Does your wife/girlfriend know you visit escorts?

[Morpheus]

Just wanted to throw that out there.

I have come clean to the mrs about my activities and she is pretty ok with it. There are certain services not available in the wicklow37 bedroom and she has no problems with me getting them else where.

Was I mad to come clean?

Err.....are you for real Wicklow????


Fair play if you and the missus have such an open relationship.

But I can safely asume that if most other blokes did tell their wives/girlfriends that they see escorts, one of the following would happen:

• They would be dead (and it would be a fairly painful death)
• They would be castrated (same as being dead!!)
• Best case scenario - they'd be homeless on the streets (with no access to their kids!!)

I don't think any man should ever, ever tell his significant other (with the exception of the OP for whom it seems to have worked)

[CoolJay]

Err.....are you for real Wicklow????


Fair play if you and the missus have such an open relationship.

But I can safely asume that if most other blokes did tell their wives/girlfriends that they see escorts, one of the following would happen:

• They would be dead (and it would be a fairly painful death)
• They would be castrated (same as being dead!!)
• Best case scenario - they'd be homeless on the streets (with no access to their kids!!)

I don't think any man should ever, ever tell his significant other (with the exception of the OP for whom it seems to have worked)

100% agree if your going to do it then do it.... But why run the risk of breaking her heart,you dont know what she will do to you or herself.

Cheating on a girl is selffish but telling her is worse

[Curvaceous Kate]

100% agree if your going to do it then do it.... But why run the risk of breaking her heart,you dont know what she will do to you or herself.

Cheating on a girl is selffish but telling her is worse

I don't agree. I don't want to be with someone who isn't 100% committed and it's possible that I am with them, because I think they love me, but I'm not sure if I love them. Maybe it's not right for us to be together and we are both living a lie?

I think a lot of men never ask their partners for certain things sexually as well and they might be surprised at what they would be happy to do. Communication is key to any relationship. It's just a shame that so many couples wait until it is too late or slip up.

By the way, it's not telling them that breaks their heart, it's doing it.

[CoolJay]

I don't agree. I don't want to be with someone who isn't 100% committed and it's possible that I am with them, because I think they love me, but I'm not sure if I love them. Maybe it's not right for us to be together and we are both living a lie?

I think a lot of men never ask their partners for certain things sexually as well and they might be surprised at what they would be happy to do. Communication is key to any relationship. It's just a shame that so many couples wait until it is too late or slip up.

By the way, it's not telling them that breaks their heart, it's doing it.

Omg we see things so differently, i would say your so wrong its embarrassing

[gambor]

Well said!! Had a relationship break up before because of a lack of communication by both parties. Had we just been open to each other things would have been very different!!

I don't agree. I don't want to be with someone who isn't 100% committed and it's possible that I am with them, because I think they love me, but I'm not sure if I love them. Maybe it's not right for us to be together and we are both living a lie?

I think a lot of men never ask their partners for certain things sexually as well and they might be surprised at what they would be happy to do. Communication is key to any relationship. It's just a shame that so many couples wait until it is too late or slip up.

By the way, it's not telling them that breaks their heart, it's doing it.

[CoolJay]

How thick could you be not to realize to do that

[very shy guy]

I don't agree. I don't want to be with someone who isn't 100% committed and it's possible that I am with them, because I think they love me, but I'm not sure if I love them. Maybe it's not right for us to be together and we are both living a lie?

I think a lot of men never ask their partners for certain things sexually as well and they might be surprised at what they would be happy to do. Communication is key to any relationship. It's just a shame that so many couples wait until it is too late or slip up.

By the way, it's not telling them that breaks their heart, it's doing it.

A very good point that last one Kate.

[bulmers19]

Just wanted to throw that out there.

I have come clean to the mrs about my activities and she is pretty ok with it. There are certain services not available in the wicklow37 bedroom and she has no problems with me getting them else where.

Was I mad to come clean?

I wouldnt have the nerve to tell my best mate never mind a partner
fair play to you for being so honest wit your partner

[Naughtynatalie]

ah jaysus it must be nice to be able to sit on the moral high ground and judge whats right and wrong for others

[FullLife]

ah jaysus it must be nice to be able to sit on the moral high ground and judge whats right and wrong for others

Meh...it's okay, gets a bit boring after a while tbh.