Does your wife/girlfriend know you visit escorts?

[Rachel Divine]

I am glad the wife of OP took it well and thats more important...

As much I love to fight , this thread is silly.

What works for some wont work for others, simple.

[SophieX]

I'm on a train,

Thought i spotted you, and here's me thinking you stalked ME

[Naughtynatalie]

There was me wanting to give you

But il happily give you a

one minute I'm fit and you want to do the above next minute I'm old and dumb, jaysus stick to the same script Cooljay or are you losing it


pmsfl at you, your not making much sense for someone who knows it all

[Wicklow37]

You're a fuckin' dead man, chum, all she's doing is waiting until you're a bit more comfortable

I assume you'll be alright if she goes out tonight and gets it up the bum from a younger fitter man with a much bigger cock who she starts seeing regularly for sex?

Not got a problem with that.

[errisx]

Hey Pal... ur confusing morals with the moral highground... i doubt if anyone ever learnt anything from some arse clutching the moram highground... perhaps you could explain again the qualifications that have allowed you to climb so high ??... Age... Life experience.. marriage ??

I disagree,people have learnt from people who have morals,only the ignorant fail

[Naughtynatalie]

I am glad the wife of OP took it well and thats more important...

As much I love to fight , this thread is silly.

What works for some wont work for others, simple.

Why is it silly? We are having good banter. Sorry if it doesnt meet your high brow threads Miss Rachel

as you always say, if you dont like it dont read it

[CoolJay]

Yeah stupid to let my standards slip

[Naughtynatalie]

I'm on a train, the lack of control makes me sarcastic.
I should probably switch off my phone

do not, I love sarcasm especially when it is delivered so well

going anywhere nice?

[Pinot]

Having met Wicklow37 I know how much he toiled over this before doing it and it could have gone either way. There are many men on here who might have the same result if they had the balls to say something. The thing is, you have to accept it could go either way and it could be the end of the relationship. Sometimes you just have to take the bull by the horns and accept the consequences or you end up coasting through life, never really being happy.

Sorry Kate, but that is just a crazy cavalier attitude. Fair enough if you don't love your wife or care for her feelings, but this type of news could devastate someone beyond heartbreak, especially when a family with children are involved. I know you say in a later thread that it's the actual act that causes the heartbreak and not the finding out.......well, that's just not true (That's a lesson I learnt as a teenager, when I confessed to my then GF that I two-timed her ).

It is also too easy to say that men should not do it if they cant accept the consequences. Many men here love their wives and family but for whatever reason (and there's too many to list) they also have a need to visit escorts or have extramarital affairs. I don't condone it, I wish I didn't do it, but such is life and we all have a different moral compass.

However, I do admire Wicklow's decision because this was something that was playing on his mind and I'm sure after pondering it for a long time he concluded that it was the right thing to do for him and his relationship. I might add though, no one knows Wicklow's wife better than himself, so he would have had a strong sense of how she would take it. I'm not saying he would have expected such a positive outcome but I'm sure deep down he knew she wouldn't leave him over it.

[errisx]

ok.. point taken

smartarse but your right