Giving your form name in advance of first meet

[JennyIrish]

I would sometimes have mentioned it with a lady I hadn't met before - thinking it would give her some comfort (she could see my posts and who I'd met before). I never considered it could be seen as seeking anything else or preferential treatment.

Oh I’ve certainly seen guys who have told me their usernames, to be honest I never even bother checking their posts or reviews, If he has followed my booking instructions and comes across as polite in his correspondence that’s fine with me.

Maybe I’m overly cautious, but if I get a hint of bad manners in correspondence I just block immediately. There’s plenty of good decent clients to go around!

[AmyTantraMassage]

I’m wondering what the protocol is for giving or not giving your forum name to someone you might be thinking about seeing who is active on the forums? They haven’t asked. I suppose if you have a great time and say so everyone is happy. If you don’t various levels of akwardness are a possibility. Also there is the possibility as In perceptions coming from interactions online that neither of you are what they expected built on preconceptions they may have about you or vice versa.

Makes no difference to me. I treat members and none members the same. They all get the same epic service and cuntiness.

[Harry68]

Makes no difference to me. I treat members and none members the same. They all get the same epic service and cuntiness.

That’s good to know although I would have thought the two things you are advertising there are mutually exclusive. I admire your adjective creation skills.

[Harry68]

Surely anyone you have left a review for knows your face or am I missing something ?

[JennyIrish]

Surely anyone you have left a review for knows your face or am I missing something ?

Ummmmm . . . Yes of course!!

Some guys live & breathe EI drama!!!!

I’ve had guys spent their entire time with me talking fondly about another lady, it dosnt bother me at all I just find it funny!

Or guys who just talk about everyone on the boards here and whatever the latest drama is! It’s my workplace and I wouldn’t know half as much about what’s been going on!!

[Nononsense111]

Ummmmm . . . Yes of course!!

Some guys live & breathe EI drama!!!!

I’ve had guys spent their entire time with me talking fondly about another lady, it dosnt bother me at all I just find it funny!

Or guys who just talk about everyone on the boards here and whatever the latest drama is! It’s my workplace and I wouldn’t know half as much about what’s been going on!!

I’ve heard that last point happen before, really sad carry on to be fair. Really puts ladies in a tough spot. I remember when Rockerman was active on here , I think someone was trying to find out loads about him during meetings with his regular. Strange behaviour

[EllaBella]

Surely anyone you have left a review for knows your face or am I missing something ?

If somebody have a visit on monday with the girl and he didnt said his username and leave the review in a week or two, is kinda imposible to remember the face, the girl might check with who she met at the date and time the review is if she didnt delete the history of calls and text mesages but still is not easy to remember, it did happen to me many times becouse i dint ask his username if he a member or not, only if he contact me by pm i would know.

Sometime i recomend people to not say theyr username, becouse no matter if he is registered or not, all pay the same amount for the time with the girl and all should be threated the same way, "epic service" like Amy said!

[Harry68]

I’d never visit (again) anyone who told me anything about someone else.

[MiaX]

I think it depends on the representation. If can come across as arrogant, as if he wanted special treatment in the hopes of a good review.
But if it is done right, in an introductory way, based on what I picked up here and there, they do it to ensure, that the lady feels safe, she can look them up and see for herself. And I think, it is a good thing, that they want us to feel comfortable, I appreciate that.
But it is not a requirement, if you are a good guy, you are a good guy either way 😊

[AmbiValent]

Back in the day I was a more active user on a different forum. I visited a certain escort, had a chat, left and reviewed. Another forum member visited afterwards and asked her about me. She readily passed on what I'd told her (where I'm from, where I work etc) and he then relayed the same back to me. He was benign and harmless so no harm done. This lady would have been considered amongst the creme de la creme of established ladies but alas discretion meant nothing to her.

Since then I'll still have conversations with the ladies but 99 times out of a hundred I'll lie about anything personal. What does it really matter anyway?
As for forum names I suspect you have improved odds of getting a better service if they know you use the forums and are an active reviewer. It makes sense but I still think discretion makes more sense.