First Time!

[Gwendoline]

Many gents, from totally varying backgrounds, of different ages, heights and build visit Escorts. Why?

There will be a multitude of reasons, but one key one is to lose ones “cherry”.

Whether it is your first time with an Escort or first time having sex ever, I would strongly urge you NOT to feel embarrassed or awkward, in any way. Why should you??

Remember, it is the first time for EVERYONE once!

I recall a first visit from a client over a year ago and how I felt, so I can imagine what some guys will feel like, but there really is nothing to fear.

I am sure some will feel very uncertain about what the experience will be like or how they will be received by an Escort. My advice is very simple: work out what you are looking for from the experience, do your homework carefully, chat with some on forums, but above all do not let fear stop you! Most professional Escorts are very understanding and empathetic ladies and will calm any nerves or anxieties you may have.

Remember an Escort will one day have seen her first client. Even the most accomplished porn star will one day have lost his cherry.

It is in every ladies’ interest to look after newcomers for one simple reason: you are her clients and her business will either thrive or fail depending on how she treats her clients.

There is nothing to be anxious about. Go along and be the best person you can be: yourself! Most ladies will warm to someone who does not try to be something they are not, who does not try to impress them, who is natural, open and genuine.

However, one thing I simply must stress, as I cannot state it strongly enough, because I hear it all too often where clients do not understand this. No matter how good a time you had, no matter how intense it was, no matter how you think the lady responded to you, THIS IS A BUSINESS MEETING FIRST, FOREMOST AND NOTHING ELSE!

Too many ladies are plagued by the naivety and inexcusable actions of those who either simply cannot grasp this fundamental principle or who lose sight of it in a cocktail of heady emotions and believe the lady is attracted to them. Forget it!

A professional Escort will not be interested and has her own life outside her work and the majority do not mix the two. Many will have partners and or children too and they will not welcome any advances. Quite the opposite.

If you bear this in mind, you will be fine!

It is a big step to visit an Escort for the first time, but no more so than many others one has to take in adult life. However, the rewards far outweigh the uncertainty.

First time? Fear not and go for it!

Gwendoline