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    Default Oh, oh! The end of the 'In a relationship' client!

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    A 'FIDELITY' hormone which could keep married men from straying has been identified by scientists.

    A nasal spray containing the hormone caused men with wives or long-term partners to keep a greater distance from an attractive woman but had no affect on bachelors, researchers found.

    Although those in relationships did not judge the woman to be any less attractive, they began to feel uncomfortable more quickly when approached by the woman and asked her to remain further away.

    Oxytocin, dubbed the 'love hormone', was already known for its role in attraction and bonding in both men and women, but had never been shown to play a lasting role in long-term relationships. The findings suggest boosting levels could help maintain marriages by preventing men from appearing interested in other women.

    The most obvious way for a wife to raise her husband's oxytocin levels would be to have sexual intercourse with him, but "the simple close presence and touch of their partner at any given moment in time might also suffice", the researchers added.

    Dr Rene Hurlemann of Bonn University, who led the study, said: "Previous animal research in prairie voles identified oxytocin as major key for monogamous fidelity in animals. Here, we provide the first evidence that oxytocin may have a similar role for humans."

    In the study, published in 'The Journal of Neuroscience', the team sprayed either oxytocin or a placebo into the noses of 57 men before introducing them to a female researcher, whom they later described as being attractive.

    As the woman approached each man, they were asked to indicate when she reached an "ideal distance", and when she became so close that they felt "slightly uncomfortable".

    The experiment was then repeated with the men approaching the woman, and choosing how far from her they wanted to stop.

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    Dr Hurlemann said: "Because oxytocin is known to increase trust in people, we expected men under the influence of the hormone to allow the female experimenter to come even closer, but the direct opposite happened."

    On average, the men who were in committed relationships chose to keep 10cm to 15cm further away from the woman if they had been given oxytocin than placebo. There was no difference between oxytocin and placebo in single men, and when the experiments were repeated with a male researcher oxytocin had no effect on any of the participants.
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    As a woman i would say : SUCH A GREAT DISCOVERY

    As an escort i will say: OMG WE ARE SCREWED
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    I think it is great and for those in relationships with a healthy sex life then it is fantastic, as these are the ones that don't sit well for me. I can't help but feel sorry for the partner who is none the wiser to their activities and thinks that they have a balanced and loving relationship.

    However, I don't think it will make any difference for the men who are in relationships where sex is off the agenda. These men are still going to want sex and rightly so. I believe these men will still use Escorts regardless of any drug, as the problem is not with straying as much as wanting to be fulfilled sexually. It's a different thing. Maybe they should find a drug that makes their wives want sex again and then many of the men would not stray anyway?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luna Nueva View Post

    As an escort i will say: OMG WE ARE SCREWED
    Yes, regularly! Long may it continue!

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    Well said Kate could not agree more.
    Very few men having regular sex in a relationship would ever stray.
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    Someone must have sprayed me with a few gallons of it 15 years ago. . And i'm not even married ffs.

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    Where can I buy it ? Does it have the same effect if we spray it on our clients, there are one or two of my boys that I wouldn't mind coming back for more and I will never refuse to have sex with...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luna Nueva View Post
    As a woman i would say : SUCH A GREAT DISCOVERY

    As an escort i will say: OMG WE ARE SCREWED
    Don't worry Luna,Most of us want more, and will be out there searching for to meet lovely ladies,
    Spray or no spray,

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    I think it is great and for those in relationships with a healthy sex life then it is fantastic, as these are the ones that don't sit well for me. I can't help but feel sorry for the partner who is none the wiser to their activities and thinks that they have a balanced and loving relationship.

    However, I don't think it will make any difference for the men who are in relationships where sex is off the agenda. These men are still going to want sex and rightly so. I believe these men will still use Escorts regardless of any drug, as the problem is not with straying as much as wanting to be fulfilled sexually. It's a different thing. Maybe they should find a drug that makes their wives want sex again and then many of the men would not stray anyway?
    It is the nature of men to look at attractive women no matter what the age,,----------- and wonder what it would be like to have a relationship with them,even if it were not sexual.
    Surely you want men to stray!!!
    I'm sure not all the men you've met were single,
    And anyway married or in relationship men are nicer,LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by amylove69 View Post
    Where can I buy it ? Does it have the same effect if we spray it on our clients, there are one or two of my boys that I wouldn't mind coming back for more and I will never refuse to have sex with...
    Have it ready when i visit,LOL,

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