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One of the problems faced by a client ( one who cares ) is determining whether the lady he would like to book is reasonably happy in her skin escorting.Admittedly, we can never be absolutely certain but you do your best by employing the usual research methods. However, what [B]we do know[/B] is why we visit escorts and the nature of the attitude towards these ladies that we bring to the booking.



I have read DCG's blog on " The Problem with Punters " and whilst there are a variet of points with which I would take issue, the following stand out for me;



[U][/U][B]Lack of Humanity[/B]



[I]"I had a regular punter who would pick me up in his van and I’d take off my bra and give him a blowjob in the back. He’d tell me stories about other escorts he was visiting, what raids on escorts he had witnessed when working (he was kind of a DIY man) in a house.[B] He liked me a lot and he was very nice to me. It felt equal. I felt like a human, and I felt appreciated, not conquested[/B]. However one punter does not an industry make. He was a nice guy but I got the feeling that he was single and wanted to have a girlfriend or wife. Maybe he was a stereo typical lonely punter. Obviously I can’t say for sure, it’s just the vibe I got off him. This might sound weird, but I found it easy to ‘forgive’ him for being a punter. He didn’t fall in love with me or anything even close to it, [B]but I felt humanity from him[/B], and I know that he liked me because of my personality, not just because of my boobs."[/I]

I simply cannot identify with the notion of treating the ladies with any other than respect, appreciation, niceness,equality, let alone 'humanity ' and I have little doubt that the majority of clients approach bookings in pretty much the same way.

Certainly, not one of the guys I know who visits escorts differ on this. Personally, I wont book unless I am in the right positive frame of mind, so as not to burden the lady with any negative vibes that I might otherwise carry. Therefore, I tend to book at relatively short notice in order to achieve this.



[U][/U][B]Orgasm[/B]

[I]" The secrets people keep. The secrets I thought were normal to keep, and I didn’t have a wife and kids. And then we have to ask, how can we justify what we’re doing if it’s so ‘okay’? [B] How can we justify what we’re doing that doesn’t boil down to ‘I want an orgasm’? It’s a pretty impossible I think, for nothing else would lead you to using escorts. [/B]And no, having orgasms is not your human right and even if it was there’s these things called hands? And don’t blame it on the social perception of using escorts; be the change you want to see then, be a pioneer for ‘punters rights’ or whatever, if you’re so passionate about it…. no? Didn’t think so. Why? [B]Because it all boils down to wanting an orgasm,[/B] which is slightly embarrassing, isn’t it?"[/I]


This is simply, utterly wrong ! Any reading of the boards will show a whole range of reasons why guys visit escorts.Some apparently just go for the company alone, let alone sex or an orgasm. One of the advantages of being a male is that achieving an orgasm is something that we can ' knock out on our own with a modicum of imagination whilst waiting for the kettle to boil ! We certainly dont need to pay escort fees in order to do so . Guys generally want to have an intimate experience with a beautiful woman , french kissing and reverse oral often being top of the list.