is a win- win situation...I have some needs that have not been met, and you have some needs that have not been met too...all transactions start like...
When I joined this site I had similar worries, and one of many things that came as pleasant surprises was how accepting and generally kind the ladies...
No, Its not just you. Maybe just move on and cross her off your list.If she does this enough to everyone she ll have plenty of time to be looking at...