious gossip?
This used to be a place where people posted about all types of things and could openly have a debate without things getting nasty.

So imo the forum recently has become a most unfriendly place to be...There are ofcourse decent posters here and some threads are actually interesting however they are far and few in between.

May I appeal to posters to try and maintain this community and be nice to one another and save the nastiness for another place? xxx

[Alyssa Jenkins]

I tried to address this before but to no avail.

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...Negative-Vibes

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...01323-Fighting

It's best to just try and ignore it and hopefully it will go away when everyone gets tired of it.

I have myself tried to ignore it but it is constant and has been ongoing for months now. I have been away from the forums for most of December and January only to log on and find the same stuff over and over again.

I think if it carries on people will just stop logging in and posting.
I think we should all respect one another no matter what shape, size, colour or nationality people are afterall thats what creates an individual. xxx

[benin]

excellent thread,draw comfort from the fact it's a minority that are bitching/fighting...personally i tend to ignore them as much as i can now.

[mature abby]

Your dead right allyssa we are all here for the same reason ,and nobody is better than anyone else
some of the things said here of late are way below the belt , even fabricated ,
peeps are entitled to voice an opinion on issues , and different opinions keep things interesting ,
but bullying an mud slinging isnt nice to read x

[thewren]

Unfortunately nastiness adds to the entertainment value, is it the time of year, short dark cold days who knows.
As they say it costs nothing to be nice.

[Alyssa Jenkins]

Unfortunately nastiness adds to the entertainment value, is it the time of year, short dark cold days who knows.
As they say it costs nothing to be nice.

I also experience the feeling that it is nice to be nice perhaps we could urge others to try it and see what a wonderful feeling it is rather than being mean and miserable xxx

[Alyssa Jenkins]

[QUOTE=mature abby;1025506]Your dead right allyssa we all here for the same reason ,and nobody is better than anyone else
some of the things said here of late are way below the belt , even fabricated ,
peeps are entitled to voice an opinion on issues , and different opinions keep things interesting ,
but bullying an mud slinging isnt nice to read x[/QUOTE

Yes i find cyber bullying deeply disturbing as it has impacts on people in real life....xxx

[mymann]

I have been reading the forums recently with total lack of interest and a feeling that there is much nastiness on here. It has become like the kind of place you log into if you feel like reading unpleasant threads where there is always insults going around?

I found myself wondering is it not easier to be nice and civil and actually have conversations rather than bitching all the time.

I do not know about other posters but as an occasional poster but quite frequent reader of forums that this type of carry on makes me reluctant to post and sometimes even read threads at all....

I think as an escort forum things should be alot more friendly and people should not be hurling insults at others all the time or has this community become this way?

Why discuss other peoples private business here and why go on and insult people with malicious gossip?
This used to be a place where people posted about all types of things and could openly have a debate without things getting nasty.

So imo the forum recently has become a most unfriendly place to be...There are ofcourse decent posters here and some threads are actually interesting however they are far and few in between.

May I appeal to posters to try and maintain this community and be nice to one another and save the nastiness for another place? xxx

Alyssa, i try to be nice to people,
I agree with you some make a career out of being nasty,
but maybe i'm wrong, maybe it's done tongue in check for to have some fun, and provoke others,!!!!!!!!!!!

[mature abby]

Alyssa, i try to be nice to people,
I agree with you some make a career out of being nasty,
but maybe i'm wrong, maybe it's done tongue in check for to have some fun, and provoke others,!!!!!!!!!!!

whats that saying many true word said in jest x

[Alyssa Jenkins]

Alyssa, i try to be nice to people,
I agree with you some make a career out of being nasty,
but maybe i'm wrong, maybe it's done tongue in check for to have some fun, and provoke others,!!!!!!!!!!!

You my dear are always nice. Its sad though that some people would have 'Fun' at the expense of others..I know this is only a forum but many people suffer from cyber bullying and it has serious impacts on some people.
Provoking others would never be fun to me either. I love to smile and laugh and just be happy and positive xxx