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    Yesterday someone I really cared about cut all ties with me no contact etc and it has made me heartbroken like my heart feels like it has been broken, I have outbursts of crying, I can't concentrate on anything without thinking of them, then I realised you know happiness is a fickle thing, we can't control our own happiness we place our happiness in other people's hands. We can't make ourselves happy, it's entirely with others, no man is an island, it's soooo true.



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    Keep your chin up mate. Nothing more than I can say there. You will get through it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dub Lad View Post
    Yesterday someone I really cared about cut all ties with me no contact etc and it has made me heartbroken like my heart feels like it has been broken, I have outbursts of crying, I can't concentrate on anything without thinking of them, then I realised you know happiness is a fickle thing, we can't control our own happiness we place our happiness in other people's hands. We can't make ourselves happy, it's entirely with others, no man is an island, it's soooo true.


    Im here ladoooooooo.
    Westside.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Martin Mod View Post
    Keep your chin up mate. Nothing more than I can say there. You will get through it
    Thank you oh I know, time is a great healer, it was just a realisation that happiness something we all want is not something we can actually control

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    Quote Originally Posted by Westsidex View Post
    Im here ladoooooooo.
    Westside.
    Jaysus! You'll just push him over the edge, Westie!

    Like Martin said, fella... it's a moment in time and it will pass. Hope you're okay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dub Lad View Post
    Thank you oh I know, time is a great healer, it was just a realisation that happiness something we all want is not something we can actually control
    Death, relationships. We can control none of it. We just have to hope there are still people there who give a shit and will help you through it. I have always been lucky with that, even in my most trying moments.

    I hope you are the same pal

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dub Lad View Post
    Thank you oh I know, time is a great healer, it was just a realisation that happiness something we all want is not something we can actually control
    I give you a good tip ladooooooooo, by all means care or whatever for someone else but never ever ever at your own expense of peace of mind. You were born alone and and likely die alone. Im not saying dont love or care but love yourself a wee bit too.

    Sincerely,
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    Quote Originally Posted by Westsidex View Post
    I give you a good tip ladooooooooo, by all means care or whatever for someone else but never ever ever at your own expense of peace of mind. You were born alone and and likely die alone. Im not saying dont love or care but love yourself a wee bit too.

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    Ever considered becoming a negotiator? You seem to have the knack there, fella.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dub Lad View Post
    Yesterday someone I really cared about cut all ties with me no contact etc and it has made me heartbroken like my heart feels like it has been broken, I have outbursts of crying, I can't concentrate on anything without thinking of them, then I realised you know happiness is a fickle thing, we can't control our own happiness we place our happiness in other people's hands. We can't make ourselves happy, it's entirely with others, no man is an island, it's soooo true.


    Take a long walk dude and don't drink and coffee It only increases your tension, just take it easy watch a good movie or something like that, take care Dub Lad

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    Quote Originally Posted by samlad View Post
    Ever considered becoming a negotiator? You seem to have the knack there, fella.
    or a job with the samaratians. . . . . . . . . Cut out those repeat callers.

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