to marry or not to marry
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, 05-08-16 at 19:49 (493 Views)
Marriage?
Is it for all of us?
What truly means to be married? Share your life with someone? well yeah maybe but you share your life with lots of people, friends, family sometimes somebody you just met, sometimes your psychologist... so it's not that big of a deal
Share all your intimate secrets with another person? neahh nobody does that, we all have our little secrets, sometimes is going to an escorts other times it's eating a twix in the bathroom so nobody else knows that your cheating your diet.
Have a friend besides you through good and bad? well maybe sometimes they leave when it's bad sometimes they stay. Divorce has made it quit easy to leave.
Have sex when ever you want? haha we all know thats not true
So what' s the point of it?
Having somebody by your side when you leave this world? I think thats it... being sure that no matter what she/he will be there for you and that you will not feel alone when that happens... this may be it... I don't know ... I think no one really knows why do people get married and why they stay married...maybe it's love, maybe it's the idea of love or maybe it's the fact that you don't want to feel lonely anymore, you want to be sure that if you get home somebody will be there, somebody who will help you through your problems and in return whats you to help them. It's a co-dependent relationship... I need you as much as you need me... At the end of the day it doesn't really matter what makes 2 people marry as long as their both happy right? But what if the happiness doesn't last? What then?