Originally Posted by
CurvaceousKate
Let me explain what is going through my mind when I imagine someone who has no understanding of the language at all.
They have help setting up (great!) but who is in the room with them when they see the client? No one, but her and the client.
They start having some fun and he decides he would like to have some anal for and asks her if he can have anal. She doesn't understand what he is saying and just nods politely and gets back on task. He then turns her round and she thinks he is going to do doggy, but instead he starts to enter her anally. She is upset and tries to tell him to stop, but he thought he had permission and is already committed to the thrust. She falls forward in pain and shock and he crashed down behind her.
She is crying and talking in her Mother tongue and he is stook naked and bewildered by what just happened.
Who is in the wrong? He thought he had asked permission? She thought she was safe because of having her services written on the advert and just wanted to be polite, so nodded.
If she had a basic understanding of the language this scenario could have been prevented, but as it was she very nearly got raped (or did she?) and he nearly committed rape, despite the fact that he thought he had gained her blessing.
This is not a far fetched scenario. This is something that Escorts deal with on a daily basis, but normally it is easily put right through communication in the same language.
This is why I think that anyone working in a Country where they have no understanding of the language should wait until they have some basic knowledge, so they can communicate clearly and understand when someone is asking them a question that is relevant to their work.
Now... do you still think I am racist? If so then I must be.