CIM issues/requests

[Dillywilly]

Great thread. CIM is a personal favorite of mine. I have met a few belles who provide and importantly enjoy doing it. Happy to provide my tips if others can enlighten me too. To all have a great New Year’s Eve.

[AmyTantraMassage]

All extras you're paying for should be repeated by you and confirmed by her while you're counting the payment for her. If the horrified face hits then, it's much more convenient to back out then instead of asking for a refund when you're already naked in bed, or silently putting up with getting scammed. What I'm horrified by is the unreasonable disgust of c** in the industry. Why act like he's shooting poop from his d***? Girl...

If you've ever done massage you'd know why. Also, you do know semen goes bad, taste like whatever you ingest and whatnot? Not everyone has/knows how to have an ad as clear and as precise as yours and not everyone gets clients that are clean even post shower. BO is also NOT about hygiene sometimes and pheromones smell different to each girl.

However, I agree 100% in that, b4 handing money over, repeat the favs you're after again. Anytime I book someone who asks for something in particular, I add it to booking text I sent them after our call. But I understand some girls have basic English and some don't even answer their phones.

[AmyTantraMassage]

How different we all are xx

: I refuse to discuss anything of an intimate nature over the phone Or in person before getting horizontal .

I just Deliver My favorites .

I do what I want ; I cannot do otherwise .

Naturally if covered oral is requested that also is catered to , but owo is my thing .

: and in My mind :: I know what it feels like being at the apex of my orgasm and my guy moves off .

It’s Horrible .

I would never do that to another person : so at my house the natural progression from owo is cim .

: if I don’t feel like Kissing a guy - we will never even progress to the fun bits >> I just apologize

saying I’m just not feeling it , don’t want to waste your money , nor my time : I would Never

engage with a person unless I am comfortable providing All my faves .

To do otherwise is just beyond me :: But I would Never be discussing things on the phone or

even on my couch . In My world : I don’t talk about it - I Do …. what I feel like x

This. SO MUCH THIS!!!

[AmyTantraMassage]

I just read reviews about us on another website and I liked the discussion under the reviews. Some of cancaled reviews from here was mentioned.

Uuhhh where? I'm bored of this forum and need somewhere to lurk lol.

[AmyTantraMassage]

Worth baring in mind!!

The meaning of CIM is very easily misinterpreted especially by girls who speak basic English or English as a second language

To avoid confusion and disappointment!?
use Google translate to make yourself crystal clear what you are asking and send a text

Girls list their preferred language on their profile

As someone who gags during covered oral (I reflex start gagging as the guy is about to cum), that cum pocket at the tip of condoms is made to choke out gadgets like me, CIM with condom counts as cim

[AmyTantraMassage]

I don’t want write down here what I really think about non English speaking girls ( working with reception ).

Is that what we're calling them now? Lol.

Edit: regarding 'receptionists'.

[Dieve]

Extras… yes - you should probably receive all from menu what about you discussed before. It’s not my style. Iam happy enough i can do real girlfriend experience without talking if i will take it later in my mouth or what i will do for €20 extra.

Shoppers… eh…

It’s fine. We all are different and nothing what was said is wrong or good only. But if some my potential client read all of this. Please just put my envelope in visible place and tell me how is your day going when you are going to bathroom. I don’t accept any discussion about service or money.

I'm a bit puzzled how this cannot go wrong. It often happens to me that they receive my quote and ask to be booked in, but they don't tell me that they will only take this extra or that, add something else to it, or extend or reduce time until they're there. Anything can change until they pay, so in lieu of any witness who would confirm what was handed over, it should be the provider's responsibility that they're aware of what they received, and adjust the session accordingly. That's why I consider verbal agreement crucial, so that he cannot say 20min later that he gave me 190, I just didn't notice...

I understand you want to avoid the shop feeling because you feel like it would affect your vibe negatively, but it would be much more awkward if the client forgot to notify you that eventually he didn't want an extra which you ended up performing because you thought he paid for it, you trusted him that it's in the envelope, but the discrete appearance was more important than a clear and fair transaction.

[IAmLIAm]

You “memed me”…what now?, Is that a thing, you’ve lost me there.

You’re not alone?, who else is offended? You seem to be the only one drawing attention/targeting an escort over a turn of phrase.

I know you are fond of playing the “new to all this” card, I’m not totally convinced but let’s assume it’s true, maybe wait a little longer before manufacturing a row for clout with one of the few escorts who interacts with posters

Okay, so now I'm the one confused... What turn of phrase are you talking about?
I didn't say I was particularly offended by any post, just that there were somethings said that boiled down to generalized stereotypes (which is bigotry). The thing that I am a bit offended by is the censorship and was calling out the mods more than anything else (welcome aboard new mods).
I guess "lucky me" I don't need to wait for your permission to share my opinion or a differing view point.

[AmorInfinito8]

As someone who gags during covered oral (I reflex start gagging as the guy is about to cum), that cum pocket at the tip of condoms is made to choke out gadgets like me, CIM with condom counts as cim

Maybe I'm mistaken but I always thought


COME IN ME (with condom)

as opposed to

COME IN MOUTH

Which was the general topic of thread
hence I've tried to point out a possible confusion when requesting CIM!?

Something I personally don't request

then again like I said maybe I've misinterpreted the difference between the two CIM's?

I've just looked it up on the main page
and I have been misinterpreting the CIM's

Every day's a School Day 🤔

[MidlifeCrisis]

I would be so happy if everyone realise he is paying for our time when we can do all favourites mentioned in advert but it’s still just idea what we can do. There is so many aspects around. To be honest i don’t continue a conversation when someone asked me with his list of favourites. Iam woman who offer her time but there is nobody who will tell me what i should do. Even this opinion i never had any problem with it as everyone treated me well or he didn’t have any problem to visit a bathroom again. I offer my time and its me who will decide if i will do it or not. Iam not a shop and i really don’t like if Dieve talk about herself like about shop. She should realise she is young woman who deserve every kind of respect. Talking about ourself like about shop is disrespectful for me. And it’s no hate.

I agree with this approach, although I know there are plenty of guys who won't.

I treat the list of favourites just as an indication of the style of experience to expect. and personally I would not be interested in negotiating particular favourites or "extras". It feels to me like it demeans all involved. The idea that a girl would continue with a particular act because she had contracted to do it would be my nightmare.

I am happy to take my chances and go with what a girl feels comfortable with. It has worked for me so far.