Tempting!!!!!

[mymann]

Mymann I think here 'respect' is the key word. It is only disrespectful if the lady in question feels disrespected. In this case I don't think you can say that. Some men think it is disrespectful to give a lady a facial or finish on her body and not in it, but if she is turned on by the experience how can it be? If she is willfully agreeing or asking for it, is it not disrespectful to tell her she is wrong to want it? By doing that you are discounting her feelings and her needs.

If a lady says no to anything sexually and you go ahead, it is disrespectful and possibly rape, so the second key word here is 'consent'. As long as there is consent... there is respect.

This is my opinion and the one I live my life by. I am happy and enjoy my sexual exploits in this way.

I'm glad we were able to debate this in an adult fashion. It has certainly opened my eyes to different attitudes and in a way I can see how Ruhama (did I spell that right) have got such a strong hold on society. As often people are very closed to certain ideas without really thinking of why they think what they do. It feels wrong, so therefore it IS wrong. At least here we are open to looking at different sides of the fence and I hope in some small way, my thoughts have at least made you think of the female perspective on this kind of activity and how we are all different and have different appetites, fetishes and sexual desires. We are also sexual beings after all.

Kate,To refer to Ruhama in reply to my posts is to grossly misrepresent the opinion i was giving.
Clearly i was wrong to to presume to give an opinion on how girls should be treated, or what turns them on,or what they enjoy.
As a man i admit i was wrong and i apoligise.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Kate,To refer to Ruhama in reply to my posts is to grossly misrepresent the opinion i was giving.
Clearly i was wrong to to presume to give an opinion on how girls should be treated, or what turns them on,or what they enjoy.
As a man i admit i was wrong and i apoligise.

You are right to say treat girls with respect, it was the point of how respect is shown I question. This is where communication is key. Presumption is never a good thing and something I am also often guilty of.

Ruhama feed on people's ignorance, which was the point I was trying to make. Keep the door slightly a jar and organisations like theirs can not influence so readily. The fact that you are open to debate, shows that you are not of that sphere (ie closed mind). You are entitled to your opinions, as I am mine.

I'm still quite shocked that ladies on this site would class this kind of porn as 'disgusting' though. When people who support Ruhama would say the same of them. I guess it is a smaller world than you think. I still say, live and let live, as long as it is with consent and enjoyed.

[UncleBob]

Biggest pile of shit i have ever heard, insane

How is it insane? I'm not trying to lick up to anyone here, but there's a ton of judgment being dished out here on someone else's favourite sexual kinks. If it's consensual, safe, above age and all the rest, who are you or I to disapprove?

There's sex practices popular here that I don't find at all interesting, but I'm not about to start getting on my high horse about those who do. People are each wired differently.

[UncleBob]

As they are being paid to have fun Kate,they are bound to look happy.

I can't believe you're offering that as a justification for disapproving of it here, of all places.

[UKHeather]

I disagree that the actress is enoying herself. It's acting and bloody terrible acting at that LOL Not at all convincing. I found it boring, but then I only watched a few minutes skipping through for an interesting bit.

But there you go, it's porn and porn caters for fantasy.

[CoolJay]

How is it insane? I'm not trying to lick up to anyone here, but there's a ton of judgment being dished out here on someone else's favourite sexual kinks. If it's consensual, safe, above age and all the rest, who are you or I to disapprove?

There's sex practices popular here that I don't find at all interesting, but I'm not about to start getting on my high horse about those who do. People are each wired differently.

I take it you have ashumed who i directed that to... Should of asked first

[Curvaceous Kate]

I take it you have ashumed who i directed that to... Should of asked first

It was left ambigious. I know where it was directed, because I know you better.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I disagree that the actress is enoying herself. It's acting and bloody terrible acting at that LOL Not at all convincing. I found it boring, but then I only watched a few minutes skipping through for an interesting bit.

But there you go, it's porn and porn caters for fantasy.

Compared to most porn I thought she was not too bad at all. I've seen a hell of a lot worse. Most porn stars have never done a days acting in their lives, so it's only to be expected really.

[CoolJay]

It was left ambigious. I know where it was directed, because I know you better.

My fault tho i should of been more clear..

[UncleBob]

My fault tho i should of been more clear..

My apologies as well, I mistook who you were referring to.