Giving your form name in advance of first meet

[Lighthearted2022]

I chose not to see someone from here because of b!tchy crap he had written here towards other ladies also when he contacted me via text he told me his username and that he a X number of reviews & I found this to be arrogant as in
“I’m a reviewer, you should be on ur best behaviour”. (He didn’t actually say that, it’s just how I perceived it)

I would sometimes have mentioned it with a lady I hadn't met before - thinking it would give her some comfort (she could see my posts and who I'd met before). I never considered it could be seen as seeking anything else or preferential treatment.