Do you think its important for an escort to like you.

[benin]

I do .... when my back is in front of you

...and your bnt over so i can look in the mirror while we..*cough* where am i??

[very shy guy]

You know what they say about, that first impressions count. Well, they really do with this game. You walk through that door with a smile and it will make all the difference.

The thing is about liking someone is there are a zillion different things that you can home in on. You can like their smile, their dimples, the way they sound, their figure, their face, or their personality. It doesn't have to be all or nothing and I generally look for something to like about the person and start from there. The rest comes over time.

Having said that, if there is something I dislike about someone, then I can live with one or two things, but if they are not friendly or make me feel uncomfortable, I won't go ahead with the booking, so it very much does matter.

Welcome back Kate,lucky tribesmen,I think that you are right that first impressions count on both sides,costs nothing to be pleasent and a far more enjoyal time ensues.

[very shy guy]

I do .... when my back is in front of you

Not a good idea to wiggle that sexy ass in front of benny,or pehaps it is,lol.

[very shy guy]

just looked at the ice queens christmas pics ... i need a lie down... and a new nickname for the escort formerly known as ice queen..



*tout*

(was that ok sophie im not a tout expert but im doing my best...lol)

Having looked myself benny I see the poor ice queen is indeed feeling the cold and is in need of someone to warm her up.

[shadey]

Interesting op. I think the reason I have yet to have a positive experience with an escort is exactly this - I know I am paying for the service, I know I dont have time to wow them with my charm & wit, so they dont really have any reason to like me. And I like people to like me. I suppose it is a question of maybe spending longer with them, and spend some time before being intimate (if that is an appropriate word for the service).

Of course, it could just be that I am not that likeable.

Or I might be gay.

Other than that, it's down to the insecurity issues I have whereby I need to be liked.

I'll get my coat.

[very shy guy]

Interesting op. I think the reason I have yet to have a positive experience with an escort is exactly this - I know I am paying for the service, I know I dont have time to wow them with my charm & wit, so they dont really have any reason to like me. And I like people to like me. I suppose it is a question of maybe spending longer with them, and spend some time before being intimate (if that is an appropriate word for the service).

Of course, it could just be that I am not that likeable.

Or I might be gay.

Other than that, it's down to the insecurity issues I have whereby I need to be liked.

I'll get my coat.

Ffs,you mean to say you have charm and wit ?,some of us have to depend on our looks,lol,then again its no wonder I do not look in the mirror.

[The D Man]

I would hope that they would like me. I visit ladies that I like.

[Cable87]

It's always important for BOTH SIDES to be at least polite and civil, and hopefully both wil also be in a reasonably good mood when meeting, and this will no doubt contribute and allow a pleasant experience overall.


That being said, I can see the point of saying that it could happen that a lady is not so fond of a particular punter, but has the professionalism and the thick skin which are both necessary for the job and will keep a (forced?) smile on her face during the appointment until it's over, at least giving the illusion of 'liking' the client. but it certainly can and no doubt does help if you are a 'likable' guy and go in with the right attitude and demeanor, as this will ensure that you get treated better by the lady, and get yourself invited back for more in the future!

[UKHeather]

It's not important whether escorts like you or not. What's important is that they make you feel that they do.

[saoirsemac]

u make them all feel like and wanted, some however need to told cop on

there will always be some u prefer, i like people who laugh ive one client god bless him form cavan the shit i say to him

but he gives it back, i can like and tolerate most people if u make me laugh ur in the like part

if i dislike i cant be bothered with ur business, they only drain u