does visiting escorts leave you empty

[Clyde]

Aha ......... You mean Fish & Chips takeaway

Naaaaaa I'm not in Athlone

[Candy8]

I did say Exceptional Cook! and did I not mention, You're a Great Guy

What time did you say? Red or White????

3.30 white 10

[nautural bbw]

our purpose does not stop at just sex. people spend hours with us at times without wanting sex.we are unique cause people can talk to us about anything,and we will not judge them.for instant,i have met guys with personal problems to a point where they are contemplating suicide.now they just need a friendly ear and a person away from their own family or social circle to talk to.and if they went to see a doctor,they would just be labelled as being mentally ill.and you know the stigma that comes with that.we are more than just a shag hun,

[john connor]

Interesting thread and something I have thought about recently.
Sometimes meet a wonderful girl and feel another time another place would love to hook up in real life.
But then remember I am in a relationship. This is fantasy pure and simple.
I think the more u do it the less it effects you. Do you die a little inside probably. Another poster put it very well
When u realise u can spend time with a very attractive young lady for money and realise the quality if service some of these ladies give it makes you question your previous relationships.
When we were all young our first sexual relationship was off the scale and most of us probably felt we loved the girl/boy we had it with. From then on we tend to equate sex and love together, well I did anyway. Then I started punting and I started having great sex (all be it not all the time) with compete strangers. That has changed my whole perspective on love and sex and in many ways lessened its meaning to me. Also with the girls seeing so many married men they to must question what love is.
I think love is for the young as we get older we all get a little more synical.
Also just watched Steven hawking on discovery dismissing GOD in a pretty convincing fashion.
So I have decided we only have one life and to enjoy it. And that means seeing more beautiful women in the future even if it is killing me a little inside

[TonyB]

do you find that punting satisfies you completely, or do you have a
longing for a more balanced relationship with a woman?

A good question.
For the past few years I didn't understand the intimacy sought by other clients here.
I just wanted sex. I wasn't interested in chat and affection. It was just fun.

I was a bit hurt by a girlfriend earlier this year and now I could do with some genuine affection.
I feel a bit alone, I feel I made mistakes in my choice to remain single.

Escorts don't really do it. Of course most smile, offer different levels of gfe, some even text and chat with me socially, but it's not the same as the real thing. It's still fake, no matter how convincing.

[warmcome]

warm your major problem here is your in two ways wrong, the first ,you are in marriage you hate but you have not the courage to end it,and please no,i am here for the kids story..........
instead of addressing the real issue you like so many choose take a route thinking it will resolve the problem short term,guess what ?,you have not, now the so called solution is leaving you hollow,if feel for you,but,please ,blaming girls or what ever is not the solution,that my friend is in your hands,but you need the courage to be honest,most of all with yourself

i'm not married. thanks for your responses, some of them were worth reading.

[Notatwork]

A good question.
For the past few years I didn't understand the intimacy sought by other clients here.
I just wanted sex. I wasn't interested in chat and affection. It was just fun.

I was a bit hurt by a girlfriend earlier this year and now I could do with some genuine affection.
I feel a bit alone, I feel I made mistakes in my choice to remain single.

Escorts don't really do it. Of course most smile, offer different levels of gfe, some even text and chat with me socially, but it's not the same as the real thing. It's still fake, no matter how convincing.

Yep all fake one big act.........maybe a fondness as i have for some of my own clients......texting you socially.....touting for business babe.......

[JAMESCORK]

Interesting thread and something I have thought about recently.
Sometimes meet a wonderful girl and feel another time another place would love to hook up in real life.
But then remember I am in a relationship. This is fantasy pure and simple.
I think the more u do it the less it effects you. Do you die a little inside probably. Another poster put it very well
When u realise u can spend time with a very attractive young lady for money and realise the quality if service some of these ladies give it makes you question your previous relationships.
When we were all young our first sexual relationship was off the scale and most of us probably felt we loved the girl/boy we had it with. From then on we tend to equate sex and love together, well I did anyway. Then I started punting and I started having great sex (all be it not all the time) with compete strangers. That has changed my whole perspective on love and sex and in many ways lessened its meaning to me. Also with the girls seeing so many married men they to must question what love is.
I think love is for the young as we get older we all get a little more synical.
Also just watched Steven hawking on discovery dismissing GOD in a pretty convincing fashion.
So I have decided we only have one life and to enjoy it. And that means seeing more beautiful women in the future even if it is killing me a little inside

Lot of good points here I can relate to John...

[very shy guy]

I think benny is otherwise busy ...... nodge nodge wink wink

A nudge is better than a wink to a blind horse Clyde,this is benny we are talking about,he woud smell the cider.

[wakka]

A very interesting topic and one I can well relate too.

Too me punting became too addictive just like a drug...The build up and anticipation of the session was great, then the actual hr or so left me on a real high BUT then afterwards came the reality of coming back to the real word..then only way I could descibe it would be like the worst hangover after the best night out. It left me feeling depressed and really down. Thats why I took a break last year.

However I came to realise that its all about balance, I was seeing to many women and becoming dependent on punting to satisfy my needs when in fact theres a whole world out there to explore and much more to life than sex....well maybe not lol

Now I will only have a punt the odd time and its only to fulfill some fantasies etc, in my case kinky ones lol. But i now know what the score is, where the lines blur etc and I think its left me in a far better position>

Anyway just my take on things and I know everyone is different what with marriage and all but I def think that if you can keep a clear mind and know where the boundaries are then punting is one of the greatest hobbies out there.