Do Clothes Make a Man .. ?

[very shy guy]

I dress in casual attire and make it look scruffy, If I wear a suit I look as if I am in a straight jacket, just can´t relax.And I have no sense of style. Oh and I have never been able to attract women. God knows how I ended up married.

Awww go on JF,tell us your secret,should I ditch the wellies ?.

[saoirsemac]

no clothes do not make someone, its a shallow outlook coz u could end up overlooking a good person

as long as someone is hygienic and clean, obviously work clothes get dirty now, but cares for personal hygiene

after that i wudnt judge,

ive met many a scumbag with a posh accent in a suit, and many the lovely kind decent person, in a tracksuit form dunnes


its a person who i judge, not how they look or dressed, and i honestly feel sorry for people who do judge like that

as i mentioned, they good miss out on a great person

[justfrank44]

Awww go on JF,tell us your secret,should I ditch the wellies ?.

Ok, but just between you and me, try rohypnol

[Clyde]

Yes a man should look clean cut for certain occasions to make an impression, like interviews dates etc . It's about self respect and also respect for the lady that you and her good self look well and feel well it's dependent on the situation say you go to meet the bank manager you need to look smart it gives an impression that your professional but if you over do it it can be patronising and make him look inferior. If you walk into a room looking drab no one looks. But say you are in a trade you need to look like your on that trade but clean.

[very shy guy]

Ok, but just between you and me, try rohypnol

All joking aside JF,no, I like my women awake,besides the smell off my wellies I don't need rohypnol.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I believe in appropriate dressing and dressing to suit your mood. After all who ever is 2 dimensional? We all have different sides to us.

If you are attending an interview for an office job, then wearing a suit would more likely get you the job than wearing jeans, whereas going for a job as a youth worker, jeans might be far more appropriate.

I have to say that Kate and I don't dress the same very often. Part of the reason for that is not wanting to be easily identifiable and the other being that Kate needs to get my blood racing and put me in the mood for fun. Wearing my sloppy joes and cosy socks is not going to put me in the right mood, but it certainly does when it is time to curl up in front of the box with a glass of wine.

There is also the aspect of wearing what you can afford. Before I started Escorting I had very little choice as to what I could wear and still wore clothes that I had bought 15 years+. They may have suited me back then, but may not have done while I was wearing them 15 years later and likely looked dated, but not being one for searching through 2nd hand shops due to time constraints, I had very little choice. I see things I would love to wear now, but mostly compromise and remind myself of targets not yet met and reward myself when I have met a small one. For instance, I love my boots. They are very me, but spending £110 on a pair of boots even 2 years ago would have been unforgivable.

Wearing clothes purely to impress other people for no real purpose seems a bit pointless though. I think the way you wear the clothes will often give you away if they don't reflect who you are. Your posture, the way the clothing sits and your demeanor will speak volumes.

[Clyde]

no clothes do not make someone, its a shallow outlook coz u could end up overlooking a good person

as long as someone is hygienic and clean, obviously work clothes get dirty now, but cares for personal hygiene

after that i wudnt judge,

ive met many a scumbag with a posh accent in a suit, and many the lovely kind decent person, in a tracksuit form dunnes


its a person who i judge, not how they look or dressed, and i honestly feel sorry for people who do judge like that

as i mentioned, they good miss out on a great person

Oh how true a lot of suit types are scum but its first impressions I think we're talking about bonnie loves to see the guys that are relaxed and a bit of crac the suits tend to be stuck up but as I said in my post its about first impression ......

[very shy guy]

I believe in appropriate dressing and dressing to suit your mood. After all who ever is 2 dimensional? We all have different sides to us.

If you are attending an interview for an office job, then wearing a suit would more likely get you the job than wearing jeans, whereas going for a job as a youth worker, jeans might be far more appropriate.

I have to say that Kate and I don't dress the same very often. Part of the reason for that is not wanting to be easily identifiable and the other being that Kate needs to get my blood racing and put me in the mood for fun. Wearing my sloppy joes and cosy socks is not going to put me in the right mood, but it certainly does when it is time to curl up in front of the box with a glass of wine.

There is also the aspect of wearing what you can afford. Before I started Escorting I had very little choice as to what I could wear and still wore clothes that I had bought 15 years+. They may have suited me back then, but may not have done while I was wearing them 15 years later and likely looked dated, but not being one for searching through 2nd hand shops due to time constraints, I had very little choice. I see things I would love to wear now, but mostly compromise and remind myself of targets not yet met and reward myself when I have met a small one. For instance, I love my boots. They are very me, but spending £110 on a pair of boots even 2 years ago would have been unforgivable.

Wearing clothes purely to impress other people for no real purpose seems a bit pointless though. I think the way you wear the clothes will often give you away if they don't reflect who you are. Your posture, the way the clothing sits and your demeanor will speak volumes.

Forgive me for saying this Kate but curling up in front of a fire or a telly with you in your sloppy joe's and cosy socks sounds like a great night to me,I promise to wash the wellies first.

[saoirsemac]

Oh how true a lot of suit types are scum but its first impressions I think we're talking about bonnie loves to see the guys that are relaxed and a bit of crac the suits tend to be stuck up but as I said in my post its about first impression ......

we all judge first impression differently

some will judge clothes and looks, or some will judge how someone acts

now of course u shudnt wear a tracksuit too a wedding interview etc

but on a day to day basis, it what a person says and acts that i consider first impressions

not what make his shoes are or his suit


plus lads wearing trackies in dublin esp a nice north dub boy are decent shags often good stamina form running form garda



but no, we shud try not judge on looks or dress imho

[thewren]

Are we not all born naked, it's what's inside that counts. '
Just a thought.