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Setting the Record Straight

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It would seem that there have been a few rumours going about that I would like to put straight. I don't know where the rumours originated from, but that doesn't really matter, what matters is that I am able to put them to bed (so to speak ).

1. The Knickers Saga: This came about after starting a light hearted thread, where I said that sometimes when I'm in a rush, meaning a client who has booked at 2.30pm, calls to say he is here and it's only 2.10pm and I am trying to accommodate him asap, rather than have him wandering the streets, or sat in a car waiting kind of scenario and I asked 'playfully' in this kind of situation, what would be the thing you would least likely remember to do, or care about doing?

Now me, once I'm showered after a booking, I'll put my stockings and suspenders back on, but not the rest of an outfit, as it might not be what the client wants and I believe sitting around in the knickers you are going to wear for fun makes them dirty and they are no longer fresh, so I'll either put non working knickers on (like spongebob ones - my inner child) or leave them off. Then just before the client arrives, I will have an extra hand wash at the sink. Basically the lack of knickers is due to me being extremely hygienic and taking care, rather than what was implied, which was that I rush clients in and out and don't have time to replace them between clients.

The other point to make here and one that matters very much to me, is that on average I see around 3 clients a day, with 4 being my stopping point. I do this, because to me it is important to be fresh mentally, have a divide between bookings and make each booking a completely unique experience. I enjoy my work and don't want to feel tired or disinterested in the next person and I think this is reflected in my reviews. Anyone who comes to see me will get my 100% attention, interaction and mutual fun. It is also important to me, as I do orgasm and not just once, but often several times within a day, so for me to see more clients, would be physically too much, especially bearing in mind that I do gush as well.

So... when rushing around being caught on the hop I will put priority in making sure my make-up is correct, my hair is right, I have something sexy to wear and have had a final clean and mouthwash and it is usually at this point they say they are at the door and and running to put my heels and remember that I forgot to put some fresh knickers on (a new pair for each client). Do I go to the door or run off and get a pair of knickers? I go for the door!

It was meant to be a light hearted thread and certainly not one to put others down with. So... that is that rumour dispelled hopefully.

Next... No. 2! Pictures being sent out to clients. I'm really sorry guys, but this just isn't true and please don't ask me to send you a picture as I won't. I have been known to take pictures and videos during a booking, but even then the memory card is mine and the device it is taken with is mine and I then photoshop any distinguishing marks or faces out of the picture. I will then put any of the pictures I like on my website and put it in a private area, giving the client the pin, so he can see them, but can't have them. If taking a video and given permission to use it, I may put it on a site where people can pay to see it. The client it was made with gets to see it for free from there, but I am not very technical minded and generally the video tends to be too big and I can't add it. I am still learning and this is an obstacle I am trying to work out.

So again, I don't know who started this rumour, but it is not true. My identity is very important to me and I try to be discrete. I have family that would not understand what I am doing and I don't want to upset them. The idea of having explicit pictures (which is what the rumour said) out there is intolerable to me. I don't even have a 3rd person take my pictures. I am in control of EVERYTHING. It would be completely out of character for me to be sending people pictures, let alone contacting them in the first place and offering to do so. Not my style, not my thing.

No. 3. Booking time. Now this is a funny one, as I'm not going to lie, on a few occasions a booking will have gone over time. I'm human and sometimes I need company and it's a matter of right time and right place, but this is very very few and far between. I do remember once when I was in D1 staying by the docks I went well over time with a young chap I met there, but I really needed the company and he had been so sweet with some gifts he had brought me, we had chatted beforehand and he reminded me of home. The tour had been very quiet, which doesn't just mean lack of money, but lack of mental stimulation, lack of company and it is very easy to feel lonely in those situations.

This was over a year ago. This is how frequently it happens, so I'm afraid if anyone has been told this rumour, then again, please do not get upset if you come to me and the music stops (yes my background music is timed) and I give you a hug and ask you if you would like a shower, which means, we had a great time, but time to move on! For me having plenty of time between bookings is important and this isn't just so guys don't see each other on the way in or out, but because I need time to freshen up, come back down from whatever fun we've been having and clear the slate for the next client. I allow 30 mins for this, so if clients are continually staying over, then I'm not getting the time I need.

Even if I don't have a booking lined up, I refuse to answer the phone in the presents of another client, so I may be losing work if the phone is ringing (on silent) and I am not picking it up. The client decides on how long they want to stay when they book. They will always get their full time, but please do not expect more, as this is not the way I work. I may be lenient with offering shower time once the music has stopped, but that is not exactly going over board. I would like to think that I am of generous heart, but not a push over or someone trying to garner favour in order to get booked again. I would hope that my personality and my service would secure that gig.

Lastly my most recent photo's. I have worked really really hard to learn new skills with my photography and use of photoshop. This is mostly due to me not being good in front of the camera. I pull funny faces and I just can't relax if someone else is taking the picture (unless we're being naughty that is). So for me to go to a professional, would just make me feel awkward and out of control and well, it seems like an expensive exercise, when you just know you are not going to like what you see and not their fault, but mine for being too self conscious.

This is why I take my own pictures and in doing so, I have really gained a passion for photography and it is a pass time that I enjoy and try and improve on. The latest skill I have taught myself is how to change the background and I feel this is quite important as there are a lot of pictures that I have taken and would like to use, but couldn't before, because the background was at home or in a place that gives away which hotel I was using. Someone mentioned that they didn't mind people knowing they were at the Ritz, but there is a difference between visiting the Ritz once for a photoshoot and working there on a regular basis. The places where I take my pictures I am working at, so I do not want them to see their hotel in my background, as I may be working there on that day. Big giveaway!

Also I work in apartments that other girls might work at and have in the past had a client tell me he recognised where I was staying. Now that might not be so bad, but what if the landlord recognised it? Where would that leave the person I am renting from? So changing the background (which is not at all easy and takes an age to cut out your image) is more of a security measure, than me pretending to be on the red carpet for instance. That is just me having a bit of fun and I didn't expect for one second anyone to think I was actually on the red carpet. I mean... seriously??? That kind of made me laugh.

So there you have it. I hope understanding the truth has alleviated any concerns that any potential client may have had and anyone I have met, I hope you were not worried that you may have bumped into someone after seeing me, as that really would never happen. I don't work that way and I know I could see a lot more than 4 if I wanted to and sometimes I have seen 5 (a handful of times) but this is rare and my choice, because this works for me and I hope it also works for you.

Please note this is not a dig at anyone or pointing the finger at anyone. I just wanted an opportunity to set the record straight and explain the truth in order to stop these rumours continuing or seeds of doubt that may have been left from recent threads and posts on the forum.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and take care.
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  1. happy shy lad's Avatar
    What a lovely lady to spend time with.Every time I meet Kate she looks stunning and is one amazing lady to spend time with. I know when Kate started she had a few mess up appointments and is not nice but you will always get people who just want to waste your time. So glad Kate has got on well on here and is one lady you will enjoy spending time with. We are so lucky to have Kate on here so treat lovely Kate will. Reviews speek for themselves.
  2. Curvaceous Kate's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by happy shy lad
    What a lovely lady to spend time with.Every time I meet Kate she looks stunning and is one amazing lady to spend time with. I know when Kate started she had a few mess up appointments and is not nice but you will always get people who just want to waste your time. So glad Kate has got on well on here and is one lady you will enjoy spending time with. We are so lucky to have Kate on here so treat lovely Kate will. Reviews speek for themselves.
    Thank you Happy Shy Lad. That was really nice of you to say x