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In my humble opinion, after a fair few years of being a black independent escort, both in the UK and Ireland, I can pinpoint four main types of punter when it comes to the bareback question amongst escorts.

And if you are reading this and wondering, “What is bare back sex?” then before I begin to wax lyrical about these types, I should explain that bareback sex means penetrative sex without a condom. It can be penetration either anally or vaginally. But it’s without a condom. In other words, it is not safe sex. And you’d think one didn’t need a degree in advanced nuclear physics to understand the risks, and that discussions on bareback sex would be redundant. There you’d be wrong. Discussions exist, but normally, they are underground. Or over-ground with a lot of mud slinging and innocent bystanders getting splattered.

Strangely, while oral sex without a condom (aka OWO ((oral without)), also has its health risks, it isn’t classed under bareback sex. But occasionally, one will come across some sex worker who hasn’t understood this, especially if English is only a second language to her. So when she innocently confirms that she offers bare-back sex, she actually means that she offers OWO. And only when the definition is explained carefully to her does she recoil in horror at the thought of what she had almost unwittingly agreed to. But there are a good many who tick yes to bareback offerings and know fully well what it is.

So, back to the types of punters. There is the one that rings and asks if you offer bareback sex because he wants to be able to blacklist you from the list of ladies he would see. This is an unfortunate tactic as, personally, the moment a man mentions bareback sex in the conversation, I see no point in spending another minute talking to him and strive to bring the call to a polite conclusion. After which I then add his number to my phone’s auto reject list. Yet, we’re batting for the same safe sex team.

I take this pre-emptive measure because I have a distinct distrust of any man that would consider it if it were an option. These men have a tendency to request doggy style, or any sexual position that means the lady has her back turned towards him. And if she isn’t savvy enough to grab his penis before he penetrates, she may not realise, until it’s too late, and his spunk is dripping out of her pussy or arse, that his exceptionally loud grunting had been because he’d reached the utopia of bareback penetration. Some men have perfected the art of whipping a condom off without that tell-tale snap or ripping sound that a condom makes when hastily discarded.

These men will insist the condom dropped off and they hadn’t realised, or that it ripped (sure it did, with the aid of his nails). Or he’ll just shrug and say it was irritating him, or something else, as if taking it off were his right once he’d paid his money. But either way, he’s got what he wanted. You can’t undo sex. You can’t stuff the cum back into the penis once it’s out, no more than you can polish a turd.

Then there’s the client who asks about bareback sex because he wants bareback sex and sees nothing wrong with it. There’ll be more about him below.

Then there’s the one who wouldn’t dream of asking about bareback because this would be like asking the lady if she offers a Russian Roulette fantasy service.

Then there’s the client who doesn’t ask because it isn’t that important to him. But if it were offered, or if he and the lady got so carried away that she slipped and landed on his dick, that would be a bonus that wouldn’t leave him too bothered. He can take it or leave it. The risks, he might reason, are exaggerated.

As to the escorts, how do you know which one does and does not offer bareback sex? You can’t. That’s my opinion. Because no matter how loudly a lady may protest on her web site, escort forums, or advertising profiles, that she does not offer bareback sex, some escorts are like politicians. What they say on the outside and what they do on the inside doesn’t really hurt any body, does it? Think expense claims!

You’ll be surprised how many men are happy to book a lady that they know openly offers bareback sex to all and any one that asks. The same kind of man that will go to a bareback gang bang, or stand in a dogging queue, awaiting his turn with the slut bending over in the car boot, happy to plunge his unprotected cock in a hole still dripping with the outpourings of the men that stood ahead of him in the queue. To men like this, fucking a bareback escort is neither here nor there.

The other kind of client open to bareback will be more discerning about whom he shares this thrill with. It isn’t to be taken lightly, nor done with just any one. He seeks to avoid the crusty escort and find the nectar of a high class escort with less vaginal traffic, and an open door policy to her velvet key-hole.

I can only guess how such an escort who offers bareback sex on the sly might find a client who is ready to accept bareback sex without risking offering it to the wrong person that is going to go off and alert the rest of the punting community.

Sometimes, it’s after a few normal escort bookings. Bareback sex with an escort is the next best thing to a committed relationship for some men, especially if they believe that he is the only one she is offering it to. And of course, that is what she is going to tell him, to make him feel special and make him feel safe.

This is how she differs to the ones that offer bareback sex for an extra charge. It’s presented as a special, extremely exclusive, extra. This earns her his repeat business. If a man finds a lady he can ride bareback, he isn’t going to want to go out there and spend his money on another lady with whom he’ll have to “suit up” is he? Thus, for the really astute ladies, this is their strategy.

And all it needs is a quiet word in a half drowsy ear during pillow talk. Enough to retract the offer hurriedly and insist he had misunderstood what she said if the verbal hints do not go down well. A bit like a gay man who gently touches the back of the hand of a straight friend, softening the gamble of rejection with a gesture that could be dismissed as a misunderstanding.

Or she may play the trump card of persuasive body language hints – some men only have to press the knob of their erect cock against a lady’s moist pussy for a split second before he loses any shred of sensible reasoning he may have woken up with that morning. Remember, the blood sponsoring that stiff cock had to have come from somewhere – the brain!

If she’ll do it with you, she’ll do it with any body. Some men never believe this until they get a private message from another punter, compare notes, and realise they aren’t the only special ones.

Adultwork is one of the most visited escort and punting web sites in the world. Some attribute this to the controversial option of allowing the sex workers on it to openly advertise bareback sex as a service option. Some avoid it like the plague. But others suggest that all escort advertising sites should similarly allow this bareback openness.

It’s a double-edged sword. Like I’ve said, not every lady that offers it is willing to go on the record and admit it. She’ll take her chances with word of mouth recommendations within the bareback lovers community.

And should it stop with just ticking the option for the escort. I once turned down a duo booking offer from a male escort when I noticed that he was open to bareback sex on a case by case basis. I as an escort don’t want to work with another escort that is open to this. And I don’t want to offer oral without a condom to a client that I suspect may have had unprotected sex with an escort who openly advertises that she does. In fact, the longer I do this, the more I really want to consider taking OWO off the list of services I provide.

Escorts and punters alike could spend a lot of time profiling prospects, trying to pin-point the six degrees of separation between us and a bareback sex provider. Six degrees of separation is the theory that every person on the planet is connected with each other through six contacts. So consider this from a paid sex point of view.

“Sorry, I can’t accept a booking request from you,”

“Why not? My money’s as good as any body elses.”

“Well, six months ago, you wrote a punter review of Bloody Mary of Swindon, who sometimes does girl on girl duo bookings with Oriental Abby, who was reviewed by Sharp Shooter Rupert who’s seen Mature Ethel of Belfast, who was booked and reviewed by Randy Raymond of Edgbaston who wrote a review of Busty Susie’s Messy Bareback Gang Bangs. Seeing you would be too risky. Sorry.”

Suddenly, bareback sex is every body’s concern.

Being willing to pick up and spread any kind of communicable disease is selfish and without justification. Just think Six Degrees.

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