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The Lost Art of Making an Appointment

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Violette
, 28-05-10 at 15:29 (3015 Views)
This post is dedicated to all the ladies out there, who have to put up with the total lack of consideration from idiotic clients jerking them around.


I have worked around the world and I must say the art of making an appointment is something that seems to differ from country to country. Which can cause some frustration for the new comer. There are some places where time is more fluid, examples are Jamaica, Africa, South America, India, these cultures seem to use more of an interpretation of time rather than the more linear concrete representation that we in the West use. Be it 6pm, or 18:00-in this part of the world it means generally the same thing, except that is when working in Ireland. For some strange reason, I have noticed an application of both time systems in Ireland, the fluid and the concrete. Now to say nothing of the fact, this causes confusion. Or is it the arena in which these time constructs are being applied, escort appointment=fluid time, doctors appointment=concrete time. Another thing has occurred to me, is it possibly that an escort's time isn't as respected as that of a doctors. This I think is really the heart of the matter. The pervading cultural disrespect for the occupation of an escort, this leads to clients feeling that it is open season on making harassing comments and false appointments, or showing up when and where they feel like. And when this type of behavior isn't accepted, threats and more harassment follows. The fact that this is so widely happening, is a testament to the contempt the person making the appointment has for themselves. Gentlemen, making an appointment and not keeping it, isn't going to affect my bottom line too much, but it will affect whether you ever get to see my bottom in the future. Keep that in mind before you decide to play silly buggers.
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  1. ThomasJ's Avatar
    I'm Irish and a pet hate of mine is the lax attitude to time - my friends view me as odd because if I say a time I am there at that time - usually I am the only one there - it really pisses me off. I am just as particular with a booking - I make sure that I am there on time. I am no saint but when it comes to time I repect everyone. I would hate to think that Irish punters lack respect for escorts because hand on heart I have had fantastic experiences with the escorts I have met and these girls deserve to be respected as the professionals they are.
  2. Naughtynatalie's Avatar
    Well said Violette & ThomasJ, I agree wholeheartedly with what you both said & I just gotta say Violette you do have a way with words hun, you should write articles if you dont already & I mean besides the blogs & very candid, informative & sometimes very funny posts that you write. Would defo be up for reading your autobiography one day ;-)

    Kind regards, Leah xx
  3. Violette's Avatar
    Thanks ThomasJ, and Leah. Well, you can imagine being of mixed Caribbean decent, I was raised with flex-time, but it would drive me crazy. I hated as a child being late for school, so I would set the clocks in the house forward.
  4. Naughtynatalie's Avatar
    Having lots of friends in the Uk from the Carribean mostly JA, when we were going anywhere or I was waiting for them to pick me up & they'd say 10mins.. I learned to respond 'is that GMT or BMT' mostly it was BMT (black man time) but patience is not my virtue so I learned to drive & go hurry their ass up these days lol I hated school when I was young so you couldnt get me up out of bed to go but sure regret that now good on you for enjoying it when you were supposed to x
  5. Anna23's Avatar
    Surely it should be called " The lost art of keeping an appointment"...
  6. Violette's Avatar
    Good one Anna.
  7. Rodney69's Avatar
    While I agree that this lax attitude to time may in general be true in Ireland, I agree with ThomasJ, we're not all like that. I hate been late for anything, and it annoys me when others are late. Wen I make an appointment for anything I always arrive 5 to 10 minutes before to make sure I'm not late. Having been the victim of some missed appointments in the past, I can appreciate how frustrating it is if it happens on a regular basis for the ladies. There are always circumstances that arise that can cause either the escort or client to miss an appointment, but a simple text as soon as possible is all that is needed. I think both escorts and clients should be respected and assumed genuine until proven otherwise :-)
  8. Bodkin's Avatar
    It's called "Irish time" & it is one of the most annoying things about us. It is as though we feel it would be rude to show up punctually.
  9. richant12's Avatar
    Violette,

    You have a way with humour to make a good/valid point.
    Like Rodney & Thomas, I make an honest attempt to keep to time - respect works both ways and I find when you treat the lady well - I also have a nice time

    Richie x
  10. duderino's Avatar
    I always try to come* a little early, and text to let the escort know I'm in the area if she's available/ready.

    I know I'm definitely in the minority though. But I've also been left waiting for up to an hour by an escort (and I know I'm not the only one), or left holding my dick with no call or text reply from the escort at all, so it's swings and roundabouts really.

    (*note, NOT "cum", but "come"!)
  11. Elizaparkeruk's Avatar
    It can be just as bad for us, you book a time and he calls you 20 minutes after to say he is lost. Hummm I think we just need to remember that communication is key.