double bookings - why!!!!

[saoirsemac]

This statement without any form of qualification "usernames of those that carry out this practice" appears to be nothing more than a attempt to discredit anyone that refuses to accept that the escorts are the only ones having there time wasted . And for one I would be very interested in hearing what if any action EI would be prepared to take against members that can be proved to make bookings they have no intention of attending.

We punters have always the option of leaving a review when on the occasions we have our time wasted so I would like to think that escorts paying for advertising here have some form of protection from those that abuse there membership status to make this kind of trouble for the escorts.



I could not agree more with this, I have I think made only 2 bookings by PM as I much prefer to actually speak to the escort on the phone. And im sure that actually hearing a clients voice and phone manner give a far better guide to the ladies as to what type of person they are dealing than a PM ever could.

sorry im trying to discredit people? im not the only one saying this
so unfair to acuse me of discrediting memembers, i mention no names

naming and shaming on public forums is silly, better the devil you know
somethings are handled privately for this reason

[Martin Ward]

sorry im trying to discredit people? im not the only one saying this
so unfair to acuse me of discrediting memembers, i mention no names

naming and shaming on public forums is silly, better the devil you know
somethings are handled privately for this reason

Exactly...neither escort of forum user will get publicly hung on here

[blue8671]

see one would need to understand the nature of the business

i said ei forum memembers the ones who try to have pm relationships are high time wasters

i cud easily say ei forum memembers have never been more than 10% of my clients. but wasted prob more of my time

i like people calling and booking, or even pm me time and duration and show up lovely,

90% of clients do not know about the forums, i have clients who do not know wat a computer is, but sex shops print our ei adds off and hand them out

ei is top of the listings, so of course u will advertise here, ive just come to the point i dislike forum memembers, coz of the high number of timewaster amongst the FORUM memembers,

i think my annoyence is i expect them to far more geniue than a man who rings me out of the blue, they read here, hear about timewasters, so u just expect more form them,

btw the same ones preeching about not wasting time, often do the same anyway

i hope that cleared it up, its wud be a pretty shitty business if only memembers here where the clients, wudnt be too many punters then

all true steph,

for me anyway, i like the phone call, when u accept a pm ur often tied to it

hearing someone voice etc, puts me at ease

we all work different sure, i like touring i can bored in one place, plus even tho im irish i seen very little of ireland

touring is the perfect excuse for me!

sorry im trying to discredit people? im not the only one saying this
so unfair to acuse me of discrediting memembers, i mention no names

naming and shaming on public forums is silly, better the devil you know
somethings are handled privately for this reason

Well by your statement "btw the same ones preeching about not wasting time, often do the same anyway" either by intention or accident you are discrediting anyone that objects to having there time wasted in the forums.

naming and shaming on public forums is silly, I agree and is this not why the escorts have there own private section were they can share information of this type safe in the knowledge that clients cannot see it ?

If you make a statement accusing those that dare to question your statement that those who complain about having there time wasted are likley to in turn waste a escorts time then please dont get upset when someone has a issue with it.

Exactly...neither escort of forum user will get publicly hung on here

Perfectly acceptable Martin, but if a statement is made bringing into question the right of posters to comment on a subject without there reputation being brought into question should this not be done in the private section ? Or even better should registered members that for whatever reason waste escorts time not be reported directly to the moderators were action can be taken to prevent this happening again. This would be of benifit to both escorts reducing the amount of timewasters and also genuine clients by giving perhaps a little more confidance to the escorts they approach by PM that it is in fact a genuine booking.

[blue8671]

Actually I got a great feeling from your pms and enjoyed them very much ..

Thank you Rachel, your a wee star

[bigfellow]

Look boys in a nutshell if the bird doesn't answer the phone move on for fuck sake .stop bitching its not as if its your first date lol.

Fitzy,

I have to say, maybe I've been lucky with never being the victim of a double booking, but in a town the size of mine, it's not easy to just ring another girl that appeals to you since the choice isn't usually all that large. Before Christmas the average number of girls working this town was 10-20 since Christmas, this has dwindled to between 5-10 and not all of them would be ones that a wise punter would be happy to book. I usually ring the lady of my choice as I leave the house in order to be there within 20 minutes but if I'm travelling I might make an advance booking and I'd hate to drive 30 miles only to find out that the slot had been filled so to speak by somebody else especially after ringing to confirm the booking 30 minutes prior to arrival outside the place I'd been told to show up.

[classyenglishmature]

Try if you will to imagine this senario
You have just had a 2hr journey (by bus or train,not a comfy car going directly from and to your destination) and then had to mess about looking or finding a taxi.You arrive at the hotel and pay 100 euro,sometimes more,or worse still to an apartment where you only have time to dump your suitcase which is full of outfits toys etc that clients request you to have and have to go out and buy cleaning stuff and milk before you can even put the kettle on..spend the next couple of hrs cleaning the place cos the last girl has left it in a shithole.(ok not so in an hotel..but still had the journey and the expense)
Finally get a much needed cup of coffee,shower,dressed and make up done
phone rings and a guy says he would like an appointment in 10 mins time..ok you say..ring me when you get to such and such a place
phone rings again and a guy says he would like an appointment in 30 mins time.you say sorry I cant oblige I have an appointment in 10 mins.
Now..the guy who was supposed to be there in 10 mins doesnt show and you have turned away what might have been a genuine appointment
Imagine this happens 20 times throughout the day and tell me what you would do !!!!!

[blue8671]

Try if you will to imagine this senario
You have just had a 2hr journey (by bus or train,not a comfy car going directly from and to your destination) and then had to mess about looking or finding a taxi.You arrive at the hotel and pay 100 euro,sometimes more,or worse still to an apartment where you only have time to dump your suitcase which is full of outfits toys etc that clients request you to have and have to go out and buy cleaning stuff and milk before you can even put the kettle on..spend the next couple of hrs cleaning the place cos the last girl has left it in a shithole.(ok not so in an hotel..but still had the journey and the expense)
Finally get a much needed cup of coffee,shower,dressed and make up done
phone rings and a guy says he would like an appointment in 10 mins time..ok you say..ring me when you get to such and such a place
phone rings again and a guy says he would like an appointment in 30 mins time.you say sorry I cant oblige I have an appointment in 10 mins.
Now..the guy who was supposed to be there in 10 mins doesnt show and you have turned away what might have been a genuine appointment
Imagine this happens 20 times throughout the day and tell me what you would do !!!!!

Understandibly very flustrating for you but as I have said there are two sides to every argument,

Ok I decide to visit a escort I need to plan the next few days to open a window for the appointment, so I arrange meetings and various jobs throught Ireland to keep my boss happy and at the same time free up a hour to visit a lady. The day arrives and I phone to book a appointment and arrange a time, I spend the morning doing all the jobs planned and running about trying to make sure I have no reason to cancel and leave myself enough time to get home and shower and shave and generally make sure im presentable. I phone a hour beforehand to confirm everything is still ok then jump into the car for the 45 to 60min drive to reach the nearest reasonable sized town that has a desent selection of escorts, on arriving I find a safe secure place to park and with 5 or 10mins before the planned time call to get the exact location. Only after the time has well and gone it is obvious the escort has either decided to take another booking or just cant be bothered to answer her phone.

So I have not just wasted a hour but probably had my entire week messed up for nothing, so what should I do perhaps take a leaf out of the escorts book and double book two escorts for the same time to make sure I dont end up having my time wasted ? Unfortunatly I have to much respect for both escorts and myself to sink to this level so I end up pissed of by unprofessional behaviour and then have to listen to people on here complain when it happens to them.

Im not interested in which came first the chicken or the egg arguments, and I firmly beleive that both sides are just a guilty as the other.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Understandibly very flustrating for you but as I have said there are two sides to every argument,

Ok I decide to visit a escort I need to plan the next few days to open a window for the appointment, so I arrange meetings and various jobs throught Ireland to keep my boss happy and at the same time free up a hour to visit a lady. The day arrives and I phone to book a appointment and arrange a time, I spend the morning doing all the jobs planned and running about trying to make sure I have no reason to cancel and leave myself enough time to get home and shower and shave and generally make sure im presentable. I phone a hour beforehand to confirm everything is still ok then jump into the car for the 45 to 60min drive to reach the nearest reasonable sized town that has a desent selection of escorts, on arriving I find a safe secure place to park and with 5 or 10mins before the planned time call to get the exact location. Only after the time has well and gone it is obvious the escort has either decided to take another booking or just cant be bothered to answer her phone.

So I have not just wasted a hour but probably had my entire week messed up for nothing, so what should I do perhaps take a leaf out of the escorts book and double book two escorts for the same time to make sure I dont end up having my time wasted ? Unfortunatly I have to much respect for both escorts and myself to sink to this level so I end up pissed of by unprofessional behaviour and then have to listen to people on here complain when it happens to them.

Im not interested in which came first the chicken or the egg arguments, and I firmly beleive that both sides are just a guilty as the other.

When you see someone new that is the chance you take. They don't know you or if you are reliable/trustworthy and have to work in a way that suits them best. If I were a client I would play safe on the days I have to plan ahead and go to someone I have met before, someone who already knows I'm reliable and not be tempted to double book 'in case' I don't turn up and the days where I can be impulsive, with no risk of wasting my time I would go see someone new.

I'm sure it is very rare you have been let down by a lady you have met before, so the principle generally works.

[blue8671]

When you see someone new that is the chance you take. They don't know you or if you are reliable/trustworthy and have to work in a way that suits them best. If I were a client I would play safe on the days I have to plan ahead and go to someone I have met before, someone who already knows I'm reliable and not be tempted to double book 'in case' I don't turn up and the days where I can be impulsive, with no risk of wasting my time I would go see someone new.

I'm sure it is very rare you have been let down by a lady you have met before, so the principle generally works.

Very well said and I totally agree with your point, I have to admit I have never been let down by a lady I have met before my problem is that like a kid in a sweet shop I find myself spoilt by the choice of beautiful ladies here.