bluefan1

I was recently embroiled in an unsavoury incident between a suspected board-member and an escort which led, literally, to the door of my home. For the record the escort involved is a sweet, experienced and delightful woman. But, it made me wonder how can escorts be sure who is visiting them and to what lengths they go to, to screen clients. I believe the problem here emanated because of a double booking or a booking made too close to mine.

Most escorts I've talked (and on many threads here) say it is the voice, tone and delivery and politeness on the phone that are the clinching factors. In this case I wonder how the guy passed muster, so there just has to be other criteria.

Is notice of posts here taken into consideration - yes, I know they represent a tiny fraction of appointments - and if so are profiles visited, references or lack of them noted?

Are the quality of the posters and their posts registered by escorts. Periods, Yuk (smelly and shitty clients), Farting, Scat, are all recent Threads that shocked me and certainly made me re-think my participation in this forum. If a poster, the ugly racist today (mercifully deleted by Sam) for instance, called an escort would he now get an appointment? I was astonished to see that he had visited some of the better escorts here and received glowing comments from them - is this a case of short appointments not allowing for the real 'personality' to shine through? Because we've had recent, popular threads where escorts, to a person, all proclaimed it the single most important trait in a client .

Is there an active section of this site where escorts warn each other of time-wasters, messers or dangerous clients or is cash in such short supply that it is King; and so risks are taken? If such a section exists is it used?

I want to be safe when I visit an escort, I want to know that they are clean and hygienic and that they see clients who are clean and hygienic. If a guy can't be clean and freshly scented when visiting a beautiful woman, then I doubt he ever maintains a clean and healthy lifestyle and could well be the source of unpleasant infections - sexual or otherwise. There can be no excuses in my mind such as a 'working man' etc. You can always find time and a place to wash. Could you trust someone like that to admit to having a mouth ulcer?

In my opinion, Escorts should follow Sophie's recent example and show smellies the door. There are simple and inexpensive solutions available from doctors and pharmacists for anyone who has a genuine BO problem, Anhydrol Forte, for example.

I am in the fortunate position of having a number of very high class women who regularly see me but I'm not looking for a relationship, so I'm inclined to protect myself (from me and a broken heart!) by periodically seeking to see new-to-me escorts. From now on, I'm going to pay even more attention to who has visited them in the past and it will form a part of my decision whether I call or not. My decision won't make much difference in a global sense but I think as clients we should all be more careful about who we're seeing and it might reap results. The stereotype of a man thinking only with his dick should be de-bunked. We should be more selective, ask more questions (two clients in an hour with OWO is a real danger as sperm can survive in the mouth for hours (despite claims to the opposite), so in my opinion you should be able to ask if you're following soon after another client - if it is a problem to the escort then don't take the appointment). I had an intention to visit a very well reviewed escort this weekend but I noticed she recently had two reviews posted with the second appointment within an hour of the first beginning, so I wont be going there! I know escorts hate this attitude but it's my honest opinion that clients don't want to be in that close proximity to his predecessor.

Escorts, why not take a more stringent line of questioning with new clients? Ask who else the client may have visited, check the warning site (or the escorts' warning site if it exists), check their profile if they have one, be inquisitive about what services they expect instead of allowing them to ramble on and get a hard-on by talking about your favourites. You should get an idea if he's a timewaster and a potential no-shower. You may also get a flavour of his 'personality' with a few pertinent questions and you should drop him if you have any doubt - there are two golden rules in this world and one is that there's always another punter coming over the horizon.....

When my kids were involved in this incident I knew a change was needed and that I could never again rely on anyone else to protect me, or my identity. Let's be really safe out there and ask the bloody hard questions. And Escorts who get affronted by them should be ignored. Because the second golden rule is that there'll always be beautiful, and quality escorts who will be worth a little extra effort - on your part and theirs!