Do Clothes Make a Man .. ?

[JAMESCORK]

And you so dashing xx

What you mean Im always in a hurry...like.

I both agree and disagree with Christian Grey. Clothes can make a man, especially in the eyes of the ladies. A well dressed man will always attract attention faster than a yob in sloppy clothes. Some men I know have the potential to be charming and suave, but for some reason they dress like a knacker. Then they wonder why they cant pull??

[Big J]

What you mean Im always in a hurry...like.

I both agree and disagree with Christian Grey. Clothes can make a man, especially in the eyes of the ladies. A well dressed man will always attract attention faster than a yob in sloppy clothes. Some men I know have the potential to be charming and suave, but for some reason they dress like a knacker. Then they wonder why they cant pull??

Eh James,they probabely dont know what a knacker is.....like

[Christian Grey]

What you mean Im always in a hurry...like.

I both agree and disagree with Christian Grey. Clothes can make a man, especially in the eyes of the ladies. A well dressed man will always attract attention faster than a yob in sloppy clothes. Some men I know have the potential to be charming and suave, but for some reason they dress like a knacker. Then they wonder why they cant pull??

Yes I agree with your point that women will be more attracted to a well dress man; thats why I said on occasions a effort should be made, like going out on the town.

But like Stephanie has said when your at home or work, people wear more humble type clothes, its not possible to be constantly well turned out.

Ha, but I never understood why some lads have to wear the whole matching tracksuit with their trousers tucked into their white socks in their white runners. Definitely sending bad signals.

[EnglishAlex]

Clothes don't make a man. A scumbag is a scumbag whether he wears a suit, jeans and work boots or a tracksuit. In fact, I find many suit wearers to be pompous pricks who think their shit doesn't stink.

Only last week I told a regular client I'd no longer see him due to his inability to wash his ass, his blatant overstaying and his horrid attitude. He seemed shocked to the core. A prostitute asking him to leave and never return? Who knew! His attire? A hugely expensive suit, handmade shoes and discreetly expensive watch.

That wolf in sheeps clothing isn't fooling anybody but himself imo.

[justfrank44]

I dress in casual attire and make it look scruffy, If I wear a suit I look as if I am in a straight jacket, just can´t relax.And I have no sense of style. Oh and I have never been able to attract women. God knows how I ended up married.

[dark-knight]

Jeans, tee and jacket might put on a wool jumper or something. Never wear a suit unless I have to. Never wear a tie unless I have to. I am not a salesman thank god.

[saoirsemac]

no clothes do not make someone, its a shallow outlook coz u could end up overlooking a good person

as long as someone is hygienic and clean, obviously work clothes get dirty now, but cares for personal hygiene

after that i wudnt judge,

ive met many a scumbag with a posh accent in a suit, and many the lovely kind decent person, in a tracksuit form dunnes


its a person who i judge, not how they look or dressed, and i honestly feel sorry for people who do judge like that

as i mentioned, they good miss out on a great person

[Clyde]

no clothes do not make someone, its a shallow outlook coz u could end up overlooking a good person

as long as someone is hygienic and clean, obviously work clothes get dirty now, but cares for personal hygiene

after that i wudnt judge,

ive met many a scumbag with a posh accent in a suit, and many the lovely kind decent person, in a tracksuit form dunnes


its a person who i judge, not how they look or dressed, and i honestly feel sorry for people who do judge like that

as i mentioned, they good miss out on a great person

Oh how true a lot of suit types are scum but its first impressions I think we're talking about bonnie loves to see the guys that are relaxed and a bit of crac the suits tend to be stuck up but as I said in my post its about first impression ......

[Curvaceous Kate]

I believe in appropriate dressing and dressing to suit your mood. After all who ever is 2 dimensional? We all have different sides to us.

If you are attending an interview for an office job, then wearing a suit would more likely get you the job than wearing jeans, whereas going for a job as a youth worker, jeans might be far more appropriate.

I have to say that Kate and I don't dress the same very often. Part of the reason for that is not wanting to be easily identifiable and the other being that Kate needs to get my blood racing and put me in the mood for fun. Wearing my sloppy joes and cosy socks is not going to put me in the right mood, but it certainly does when it is time to curl up in front of the box with a glass of wine.

There is also the aspect of wearing what you can afford. Before I started Escorting I had very little choice as to what I could wear and still wore clothes that I had bought 15 years+. They may have suited me back then, but may not have done while I was wearing them 15 years later and likely looked dated, but not being one for searching through 2nd hand shops due to time constraints, I had very little choice. I see things I would love to wear now, but mostly compromise and remind myself of targets not yet met and reward myself when I have met a small one. For instance, I love my boots. They are very me, but spending £110 on a pair of boots even 2 years ago would have been unforgivable.

Wearing clothes purely to impress other people for no real purpose seems a bit pointless though. I think the way you wear the clothes will often give you away if they don't reflect who you are. Your posture, the way the clothing sits and your demeanor will speak volumes.

[very shy guy]

I believe in appropriate dressing and dressing to suit your mood. After all who ever is 2 dimensional? We all have different sides to us.

If you are attending an interview for an office job, then wearing a suit would more likely get you the job than wearing jeans, whereas going for a job as a youth worker, jeans might be far more appropriate.

I have to say that Kate and I don't dress the same very often. Part of the reason for that is not wanting to be easily identifiable and the other being that Kate needs to get my blood racing and put me in the mood for fun. Wearing my sloppy joes and cosy socks is not going to put me in the right mood, but it certainly does when it is time to curl up in front of the box with a glass of wine.

There is also the aspect of wearing what you can afford. Before I started Escorting I had very little choice as to what I could wear and still wore clothes that I had bought 15 years+. They may have suited me back then, but may not have done while I was wearing them 15 years later and likely looked dated, but not being one for searching through 2nd hand shops due to time constraints, I had very little choice. I see things I would love to wear now, but mostly compromise and remind myself of targets not yet met and reward myself when I have met a small one. For instance, I love my boots. They are very me, but spending £110 on a pair of boots even 2 years ago would have been unforgivable.

Wearing clothes purely to impress other people for no real purpose seems a bit pointless though. I think the way you wear the clothes will often give you away if they don't reflect who you are. Your posture, the way the clothing sits and your demeanor will speak volumes.

Forgive me for saying this Kate but curling up in front of a fire or a telly with you in your sloppy joe's and cosy socks sounds like a great night to me,I promise to wash the wellies first.