I have always been a victim of my own goodness and a lot of people say that people abuse people who does not know how to say "NO". K, I quite admit that I am your typical yes man, but deep inside I just want to shout to the whole world that I detest being a yes man.
So lately I have been contemplating what it would be like to say NO to people that tramples on my dignity by being so arrogant and abusive on my kindness and generosity. Anyway, who would want to hear this story
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