Sharing a bad experience. Stay safe

[gjetson468]

I had a horrific experience today. My usual favorite was out of town so I visited a masseuse who advertise here. Meeting arranged well in advance, arrived on cue. I was asked to wait, several reasons offered. I didn't care, but I finally saw another man exit the building and did the math.

I wasn't pissed. It was the first time I was experimenting in a while so I was looking forward to it. I didn't confront her but did ask her if we can cut our session short. Now, I'll skip the part where she schooled me justifying the double booking (among blatant lies, life is unfair was thrown in among others). By this point she became quite rude and it was made clear that our unfortunate meeting had to end. I politely then declined taking up the service, to which she absolutely turned Gordon Ramsey at me and started hurling abuses.

(Doesn't end here). I'm not ashamed to admit that I got scared. Scared of one of many bad ways this could end. This was the first and hopefully last time that a girl was going powerpuff at me, like I stole her baby. I took a step back and tried to calm her down. She then started shoving me, asking me to get out. I had nothing at this point so hurried my way out. Even after exiting the building, the lady followed me to the street and kept hurling abused at me. By now I wasn't just scared but also ashamed with the commotion it caused on a two way street.

My naivety was at choosing someone who had opted out of reviews. Not saying that's always a bad thing but this was the third bad experience with someone who has opted out of reviews (3 out of 3). That's ample pattern for me. Message received.

I don't review. Even the bad ones. But I wanted to share this because this could have easily ended very badly. I have massive respect for the ladies here, and understand that our arrangement works on a thin line of trust and discretion. One more important than the other, on each side. It's a lesson learned the hard way. Stay safe all.

[AmorInfinito8]

I had a horrific experience today. My usual favorite was out of town so I visited a masseuse who advertise here. Meeting arranged well in advance, arrived on cue. I was asked to wait, several reasons offered. I didn't care, but I finally saw another man exit the building and did the math.

I wasn't pissed. It was the first time I was experimenting in a while so I was looking forward to it. I didn't confront her but did ask her if we can cut our session short. Now, I'll skip the part where she schooled me justifying the double booking (among blatant lies, life is unfair was thrown in among others). By this point she became quite rude and it was made clear that our unfortunate meeting had to end. I politely then declined taking up the service, to which she absolutely turned Gordon Ramsey at me and started hurling abuses.

(Doesn't end here). I'm not ashamed to admit that I got scared. Scared of one of many bad ways this could end. This was the first and hopefully last time that a girl was going powerpuff at me, like I stole her baby. I took a step back and tried to calm her down. She then started shoving me, asking me to get out. I had nothing at this point so hurried my way out. Even after exiting the building, the lady followed me to the street and kept hurling abused at me. By now I wasn't just scared but also ashamed with the commotion it caused on a two way street.

My naivety was at choosing someone who had opted out of reviews. Not saying that's always a bad thing but this was the third bad experience with someone who has opted out of reviews (3 out of 3). That's ample pattern for me. Message received.

I don't review. Even the bad ones. But I wanted to share this because this could have easily ended very badly. I have massive respect for the ladies here, and understand that our arrangement works on a thin line of trust and discretion. One more important than the other, on each side. It's a lesson learned the hard way. Stay safe all.

(1) This site isn't the only site!

(2) I tried another site before E.I were there isn't any verification and got horribly catfished twice
I would have given up if I had a first bad experience here

(3) I don't risk opt-outs!!
I know some Girls from these other sites
aren't getting clients and have moved over to E.I with opt-out profiles

(4) you wanna take the risk?
Your not telling anyone anything they don't know!!

(5) stick to established girls or on occasion if a girl has just joined and allows reviews you might find a diamond

(6) this site can either take it's own credibility seriously or allow fake profiles to scare off clients to the point that girls won't advertise here!!!?

I know what I'd do as far as a business perspective!!!

[TonyB]

(1) This site isn't the only site!

(2) I tried another site before E.I were there isn't any verification and got horribly catfished twice
I would have given up if I had a first bad experience here

(3) I don't risk opt-outs!!
I know some Girls from these other sites
aren't getting clients and have moved over to E.I with opt-out profiles

(4) you wanna take the risk?
Your not telling anyone anything they don't know!!

(5) stick to established girls or on occasion if a girl has just joined and allows reviews you might find a diamond

(6) this site can either take it's own credibility seriously or allow fake profiles to scare off clients to the point that girls won't advertise here!!!?

I know what I'd do as far as a business perspective!!!

I do agree with you

I just wanted to add that there are some decent girls that don't allow reviews
However it's hard to justify meeting them given the number that are a waste of space

[AmyTantraMassage]

I had a horrific experience today. My usual favorite was out of town so I visited a masseuse who advertise here. Meeting arranged well in advance, arrived on cue. I was asked to wait, several reasons offered. I didn't care, but I finally saw another man exit the building and did the math.

I wasn't pissed. It was the first time I was experimenting in a while so I was looking forward to it. I didn't confront her but did ask her if we can cut our session short. Now, I'll skip the part where she schooled me justifying the double booking (among blatant lies, life is unfair was thrown in among others). By this point she became quite rude and it was made clear that our unfortunate meeting had to end. I politely then declined taking up the service, to which she absolutely turned Gordon Ramsey at me and started hurling abuses.

(Doesn't end here). I'm not ashamed to admit that I got scared. Scared of one of many bad ways this could end. This was the first and hopefully last time that a girl was going powerpuff at me, like I stole her baby. I took a step back and tried to calm her down. She then started shoving me, asking me to get out. I had nothing at this point so hurried my way out. Even after exiting the building, the lady followed me to the street and kept hurling abused at me. By now I wasn't just scared but also ashamed with the commotion it caused on a two way street.

My naivety was at choosing someone who had opted out of reviews. Not saying that's always a bad thing but this was the third bad experience with someone who has opted out of reviews (3 out of 3). That's ample pattern for me. Message received.

I don't review. Even the bad ones. But I wanted to share this because this could have easily ended very badly. I have massive respect for the ladies here, and understand that our arrangement works on a thin line of trust and discretion. One more important than the other, on each side. It's a lesson learned the hard way. Stay safe all.

That word only applies to the 1st time you visited an opt out advertiser. If you're an adrenaline junkie and get off of your Russian roulette punting style, own up to it. Tfb, it sounds exciting, the will she won't she. Just know when you complain, many an eye will be rolling.

No sympathy here. You should know better.

[markrey86]

That word only applies to the 1st time you visited an opt out advertiser. If you're an adrenaline junkie and get off of your Russian roulette punting style, own up to it. Tfb, it sounds exciting, the will she won't she. Just know when you complain, many an eye will be rolling.

No sympathy here. You should know better.

Can I ask why do people opt out? The obvious answer is so they don't want to get bad reviews but at the same time they won't get good reviews, guessing they are more than likely expecting more bad reviews than good?

[bigmango]

Can I ask why do people opt out? The obvious answer is so they don't want to get bad reviews but at the same time they won't get good reviews, guessing they are more than likely expecting more bad reviews than good?

Many girls opt out when they have a bad experience with a client and the client threatens to leave a bad review - often it is because the girl will not provide a particular favorite

[gjetson468]

Thanks guys. I don't want to turn this into a decaying debate but I do appreciate the feedback🙏🏽- just sharing my experience for the benefit of those who aren't as experienced or wise in the game.

Until yesterday, the "risk" of to me was a good punt or sunk cost. It was by no means a woman running after me on a street. What's next? Pulling a knife, blackmail? I sincerely don't feel I know enough but I wish someone had told me. Hence the post🙌🏽

I've been doing this for a few years and this was certainly shocking to me. If this helps a couple of us make better decisions in the future, I'd be glad.

[Harry68]

Let he who has not visited an opt out cast the first stone as the Good Book says (I think).

All bar the ultra disciplined calllers have at some point I would imagine rolled the dice . I’ve done 2/3 times myself. Only the most recent one was truly terrible. The other one/two were fine but not one for return visits.

It’s your money and your time at the end of the day and you’re free to spend both as you wish. Better research and preparation leads to better outcomes.

I don’t think I’m telling you anything you don’t already know.

Going back to the Good Book - “the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak”.

[revkeg]

Insane that she followed you onto the street. As someone with social anxiety that would destroy me for weeks.

I wonder if the man leaving the building was another punter or her partner.

The last time I visited an opt-out it was incredibly bad and I think cured me of opt-outs for life.

[AmyTantraMassage]

Probably not the 1st time she’s humiliated someone like that hence the opt out. I dunno how anyone with very little regard to discretion is still in business tbh. She must be pretty great when you stay regardless of hygiene/treatment. Bumping into previous client is enough of a red flag to not go in as she’d no respect for either of them. Imagine if they knew each other!!

But then again, if she has a ‘receptionist’ she might not have know and she’d have to pay the ‘commission’ out of pocket hence the rage.