Gwendoline: A tv or ts?

[Gwendoline]

This is an issue that I have been debating myself for a long time now. I would like to tell you my story. My name is Gwendoline, originally from the Philippines and now living in London. I have actively joined the scene about 5 years ago, as I have always wanted to be a girl from the age of five and secretly borrowing my sister's clothes and her makeup. Philippines is a Catholic country but not very strict with LGBT, but more of a laughing stock especially if you are a T Girl.

I have arrived in London 10 years ago and gradually started my transition from dressing up part time especially when clubbing. I think those are the days that gave me confident and shaped me who I am today. I am not getting anymore younger so I had to pursue my dreams to become the person who I want to be, A WOMAN.

I have been living as a woman for well over a year now - which they have willingly accepted me at the workplace to be a woman, as they find me convincing enough. Im on hormones for nearly a year now but not getting any luck with my boobs to grow.

My knowledge with the scene is that a girl is considered a TV when she doesn't have boobs. This is simply a man who occasionally dressed in woman's clothing and wears a wig? Some call them a 'hairy panty-wearer'. A TS without a doubt is someone who have boobs. But anyone can be a TS overnight right? A 'hairy panty-wearer' can go to the surgeon anytime and will have boobs the next day, so that is technically a TS now and of course advertising as a TS.

I still am not convinced that I am a TS then, so all my advertisements are on the TV section until I visited Dublin. I have inundated with millions of phone calls everyday and received an overwhelming compliments how convincing I am for a TV. I then told my story and they all said that I am a TS not TV and I should be advertising on the TS section so I did. I did a lot of research asking people about myself and my story & still received the same feedback, but says it depends with some people who looked at it, as some will still consider me as a TV. I just think that I should say something on my ads regarding this?

I am writing this thread, as some people have who have previously seen me on the TV section have been commenting why I am now on the TS section. Some says on the threads that I am merely a man in lingerie! I am truly hurt...

Please convince me if I am a TV or TS, as I do not wish to mislead people. I am a very genuine person, kind, loveable and have a very positive attitude about life and I certainly do not lie.

What do you think guys? I look forward to this discussion.

Sincerely,

Gwendoline

PS I will not be offended regardless of the outcome

[JohnRambo]

Hey Gwendoline firstly I want to start off by saying welcome to the board, you’ll find we’re a pretty nice bunch here and we do like to have a laugh although just like every walk off life it can have its downs as we don't always agree on everything but that’s human nature I guess but overall its good craic so welcome.

What I have to say Gwendoline is basically this, I personally after reading your story would think of you completely as a TS. The fact is you’re living your life as a woman and you’re receiving hormones, its not your fault they unfortunately haven’t helped your body to create boobs but I’m sure that will come. Like I said you’re living your life as a woman and you are not dressing up now and then so no I would not think of you at all as a TV.

I really don’t know what more to say to you I hope this little bit I have said might help and put your mind at ease.

Either way just be who you are and try not to be getting hung-up on names and labels to describe yourself is my final word and advice on this, I’m sure you’re a lovely person and I’m sure you will reach the end of your body transformation one day, I just hope its a smooth one.

All the best, and enjoy the board. x

[anon361]

Going by this definition I would agree you would technically be considered a TS..

TS: Transsexual: a person who has gender dysphoria (feels they have been born in the wrong body) and takes hormones and undergoes surgery to change their sex.

Now you are on the ladder and have not fully climbed to where you want to be so I cannot say if people who go to see TS escorts would be expecting boobs or not but that is only one aspect of your body and I already said yuo look great in your pics so I cannot see why they wouldn't be happy.

[ber]

This is an issue that I have been debating myself for a long time now. I would like to tell you my story. My name is Gwendoline, originally from the Philippines and now living in London. I have actively joined the scene about 5 years ago, as I have always wanted to be a girl from the age of five and secretly borrowing my sister's clothes and her makeup. Philippines is a Catholic country but not very strict with LGBT, but more of a laughing stock especially if you are a T Girl.

I have arrived in London 10 years ago and gradually started my transition from dressing up part time especially when clubbing. I think those are the days that gave me confident and shaped me who I am today. I am not getting anymore younger so I had to pursue my dreams to become the person who I want to be, A WOMAN.

I have been living as a woman for well over a year now - which they have willingly accepted me at the workplace to be a woman, as they find me convincing enough. Im on hormones for nearly a year now but not getting any luck with my boobs to grow.

My knowledge with the scene is that a girl is considered a TV when she doesn't have boobs. This is simply a man who occasionally dressed in woman's clothing and wears a wig? Some call them a 'hairy panty-wearer'. A TS without a doubt is someone who have boobs. But anyone can be a TS overnight right? A 'hairy panty-wearer' can go to the surgeon anytime and will have boobs the next day, so that is technically a TS now and of course advertising as a TS.

I still am not convinced that I am a TS then, so all my advertisements are on the TV section until I visited Dublin. I have inundated with millions of phone calls everyday and received an overwhelming compliments how convincing I am for a TV. I then told my story and they all said that I am a TS not TV and I should be advertising on the TS section so I did. I did a lot of research asking people about myself and my story & still received the same feedback, but says it depends with some people who looked at it, as some will still consider me as a TV. I just think that I should say something on my ads regarding this?

I am writing this thread, as some people have who have previously seen me on the TV section have been commenting why I am now on the TS section. Some says on the threads that I am merely a man in lingerie! I am truly hurt...

Please convince me if I am a TV or TS, as I do not wish to mislead people. I am a very genuine person, kind, loveable and have a very positive attitude about life and I certainly do not lie.

What do you think guys? I look forward to this discussion.

Sincerely,

Gwendoline

PS I will not be offended regardless of the outcome

I think this was a very brave thread to write and took alot of guts

[Gwendoline]

"Hey Gwendoline firstly I want to start off by saying welcome to the board, you’ll find we’re a pretty nice bunch here and we do like to have a laugh although just like every walk off life it can have its downs as we don't always agree on everything but that’s human nature I guess but overall its good craic so welcome.

What I have to say Gwendoline is basically this, I personally after reading your story would think of you completely as a TS. The fact is you’re living your life as a woman and you’re receiving hormones, its not your fault they unfortunately haven’t helped your body to create boobs but I’m sure that will come. Like I said you’re living your life as a woman and you are not dressing up now and then so no I would not think of you at all as a TV.

I really don’t know what more to say to you I hope this little bit I have said might help and put your mind at ease.

Either way just be who you are and try not to be getting hung-up on names and labels to describe yourself is my final word and advice on this, I’m sure you’re a lovely person and I’m sure you will reach the end of your body transformation one day, I just hope its a smooth one.

All the best, and enjoy the board. x
Last edited by JohnRambo; Today at 01:22."


Thank you for your reply. I just had to be 100% sure that I am on the right section or label, as I do not want to mislead people.
I felt that I had to write this and defend myself as I have seen comments about me that I am advertising on the TS section and just man in a lingerie. Thanks again. I love Ireland

[Gwendoline]

Going by this definition I would agree you would technically be considered a TS..

TS: Transsexual: a person who has gender dysphoria (feels they have been born in the wrong body) and takes hormones and undergoes surgery to change their sex.

Now you are on the ladder and have not fully climbed to where you want to be so I cannot say if people who go to see TS escorts would be expecting boobs or not but that is only one aspect of your body and I already said yuo look great in your pics so I cannot see why they wouldn't be happy.

Thanks for this. Most guys go to TS sections bec they want boobs and I dont have. I just have to be clear with my ad now I think, as people would assume that I have them and certainly do not want to have any trouble

[Tommy H]

Hi Gwendoline!
I don't think there is any point in worrying what you describe yourself as !
I think it takes a lot of guts to write this thread and highlight your dilemma !
Looking at your photos which are very very beautiful and feminine and I could only describe you as TS !
I hope you have a very pleasant stay in Ireland!

[Gwendoline]

Hi Gwendoline!
I don't think there is any point in worrying what you describe yourself as !
I think it takes a lot of guts to write this thread and highlight your dilemma !
Looking at your photos which are very very beautiful and feminine and I could only describe you as TS !
I hope you have a very pleasant stay in Ireland!

haha ok. thank you. excuse for being over too dramatic i just have to be clear about this

[Dub Lad]

Well done on the thread Gwen, you've given this alot of thought and must have taken some serious guts, fair play to you, you come across as articulate and intelligent

I'm not familiar with the scene what so ever but I did pick up on something, you say you have no boobs? At all? I looked at your profile and at your stats most if not all other TVs use chest size/ waist in inches and not bra size, I know it's only a minor thing and hope you don't take offence raising that.

Hope you have a lovely stay in Ireland

[Gwendoline]

Hehe thanks I wrote this in 20minutes furiously after reading some comments about me. I was a little tipsy when i wrote this hehe

ps the body statistics was compulsory and I dont have any choice but to choose the sizes. i just have to mention it on my profile that i am flat chested like catwalk models haha x