Okay thanks Samlad. I guessed that the third option was the stronger one so that's what I picked.
Escorts have a duty to provide any service that they list.
Clients should understand that favourites are at the discretion of the escort.
Escorts have the right to decline their advertised services for any reason.
There has to be a legitimate reason as to why an escort should decline a service.
Okay thanks Samlad. I guessed that the third option was the stronger one so that's what I picked.
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Maybe a dislikes would be better than a favourites. Then you know for sure what is off the menu. What they will do is then at their full discretion.
I know some escorts do things that are not on their favourites list but you are only going to find this out when you have your punt.. or not at all if you don't.
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I don't think that would work as most people would disregard the 'I don't do the following...' disclaimer and would assume that it is a list of things that they would do. I created a fake female profile on a swingers site a couple of years ago and stated clearly, "I don't do bareback" and yet after a few days, the inbox was crammed full of messages telling me that I am sexy (even thought I had no picture) and wondered if I did bareback sex.Originally Posted by fiatpunter
The issue is that people DON'T read the information, or only read what they want to. Selective seeing I like to call it.
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Personally I believe it is up to the escort to say no if they don't fancy doing something's they have listed as their favs , but it would be nice if they gave the client an reason . ie. there's a bad smell, it's too big, etc...
Rather than listing something that they would never do .
If an escort is unwilling to do certain things then it shouldn't be on their list of favs .
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I refuse to put my tongue in a place I dont want to and for the reason ... Yeah I would love to see one s face when I tell him he is smelly ...
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I have a very limited list of favorites, but on my intro I do say that some other favorites MAY be available ..Escorts shouldn't do anything they're not happy or comfortable with.
Listing the minimal services you offer helps weed out the dirty / unhygienic / hard-work / demanding guys a fair bit
When somone calls me and immediately wants to know what those other favorites may be, I'm usually just turned off and won't take
the booking. Those people in my mind are the ones who want more and more and more than what you are prepared to give..
I occasionally will ask back : do you have anything specific in mind ? If they do, it's a very simple conversation,
as my answer usually is no. I won't commit -sight unseen- to anything more than what is already listed..
If they don't have anything specific in mind and they are just asking.. well, usually those are the timewasters..
I have very little patience for them, and nor would I discuss any sexual acts over the phone.. that's eww for me..
I said this before : Have an open mind, expect nothing, and go with the flow.. makes for a wonderful 'go' .. -- with me
Based on the level of my personal happiness and on my reviews, I would say this approach works just fine -- for me xx
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Best way to get advertised favourites, and maybe some unadvertised ones is to be nice, polite and above all squeaky clean. But at the end of the day it is the escorts choice what she wants to do.
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Would you know that she's unwilling to do it with everyone, or is she just unwilling to do it with you ?
[I'm not being personal, just don't know how else, how better to say it..]
There are things I am willing and eager to do with one person, but would not in a million years do with another.. and that's why
those things would not be listed.. Personal hygiene, looks, energy between us, body, horniness, chemistry, all come into play..
The less you ask for , the more you shall receive.. The easier the attitude, the more relaxed your approach, the
more fun the encounter. (Oh and for the record : of course, goes without saying that even the listed favs are at my discretion)
Instead of a shopping list, just get lost in the moment xx (well, given that the escort is pleasant and is interested in your happiness.)
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I read the favs listed before I visit a lady an if we'll say facesitting is not listed I'll not visit, but if it is listed and I visit the lady, then she says no I don't do that . I would be a little pissed off as she had listed it so I would appreciate a reason
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The issue with an escort being honest is that some clients do come across as a little aggressive, so if you were to imagine an escort having to tell one of these people that they don't want to perform OWO because their hygiene isn't exactly tip-top, you can expect that to be a rather uncomfortable situation.
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