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    Question Referrals?

    Just another thing for clients to complain about or a necessary precaution?

    Most clients that I have asked to give me a referral have been very helpful and if they couldn't, they seemed to understand why I refused the booking, or at least a pre-booking.

    I had a text off a guy asking to see me, but I'm not staying in working accommodation at the moment, so I apologised and told him I could not take his booking. He suggested that I could go to his apartment, so I thanked him for the suggestion and asked him if he had a referral.

    He replied by saying that it was like trying to get a loan from the bank and I should 'get real'. Needless to say, I won't be seeing him at all now and the fact the last time he called me he had got the wrong girl, as in he called to confirm a booking that had never been arranged. He's really not doing very well with me.

    So... what do you feel about being asked if you have met anyone before? Does it bother you? Do you think it is necessary or just another hoop to jump through?

    I had another guy who said he had met other ladies, but he didn't want me to know who he had been having sex with. I told him I didn't need to know the gory details and he put the phone down lol.

    Do Escorts have any need to be careful with who they take a booking from? Why would it matter to me who the client had met before? What difference will it make, especially if the client assures me he is real. Should I not just take him at face value?
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    Dont see why it should bother him ,its for everybodys saftey

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    Just another thing for clients to complain about or a necessary precaution?

    Most clients that I have asked to give me a referral have been very helpful and if they couldn't, they seemed to understand why I refused the booking, or at least a pre-booking.

    I had a text off a guy asking to see me, but I'm not staying in working accommodation at the moment, so I apologised and told him I could not take his booking. He suggested that I could go to his apartment, so I thanked him for the suggestion and asked him if he had a referral.

    He replied by saying that it was like trying to get a loan from the bank and I should 'get real'. Needless to say, I won't be seeing him at all now and the fact the last time he called me he had got the wrong girl, as in he called to confirm a booking that had never been arranged. He's really not doing very well with me.

    So... what do you feel about being asked if you have met anyone before? Does it bother you? Do you think it is necessary or just another hoop to jump through?

    I had another guy who said he had met other ladies, but he didn't want me to know who he had been having sex with. I told him I didn't need to know the gory details and he put the phone down lol.

    Do Escorts have any need to be careful with who they take a booking from? Why would it matter to me who the client had met before? What difference will it make, especially if the client assures me he is real. Should I not just take him at face value?
    i think it is a great idea especially for the seasoned client and for safety reasons for the escort? i would not have a problem at all if it helps to keep escorts safe and irradicate scumbags im for it

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    Quote Originally Posted by zoozoozoo View Post
    Dont see why it should bother him ,its for everybodys saftey
    I second what zoozoozoo has said, can't be careful enought;

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    I think u girls have every right to ask for a referral for your own safety and if a guy refuses to give u one then your better off not meeting him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    I had a text off a guy asking to see me, but I'm not staying in working accommodation at the moment, so I apologised and told him I could not take his booking. He suggested that I could go to his apartment, so I thanked him for the suggestion and asked him if he had a referral.

    He replied by saying that it was like trying to get a loan from the bank and I should 'get real'. Needless to say, I won't be seeing him at all now and the fact the last time he called me he had got the wrong girl, as in he called to confirm a booking that had never been arranged. He's really not doing very well with me.
    If nothing else I go a laugh out of that Kate


    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    So... what do you feel about being asked if you have met anyone before? Does it bother you? Do you think it is necessary or just another hoop to jump through?
    Personally I can see why you would ask for a referral and I would totally agree that you can. It is your saferty and ATEOTD us clients can look up the reviews on escorts which gives us an idea of who we are looking at! It is a totally different prospect for an escort who gets a call from a mobile phone from a total stranger who is looking to gain access into the escorts accommodation!

    I have never been asked for a referral so I am going to ask a real dumb question here — how would I go about getting a referral?
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    Kate I would not have any problem with it, at the end of the day your safety and wellbeing has to come first. Better safe than sorry as there are guys out there who are not very nice.
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    And if he can't give a referral , due to it been his first time ?? .: doc
    Never mistake kindness for weakness .: doc

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    i think it makes for a better booking in honesty , im nervous cause im a nervous wreck but if the escort i visit knows im ok because of referals , so she is relaxed knowing im ok and we have a better session lol

    but id say the hard part is getting the first refearal , if every lady requires at least one first how do you get one if your new

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    I understand the need but tad disadvantageous to a nervous first timer. Not to mention the fact I don't have a "refferal" in whatever form that is.

    What if I was to ring you and say "yes I'm been with (insert escorts name)", would I get the booking or would it be a case of you contacting said escort and then ringing back? If so, what's to stop me rhyming off a whole pile of escorts?

    What is a referral and how does one get one?

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