Why Men Cheat

[MrFussy]

How I perceive something and how my partner perceives it may of course be two different things entirely.!

Having said that if I was caught enjoying the odd run 'n' tug, I doubt very much that she would find that a deal breaker.

You appear to have been on the receiving end of the wrath of your own partner- I hope everything works out for you.

Thankyou, everything has:-) but I do regret not having the maturity to deal with my relationship problems directly with my ex-wife and some subsequent partners. There was no wrath to deal with, there was just the realisation on my part of the hurt and devastation I had caused.
I was never honest from the start as regards anything so it just gave me a selfish excuse to continue in my ways. I am not judging anyone here, but just call it like it is, sticking your penis in another womans vagina, i.e. a woman that is not your partner or wife, I think that would be regarded as cheating, whether you are paying for the privilege or not is immaterial. Just my humble opinion mind.

[Clyde]

Just because you shag an escort every now and then doesnt mean you are in a bad relationship.

No but your being dishonest... now I realise every relationship is different and there can be other issues there like your partner cant have sex through medical issues, but the majority don't as fussy says it will cause hurt beyond belief and then the wrath will be upon you and at that point it is your fault. A good relationship is one that you can tell the truth and work it out.

[Baxter]

Thankyou, everything has:-) but I do regret not having the maturity to deal with my relationship problems directly with my ex-wife and some subsequent partners. There was no wrath to deal with, there was just the realisation on my part of the hurt and devastation I had caused.
I was never honest from the start as regards anything so it just gave me a selfish excuse to continue in my ways. I am not judging anyone here, but just call it like it is, sticking your penis in another womans vagina, i.e. a woman that is not your partner or wife, I think that would be regarded as cheating, whether you are paying for the privilege or not is immaterial. Just my humble opinion mind.

Hopefully, I will never get to test this. Let's say that twice a year Mr. A and the lads go to see Man U at Old Trafford and each time for the last 5 years Mr.A shags Olga an escort from EE. It is acknowledged that Mr.A always ensures that he does not jeopardise the sexual health of his partner and never has any other dalliances of a sexual nature.

Mr.B on the otherhand has never been with an escort but fell in love with a female partner in KPMG ( mmmm! ) and had a wild affair with her for 6 months.

Both get found out by their respective partners. Who would you think stands the best chance of keeping the relationship going -- A or B ? ( no Man U jokes pls ! )

[Baxter]

No but your being dishonest... now I realise every relationship is different and there can be other issues there like your partner cant have sex through medical issues, but the majority don't as fussy says it will cause hurt beyond belief and then the wrath will be upon you and at that point it is your fault. A good relationship is one that you can tell the truth and work it out.

I have no doubt that there are many good and strong relationships out there where there is not 100% truth all of the time. Thats just something we see on american tv .

[Clyde]

I have no doubt that there are many good and strong relationships out there where there is not 100% truth all of the time. Thats just something we see on american tv .

Nope I say all now I've learned my lesson

[MrFussy]

Hopefully, I will never get to test this. Let's say that twice a year Mr. A and the lads go to see Man U at Old Trafford and each time for the last 5 years Mr.A shags Olga an escort from EE. It is acknowledged that Mr.A always ensures that he does not jeopardise the sexual health of his partner and never has any other dalliances of a sexual nature.

Mr.B on the otherhand has never been with an escort but fell in love with a female partner in KPMG ( mmmm! ) and had a wild affair with her for 6 months.

Both get found out by their respective partners. Who would you think stands the best chance of keeping the relationship going -- A or B ? ( no Man U jokes pls ! )

You bring up a few points with your reply but as regards making the relationship last, the person who is willing to put in the commitment and work to make it work will stand the best chance. For some of us it takes an event like this to make us face up to what is actually required in a relationship. Aspects such as loyalty and trust are built up over time and rebuilding them takes a lot of work....as you bring up football teams, it's an interesting parallel, men show more loyalty as regards supporting a football team than they appear to do to partners:-)

[Rachel Divine]

If only we could say the same for you

Google translate is broken most of the time

[Rachel Divine]

No problem. An STI or STD means a sexually transmitted infection or disease.

Escorts provide protected services and check themselves. We have a shower more than once a day and take care of our body more than many women out of sex industry do.

[Big J]

The upside to this is that men are basically week to temptation,there can be different circumstances why they start to look in the first place.It does nt take much then to tempt a man to cheat.

[Tommy H]

If men did not cheat!
Business would be poor for you all !