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Warning: this blog is not especially sexually explicit. If you’re looking for fantasy, go elsewhere!

Some of you may hark back to a previous era as a golden age of escorting. For me the golden age is here and now. Since Xmas last year I have had some amazing experiences meeting escorts – the best of my life.
Part of this stems from my own personal outlook. I have in the past beaten myself up severely over my “secret hobby”. This year I have accepted it as something that I do, and set out to maximise my enjoyment of every meeting. I am not deluding myself that what I do is morally without question, I just understand that stamp collecting or making model tractors would never work for me. Forcing myself to go to a “Basket Weaving for beginners” class would, I now accept, not dim my enthusiasm for escorts.
This means I’ve stopped doing silly things, like spending hours in a pointless exercise agonising over “will I, won’t I” before picking up the phone at the last minute and dialling the first number I see. I know I have time for planning; recognising that if things don’t work out today then there will be another day in the not too distant future when they will.
Of course “the head” still sometimes get’s overruled, so even this year has had a few bad decisions made on the spur of the moment. Memorably, I met a lady in Belfast who offered an opportunity of a “duo with my friend, waiting in the next room”. Despite the deafening clang of alarm bells in the head, the words “let’s do that” came out of my mouth and I headed to the nearest auto bank for the extra cash. It wasn’t an absolute disaster, but it’s tough to extract enjoyment out of reverse oral when all you can hear is a heated discussion in Spanish as your two partners argue about, well who’s turn it was to buy the milk, or whatever it might have been!
But I’m not going to get distracted by the odd speed bump, which after all is part of the fun!
My change in personal outlook has meant that I have been a bit more adventurous, although admittedly starting from a very conservative base. Old fart I may be, but I tried some new things this year. Some haven’t worked out – prostate massage I just found slightly uncomfortable and confusing (down to me, not the expert hands (well, finger) of the lady I tried it with). Some things have been spectacular. If there’s a “duos fan club” sign me up for life membership, this may be down to the fact that we have a truly exceptional duo visiting Ireland regularly... it’s the golden age, remember!
The other thing that makes this the golden age is the way EI helps escorting work, which makes Ireland a great place. I used to think London was better, but it is a huge haystack of competing sites with innumerable agencies (I am wary of these as potential traffickers) and defunct/out of date ads in which to find the needle of a real independent escort. On a recent trip there I had to travel over an hour from where I was staying into the depths of the east end to meet up with a young lady, in Dublin I don’t have to walk ten minutes if I don’t want to. (It was worth it mind... A bubbly, free spirited student, she told me her life story and advocated the GFE experience over Porn Star and then proceeded to treat me to the most incredible oral experience of my life. I can’t begin to explain the joy of having a beautiful lady wrap her lips around the very base of my penis and slowly work her way to the tip!)
Sorry, distracted again!! EI is great because it offers all sorts of different ways to understand and connect with ladies. My days of knocking on doors without having the faintest clue of who will open them are, thankfully, behind me! This year I have become a huge fan of the PM system. Because not every lady uses this part of the system it can limit who you might meet, but as a way of building an understanding of the person you will be meeting... perfect. It works both ways too. I am not Quasimodo, at least I don’t think I am, but sharing who I am and what I want from a meet surely helps? The review system too, works for me. Yes some reviews are of little use – I am not sure whether my pet hate is the two word “great sex” ones or the two paragraph “I’m a real stud and I’m gonna tell you why” variety, and they are all written from an individual’s perspective, but they help build a picture. At least you know if the photos you are looking at are the lady you will meet.
All this encourages variety. I no longer have a “type”. I have met a huge range of different ladies – tall to short; slim to voluptuous; blond to dark. And I have met ladies from all corners of the world. There is, I now realise, no set formula to a lady who I can have a wonderful time with and all sorts of different pleasures possible, so variety is the spice of my life!
The final piece of the Jigsaw... pure dumb luck. I’ve just been really lucky in meeting some great ladies in the last 12 months. Is there anything in the world better than spending an hour with a beautiful, intelligent, confident and sexy woman – I think not and I have met many this year. Look at my review list for the roll of honour - I refuse to single any of them out because they are all special in their own way.
As for the future, who knows? I will save up my pennies, look optimistically and punt respectfully and hope that’s good enough. All I can do is be the best that I can be.
My Golden year since last Xmas is done. Peace and goodwill to all.
:)