Page 1 of 10 123 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 98

Thread: does visiting escorts leave you empty

  1. #1
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    Posts
    5,673
    Reviews
    35

    Love does visiting escorts leave you empty

    do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
    longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Dec 2010
    Posts
    6,753
    Reviews
    31

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by warmcome View Post
    do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
    longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?

    Of course I long for a loving long term sexual relationship, but hasn't happened inspite of my efforts.

    I don't visit escorts as a replacment for the above. Escorts kindly provide for my sexual and intimacy needs albeit for a short period.

    I think the quotation below sums it up pretty well:


    “Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as far as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good.”
    ― Woody Allen

    "Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"

  3. The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to Morpheus For This Useful Post:

    Big J (27-10-12), hitman76 (28-10-12), john connor (28-10-12), NewMoon (27-10-12), Ted E Bear (27-10-12)

  4. #3
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Posts
    36,558
    Blog Entries
    15
    Reviews
    53

    Default

    Could give a smart ass comment to that but won't .

    Nope it doesn't leave me empty in the slightest , but my circumstances are different than most .

    Will only stop punting when the twig & berries call a natural halt so to speak .: doc
    Never mistake kindness for weakness .: doc

  5. The Following User Says Thank You to dr love For This Useful Post:

    NewMoon (27-10-12)

  6. #4
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Posts
    1,557
    Reviews
    36

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by warmcome View Post
    do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
    longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?
    Doesnt satisfy me at all.....i hate that my marraige reached the point that i had too choose seeing escorts.....paying for sex.....pathetic......and all the fake GFE........Its all a load of bollix
    Last edited by Notatwork; 27-10-12 at 17:34.

  7. #5
    Join Date
    Dec 2010
    Posts
    6,037
    Blog Entries
    5
    Reviews
    43

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by warmcome View Post
    do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
    longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?
    A good question WC, although i have no desire to be in a relationship at the moment.
    When i first started punting seeing an escort fulfilled everything i was looking for, but that started to wear off after a time.
    Occasionally, yes, i just want raw sex but more often than not i prefer the GFE, with a few ladies i see more regularly. I love it, but when i get home. i want to go back for more (I dont)....so i dont know where that leaves me.
    Funnily enough i had a very similar conversation in the arms of a beautiful woman earlier today
    Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "

  8. The Following User Says Thank You to mellors For This Useful Post:

    very shy guy (27-10-12)

  9. #6
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    Posts
    21,994
    Reviews
    113

    Default

    Empty??? Certainly not...

    But it depends why you visit escorts... I purely go to satisfy my sexual needs, to satisfy my curiosity when a see a beautifull girl. I do not look for anything more so why would it leave me empty.

    But I could see that for guys that predominately visit for the companionship and GFE that it must be hard at times to turn and go. So long as remember "its only a game!" then you should be grand. Expect anything else... and you are doomed...

  10. The Following 9 Users Say Thank You to JAMESCORK For This Useful Post:

    Big J (27-10-12), funlover12 (28-10-12), john connor (28-10-12), mellors (27-10-12), Morpheus (28-10-12), NewMoon (27-10-12), Notatwork (27-10-12), UB40 (28-10-12)

  11. #7
    Join Date
    Dec 2010
    Posts
    6,037
    Blog Entries
    5
    Reviews
    43

    Default

    [QUOTE=JAMESCORK;921560]Empty??? Certainly not...

    But it depends why you visit escorts... I purely go to satisfy my sexual needs, to satisfy my curiosity when a see a beautifull girl. I do not look for anything more so why would it leave me empty.

    But I could see that for guys that predominately visit for the companionship and GFE that it must be hard at times to turn and go. So long as remember "its only a game!" then you should be grand. Expect anything else... and you are doomed...[/QUOTE]

    Agree entirely JC, in my case its not any kind of emotional attachment (a slippery slope i agree), just the appointment is just so enjoyable
    Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "

  12. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to mellors For This Useful Post:

    Clyde (27-10-12), JAMESCORK (27-10-12)

  13. #8
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    Posts
    5,673
    Reviews
    35

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    Empty??? Certainly not...

    But it depends why you visit escorts... I purely go to satisfy my sexual needs, to satisfy my curiosity when a see a beautifull girl. I do not look for anything more so why would it leave me empty.

    But I could see that for guys that predominately visit for the companionship and GFE that it must be hard at times to turn and go. So long as remember "its only a game!" then you should be grand. Expect anything else... and you are doomed...
    you bag is empty and is your wallet, er James

  14. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to warmcome For This Useful Post:

    JAMESCORK (27-10-12), NewMoon (27-10-12)

  15. #9
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Posts
    1,557
    Reviews
    36

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    Empty??? Certainly not...

    But it depends why you visit escorts... I purely go to satisfy my sexual needs, to satisfy my curiosity when a see a beautifull girl. I do not look for anything more so why would it leave me empty.

    But I could see that for guys that predominately visit for the companionship and GFE that it must be hard at times to turn and go. So long as remember "its only a game!" then you should be grand. Expect anything else... and you are doomed...
    I agree James,but still dislike that i have too pay for my my sexual needs because my marraige is shite and poor sex even in the best of times......have to say i do feel sorry that the girls have too sell there body whatever there reason......

  16. #10
    Join Date
    Sep 2011
    Posts
    4,178
    Reviews
    43

    Default

    Never really had any serious relationships so at the moment a fun hour or so with an attractive woman is fine.
    I probably would like a long term relationship at some stage, although there's no guarantee that I'd stop seeing escorts even if I was involved.
    There is nothing worse for the lying soul than the mirror of reality

  17. The Following User Says Thank You to max california For This Useful Post:

    Morpheus (28-10-12)

Page 1 of 10 123 ... LastLast

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •