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What is Happiness? How do you fell it? How do you know your happy?
Everybody wants to be happy...but do they really know when their happy?
Do they really know to be happy?
I heard people say "I just want to be happy" my answer was " well why aren't you?"
sometimes we destroy our happiness by contemplating on all the bad things in life. I'm happy all the time ( and no i'm not on drugs haha). Just think for a moment, do you have a bed to sleep in? do you have food? do you have your loved ones by you? are you healthy? This is why you should be happy! You shoudn't be happy because you have a good salary or because you just bought a car or clothes (in women cases). Be happy for the little things.. like going on stroll on Sunday afternoon and just feeling the wind on your face. When was the last time you just stop to smell a flower? People stop enjoying the little things in life and always want bigger things.. I know its human nature to try your best and want the best but have you ever thought that you already have the best,you just can't see it because you think it's normal?
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  1. Lerxst's Avatar
    Aside from the basic necessities in life, to love and be loved brings me happiness.

    That and a Ferrari...
  2. lol brb's Avatar
    Some people are continually waiting, thinking that when x y z happens they will be happy. Never being actually happy in the here and now.

    It's the self serving society we live in to blame.
  3. Nicolle's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Lerxst
    Aside from the basic necessities in life, to love and be loved brings me happiness.

    That and a Ferrari...
    you can have the Ferrari hun, I'm just wishing for a driver licence haha xxx
  4. Nicolle's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by lol brb
    Some people are continually waiting, thinking that when x y z happens they will be happy. Never being actually happy in the here and now.

    It's the self serving society we live in to blame.
    true so true.. I hate what society has done to us... xxx
  5. Nicolle's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by eilogin
    To me, it is to enjoy the small things in life such as a nice day, a persons company, a nice meal, a stroll in the beautiful countryside, my pet welcoming me home etc. Last sunday evening was lovely in my part of the country and i got to enjoy spending some time in the local mountains overlooking the lakes. I must say that i did have a silly big grin on my face

    I totally agree that money does not buy happiness, a little is nice but overall how many cars, clothes, shoes etc can a person use at once. At the end of the day you cannot take it with you; good memories are worth a lot more in my opinion.

    Take care, nicolle.
    that is exactly how it is normal to feel, to enjoy the smallest of things... i'm glad to hear that you enjoy every moment of life hun
    xxx
  6. Clueless's Avatar
    Yup - happiness is the little things - our health helps this in every way!! I guess I am very happy even after losing dear friends etc..
  7. Nicolle's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by eilogin
    How does one so young become so wise, nicolle

    well I think life and its difficulties (and over passing them too) makes you wise... we learn from our mistakes and we grow as a person
  8. Nicolle's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by eilogin
    Yes, experiences both good and bad allow you to grow as a person. Hoping that you have had more of the former than the latter to date in life...

    Ps, loving your new avatar by the way
    Good to know you like it
  9. Patt113's Avatar
    Happiness is not only hard to define but hard to grasp. The easiest way to be happy is probably to avoid actively searching for it.