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What’s in a kiss?

A caller on the phone was expressing his reservations about his performance. He wanted to know if I kiss. It was very important, he stressed. He found, he explained, that he could get so turned on by being kissed that he’d get really horny and hard.

And this made me wonder? Is there more to the humble and often maligned kiss than meets the lips? So off I went to Google. Of course, if it’s indexed by Google, it must be true, right?

And sure enough, I found articles sharing scientific reports on the role kissing plays in increasing the levels of oxytocin, the body’s natural calming chemical, and also increased endorphins, the body’s feel good chemicals, and lowers cortisol. I often tell my clients worried about premature ejaculation to take deep, deliberate, relaxing breaths, which reduces the fight or flight tendency when under pressure to perform sexually.

Another piece of research managed to prove that the exchange of wet kisses transfers more testosterone, which increases sexual desire in the kissers. Elsewhere, I read that there is an increase in dopamine, which aids in feelings of romantic attachment. May I say here that I find the idea of spit/saliva, in any way shape of form so disgusting that if someone gives me a wet kiss, I recoil in a fit of repulsion. So what, I’ll miss out on the testosterone and dopamine! Big deal.

But this may explain why some men find encounters with some escorts completely unfulfilling, if the romantic attachment important to their sexual fulfilment is lacking and he books an escort that doesn’t kiss. And often, one won’t realise this until actually with the escort and she is averting her face, Diana style when her cohort puckers up. Mind you, I’ve had a couple of clients avert their faces when I offered my lips for a kiss.

Today, I kept an eye out on the effects of kissing. And lo and behold, what had been staring me at the face was now apparent. Clients with lukewarm erections tend to get incredibly stiff with better erections during kissing.

In another case, my last client of the day went from expressing the worry that he might ejaculate too quickly, to finding that after a prolonged blow job (which he enjoyed) and me riding him on top (which he enjoyed even more), he was no where near cumming. Which fact he blamed on his little experimentation in receiving my not so small strap-on earlier in the booking. He was all set to call it a day, bless him. But I’m one of those ladies who really wants the man I’m with to cum, if at all possible. Remembering how into kissing he’d been at the start of the booking (before I waived my strap-on in the air like a renegade gun-man), I leant over and kissed him while simultaneously riding him.

Once again, a kiss in time saved the day. He shot his load, and headed back home, contented.

So, when you find an escort that is happy to kiss you, count your lucky stars. And make your breath as mint fresh for her as possible so she can enjoy it just as much as you do!

xxx

Pru