Asked for references.

So here's the deal folks:

I've been a member for just over 4 years but I'm the type of person who likes to keep the head down and just go about my day. I'm a very private person and don't do social media or, as you can tell from this profile, generally partake in online forums(I have communicated with ladies and other forum members through PMs in the past).

I have been meeting ladies since mid 2009 but never left reviews as I thought all this was illegal when I started out. I'm always somewhat reluctant to send any information about myself online, as I stated already, I am a very private person and always viewed the review system as a paper trail connecting me to an activity which I would prefer to keep private. I obviously realised some time ago that this is currently a legal activity and in hindsight I could have left some reviews.

So, on to today: A lady arrived in my area today and I have been dying to meet her for ages, I don't think she's been down here before. Anyhow, I gave her a call and was asked to provide references by texting the names of some of the ladies I have met in the past. Now, I understand fully why a lady would ask this and I have no issues whatsoever with being asked to give a reference. I understand that the lady is totally within her right to make such a request. So I sent the text message with the names of some of the ladies I have visited but I last met with a lady in mid 2014 and chances are very high that I won't be remembered.

I now understand that trust is somewhat gained by forum participation and by reviewing but I would like to ask have any members ever been in this position and how did you prove that you were genuine? And yes, I know it's my own fault for not participating on here but I would like to begin to rectify that.

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Originally Posted by grypwr85

So here's the deal folks:

I've been a member for just over 4 years but I'm the type of person who likes to keep the head down and just go about my day. I'm a very private person and don't do social media or, as you can tell from this profile, generally partake in online forums(I have communicated with ladies and other forum members through PMs in the past).

I have been meeting ladies since mid 2009 but never left reviews as I thought all this was illegal when I started out. I'm always somewhat reluctant to send any information about myself online, as I stated already, I am a very private person and always viewed the review system as a paper trail connecting me to an activity which I would prefer to keep private. I obviously realised some time ago that this is currently a legal activity and in hindsight I could have left some reviews.

So, on to today: A lady arrived in my area today and I have been dying to meet her for ages, I don't think she's been down here before. Anyhow, I gave her a call and was asked to provide references by texting the names of some of the ladies I have met in the past. Now, I understand fully why a lady would ask this and I have no issues whatsoever with being asked to give a reference. I understand that the lady is totally within her right to make such a request. So I sent the text message with the names of some of the ladies I have visited but I last met with a lady in mid 2014 and chances are very high that I won't be remembered.

I now understand that trust is somewhat gained by forum participation and by reviewing but I would like to ask have any members ever been in this position and how did you prove that you were genuine? And yes, I know it's my own fault for not participating on here but I would like to begin to rectify that.

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Personally i dont think if u participate on forum u are classified as 'genuine'. A guy who is active on forum sent me an email, asked him to call me and find out i have his number saved as a guy who booked 2 appointments with me before but never showed up.... its easy to register for anybody and spend time here show just that u have plenty of free time lol or u like to chat on here.... many genuine clients dont even know about forum , or dont have time to chat o here as they are to busy with life and work..meantime many who chat here have not any review or maybe visit very rare escorts...

No I've never been asked.
Probably just aa well :)

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Originally Posted by grypwr85

I now understand that trust is somewhat gained by forum participation and by reviewing but I would like to ask have any members ever been in this position and how did you prove that you were genuine? And yes, I know it's my own fault for not participating on here but I would like to begin to rectify that.

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I have never been asked for a reference but I do know that ladies do ask for references from time time — I can't blame them as they have their safety to consider.

I participate on the forums and leave reviews — I believe this may be why I have not been asked.

Yeah as I said, it's understandable if some ladies ask for references for their safety but chances are the names I gave don't even remember me. The lady in question hasn't got back to me so I assume she didn't get the info she needed. I'll try again tomorrow.

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Originally Posted by FetishCherry

Personally i dont think if u participate on forum u are classified as 'genuine'. A guy who is active on forum sent me an email, asked him to call me and find out i have his number saved as a guy who booked 2 appointments with me before but never showed up.... its easy to register for anybody and spend time here show just that u have plenty of free time lol or u like to chat on here.... many genuine clients dont even know about forum , or dont have time to chat o here as they are to busy with life and work..meantime many who chat here have not any review or maybe visit very rare escorts...

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I know what you mean. I very rarely log in here but am genuine and have had some great encounters with ladies. Although, I do have a particular kink that some ladies might just remember :)

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Originally Posted by SophieX

I can't wait for the new law.... ��

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This is the main reason why I want to try to earn some trust because I know how difficult it will be in the future.

If i'm asked for a reference i just say goodbye, could provide them okay but just couldn't be arsed to be honest,

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Originally Posted by SophieX

I can't wait for the new law.... ��

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neither can we, you'll be paying the guys flights on here to visit you in Liverpool, and you won't be on E-I at all much then, will be E-E won't it , Can't wait

I was never asked for a reference,I have seen on my profile I have a few of them,that said I am so charming and cute The ladies were calling me and asking if I wanted references,did I mention I am off my meds and have delusions?

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Originally Posted by MALCOLM

If i'm asked for a reference i just say goodbye, could provide them okay but just couldn't be arsed to be honest,

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And it's their loss,let that be a lesson to them,they had the chance to meet you and missed out.

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Originally Posted by bettercallsaul

And it's their loss,let that be a lesson to them,they had the chance to meet you and missed out.

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just don't like to be kept long on the phone

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Originally Posted by SophieX

Just got my Irish passport on monday.... �� �� ��

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And it was a beautiful service (noooo not that type),so happy for yourself and Casman,the reception was lovely :love8:

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Originally Posted by SophieX

Just got my Irish passport on monday.... �� �� ��

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right, were you getting afraid carrying around a British one then

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Originally Posted by bettercallsaul

And it was a beautiful service (noooo not that type),so happy for yourself and Casman,the reception was lovely :love8:

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Im still holding out for claudia,the dirt bird wasn't lying about us,we definitely clicked.

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Originally Posted by casman

Im still holding out for claudia,the dirt bird wasn't lying about us,we definitely clicked.

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Hope you got a good grip on what ever your holding,lol :o

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Originally Posted by bettercallsaul

Hope you got a good grip on what ever your holding,lol :o

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Hope to be holding a lovely lady in 20 minutes before my flight in the morning. ...talk to you in a couple of weeks bud.

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Originally Posted by casman

Hope to be holding a lovely lady in 20 minutes before my flight in the morning. ...talk to you in a couple of weeks bud.

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Have you sent a ransom letter yet? How long will you be holding her? It's the family I worry about :p

Have fun.

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Originally Posted by SophieX

Beauty & the beast is actually on channel 603 right now, i know you love Disney :p



No, it was my fake Albanian one i was para about.... 😂

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Have you nothing better to be doing than to continue insulting me....get a life and move on.

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Originally Posted by SophieX

You only appeared when i started posting again!

Is the Goonies on Sky?


Love that movie.... 😂

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Bloody hell you think a lot of yourself,anyway haven't time for this now,off to see a lovely young lady and an early flight in the morning...dont miss me too much lol.

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Originally Posted by zilch

Just talk to the escort and explain to her what you just explained to us but in a shorter version. I'm sure she will understand where you are coming from.
If you are respectful and honest on the phone she will sense that from you and you should be Ok for that appointment.

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Thanks. Yeah I'm always respectful when communicating with a lady and to be fair, she was very pleasant on the phone, didn't come across arrogant or rude so I'm not taking it personally. I'll try again tomorrow anyway. Fingers crossed.

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Originally Posted by SophieX

I can't wait for the new law.... 😂

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Why Sophie?

I can not believe anyone would welcome this unjust new law seeing that it criminalises us clients and will actually be a really sad day, I will not be punting in Ireland no more either.

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Originally Posted by themanofwar

Why Sophie?

I can not believe anyone would welcome this unjust new law seeing that it criminalises us clients and will actually be a really sad day, I will not be punting in Ireland no more either.

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Yeah. Take that Sophie!!!

:lmao:

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Originally Posted by SophieX

A very sad day for the 50 euro ladies of Cavan. :D

wait was that a double negative.... :o



Loll :rolleyes:

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100 euro ladies too, sad day for all concerned i think, even the so called English girls with big fake boobs will struggle to make it work :p

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Originally Posted by SophieX

Beauty & the beast is actually on channel 603 right now, i know you love Disney :p



No, it was my fake Albanian one i was para about.... 😂

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oh yeah, everyone wanted to be Albanian, those were the old days when running brothels in England were so easy

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Originally Posted by SophieX

First week might be quiet, i'll have to book a holiday somewhere exotic til it all gets back to normal ... :p

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off to Blackpool again so, I suggest more than a week;)

I'm considering Poznan, Sophie, once a month, a sex holiday you're half Polish now anyway, got any tips for me, please be serious:o

I was asked by Allysa Jenkins. It is a good idea especially as the ladies I mentioned to her would have given me good reviews.

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Originally Posted by SophieX

A 1 way ticket.... :p

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I said be serious.....
Sorry, I never got to see you when you were up this way, you'll just have to get over it:o but I always promised myself I would never visit a lady that was 10 years or more older than me,
I'm 28...

love that tune!

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Originally Posted by SophieX

I'm truly hurt and saddened.

Just made a special tour this saturday in case you have a change of heart.... you never know, you might just like 38yr old plastic women... ��

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No can do, I'm busy, washing me hair :flowers1:

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Originally Posted by SophieX

I'm truly hurt and saddened.

Just made a special tour this saturday in case you have a change of heart.... you never know, you might just like 38yr old plastic women... 😂

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Now I see you're up yourself for a bit of a laugh :)

38yr is not a bad age at all but you're far from it.

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Originally Posted by themanofwar

No can do, I'm busy, washing me hair :flowers1:

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Awww, enjoy the hair washing ... by the time you get to Sophie's age it may be gone :)

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Originally Posted by themanofwar

Why Sophie?

I can not believe anyone would welcome this unjust new law seeing that it criminalises us clients and will actually be a really sad day, I will not be punting in Ireland no more either.

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The man of war is a chicken.

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Originally Posted by themanofwar

I said be serious.....
Sorry, I never got to see you when you were up this way, you'll just have to get over it:o but I always promised myself I would never visit a lady that was 10 years or more older than me,
I'm 28...

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The man of war is a young chicken .

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Originally Posted by themanofwar

No can do, I'm busy, washing me hair :flowers1:

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A hairy chicken.
No feathers.