Originally Posted by
mexicanpete
The word ‘dating’ in the thread title seems to upset some posters because they interpret this as meaning that I get sex for free.
This is absolutely not the case as I visit escorts because I want to pay for sex in cash and not in any other way. To be quite honest, paying the money gives me the option of ending the relationship without feeling bad about it.
You meet single girls everywhere and a small percentage will always come on to you. I think that they view a marriage ring as a challenge. They say ‘I don’t mind that you are married, I am happy to see you occasionally and have a good time’. It never works like that.
When a girl meets a man who enjoys making love to her (as distinct from fucking her), enjoys listening to her and enjoys shopping with her this equates in her mind to true love and an implied proposal of marriage. I would have left my wife at the drop of a hat but there is no woman that ever come close to tempting me to leave my kids.
I should say that there is nothing special about me when it comes to meeting girls except for the fact that I prefer the company of women whereas most men prefer hanging out with other men
Relationships with single girls always end in floods of tears and recriminations and my feeling very bad about myself for having hurt the girl. Paying a girl money keeps the relationship focussed. The times that I have stopped paying escorts directly for sex, I have ended up paying considerably more and with the exact same grief and recriminations at the end that I get from non-escorts.
The moral of the story is; always pay for the sex, it is far cheaper.