Ahh well said Svetlena! And there's nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about that from either parties view point. Even though the outside world judges us! Hypocrites the lot of them!!
People being people, we will all click with some people and not others. We will all have our favourites. Some escorts and clients will become friends outside the escorting sphere and some will even become lovers.
But the majority of us fall into the sphere you have described -we want ur money and ur respect and you all want our body and company for a while.
And the more most of us remember that (especially punters) the better things go. Leaves room for less misunderstanding and heart break. He wants...she wants... Everyone ends up happy. No point spoiling a great business relationship. Mutual respect is the key. Nuff said!
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
A common misconception by the outiside world Banjaxed. Just because you can get sex without paying for it, doesn't mean one shouldn't have the right to pay for it when there are ladies who are willing to provide such a service by mutual consent.
Paying for sex is sometimes a lot more honest and less comlicated than trying to meet one's sexual needs by lying or pretending to want something more than pure sex. There is a clarity and honesty about escorting that the outside world will never understand. Both you and the lady know from the start what each of you wants.
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
Svetlana (20-10-12)
I should note that this was a former sex worker and was in personal discourse, and was the first time I'd ever heard such, apart from previous small compliments from others (primarily sex workers also admittedly, as I don't often have confidence to talk to the opposite sex). In answer to VSG, I'm timid and very self-deprecating by nature
However, I absolutely agree with you [Morph] in relation to freedom of choice and the issue of consent. There is absolutely nothing wrong with anyone who chooses to work as an escort or anyone who wishes to see escorts as a client, provided that there is mutual consent and there is no harm knowingly caused. That is what is of paramount importance from both the perspective of escort and client. Especially to all ye auld fellas out there, just because I'm scarcely out of pampers doesn't mean I'm great!
Once both parties are happy, it is no one else's business and this is an issue which I feel needs to be strongly reinforced in light of recent discourse on the matter.
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I would like to think that I was special but I'm only a punter, however give the girl respect for the job she does and it will help you feel special while in her company. However for me there are a number of SPECIAL GIRLS on EI who in another life Well !!!
Gotcha, so do you mean like when the chap at the end asks the lady to pay him, due to the fact she has has several orgasms and is still flushed from the experience? *chuckles to self* I'm afraid I don't give any of the money back though lol, it's not my fault I had more orgasms than he did
I can relate to that scenario.
Cork is scheduled for November!!!! 2 visits in the same month![]()
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