Is it okay to cancel an appointment in a timely manner?

[Waltzingmatilda]

Just wondering what is the consensus. I made an appointment with an escort Saturday night for Sunday about over 2 month ago.Something unexpected came up so I cancelled with this lady via text after 9 a.m. on Sunday. Didn’t want to text her too early but didn’t want to text too late as she could make other plans.
Is this reasonable etiquette?
I’d love to make an appointment with this lady now but feel she might be a tad annoyed. No reply from my cancellation via text, which was fair. I just genuinely couldn’t make it, as unfortunately life happens.

[Brooksey86]

What time was the apt and when did you find out about whatever it was that made you cancel?2 months out anything can happen. Impossible to know if someone can commit to that.

[queenviktorya]

Well to make appointment 2 months ago... That’s very long time ago. You should make confirm week before, day or two before and in the day of the appointment. Anything can happen both parties. Absolutely. But you shouldn’t wait till that day and cancel it in the morning if you knew it earlier. Why waiting for that day? Why don’t let lady know earlier? Especially when she was so kind and accept appointment so much ahead. Just my thought. I wouldn’t mind cancelation. As anything can show up. But not Gentlemen wait for day of appointment if he knew it already.

[Barney Rubble]

No, totally unacceptable. Death by firing squad !

[Waltzingmatilda]

No, totally unacceptable. Death by firing squad !

“It’s Winnie The Pooh in Wax World, Cat. He’s refusing the blindfold!”

Ah good to see someone else here appreciates Red Dwarf!

[Stephanie]

Well to make appointment 2 months ago... That’s very long time ago. You should make confirm week before, day or two before and in the day of the appointment. Anything can happen both parties. Absolutely. But you shouldn’t wait till that day and cancel it in the morning if you knew it earlier. Why waiting for that day? Why don’t let lady know earlier? Especially when she was so kind and accept appointment so much ahead. Just my thought. I wouldn’t mind cancelation. As anything can show up. But not Gentlemen wait for day of appointment if he knew it already.

Also depends on the length of the appointment that is being canceled :

If it was a one hr booking , canceling the day before or at least with several hr’s notice would be ok / Life .

If the booking was a multi-hour or half day / full day appointment , that lady would’ve reserved that block of time

for That appointment :: to cancel a booking like that on Morning Of … oh my , that’d be lowly .

That said , life Can happen : but in such case I feel it would be gentlemanly to offer partial payment for

her time lost .

[Waltzingmatilda]

What time was the apt and when did you find out about whatever it was that made you cancel?2 months out anything can happen. Impossible to know if someone can commit to that.

Oh God no ha ha. I made it on a Saturday night and cancelled ASAP at 9 am Sunday, when shite hit the fan. The appointment was made for next day, So Sunday at 2 pm. I could have cancelled earlier but thought it would be rude to text prior to 9 am.

I didn’t cancel two months ago ��

Sorry if my OP came out wrong. We are talking about an 18 hour time frame, not 2 months.

[AmyTantraMassage]

Oh God no ha ha. I made it on a Saturday night and cancelled ASAP at 9 am Sunday, when shite hit the fan. The appointment was mad for next day, So bday at 2 pm. I could have cancelled earlier but thought it would be rude to text prior to 9 am.

Better to cancel ASAP fyi. Because maybe 5 minutes earlier, she'd had someone looking for an app that clashed with yours and had you texted earlier, she'd have been able to book that. Girls will tell you, we usually get people wanting to book the exact same slots and only those.

[Waltzingmatilda]

Better to cancel ASAP fyi. Because maybe 5 minutes earlier, she'd had someone looking for an app that clashed with yours and had you texted earlier, she'd have been able to book that. Girls will tell you, we usually get people wanting to book the exact same slots and only those.

That was my thinking too, Amy. Waited until 9 am cause it’s a reasonable hour but then got the message to the lady ASAP as I didn’t want to waste her time.

[queenviktorya]

Oh God no ha ha. I made it on a Saturday night and cancelled ASAP at 9 am Sunday, when shite hit the fan. The appointment was made for next day, So Sunday at 2 pm. I could have cancelled earlier but thought it would be rude to text prior to 9 am.

I didn’t cancel two months ago ��

Sorry if my OP came out wrong. We are talking about an 18 hour time frame, not 2 months.

Oh I see. Sorry it did sound like 2 months well then all good. Things happen. The best it’s to cancel ASAP to not block lady. That’s all. Anyway, thanks for canceling and be considering. That’s a good manners. And all of us much appreciate that x
Hope lady understand and I bet she will/did. Might didn’t got chance to text back or forgot when she got busy.