Referrals?

[Curvaceous Kate]

I dont have a problem with it, your safety is whats important and you should do whatever you need to do to feel safe and comfortable.

btw just to be awkward lol, what happens if the guy isnt a forum user and he changes his sim regularly, how could you check him considering he wouldnt have a user name and his number would be different?

When I ask for a referral I generally ask if the lady would know him on the number he is using. Most of the time he says yes, but sometimes they give me a different number. It doesn't matter if the number is still in use or not, as long as the lady being contacted recognises it.

[NoBrain2]

When I ask for a referral I generally ask if the lady would know him on the number he is using. Most of the time he says yes, but sometimes they give me a different number. It doesn't matter if the number is still in use or not, as long as the lady being contacted recognises it.

Was just curious because I recently got a new SIM but if you ask me what the number is I'd have no clue lol, I'm sure there a guy's who would have no idea what number they used weeks or months before

[Davidontour]

I'm not saying every client should provide a referral, but in this case he wanted me to do an out call. The time before that it was a client who wanted a pre-booking.

It is not quite the same as a client taking a punt on a lady with no reviews, as you are not likely to find the Escort is really a police woman who will ask you to leave your home or place of work. You are not likely to be meeting a pimp, who will tell you that you should only visit HIS girls. You are not likely to be getting a call arranged by another Escort to waste your time or find out your location and cause trouble for you.

The worse scenario for a client is that you get a bait and switch or a crap service. Is it really comparable?

I think the points made here are extremely important. As things currently stand, clients have very few potentially bad scenarios, whereas the situations described here range from the annoying to the potentially dangerous. References may not always be possible, but the onus should be on the client to put the escort's mind at rest.

[Petros]

Not necessarily. I've had girls who have given their location as being, say, an apartment across the road from a garage. I have rang a girl who stayed in a location such as this and when I rang she said she couldn't see me and I told her I was walking towards a bin, that was in view of the apartment. Was only then that she would let me in. I've had similar with several other girls who have waited till they had seen me from their apartment before telling me the room number or even which building they are staying in.

Fair enough but I know that most, if not all the apartments I have visited and the one hotel room have had no view of the entrance to the building. Actually, come to think of it one did but I had met her before and I know she was not looking out for me!

[Petros]

When I ask for a referral I generally ask if the lady would know him on the number he is using. Most of the time he says yes, but sometimes they give me a different number. It doesn't matter if the number is still in use or not, as long as the lady being contacted recognises it.

What can be a little unnerving is when you ring an escort that you have never made contact with before and they recognise your number and know who you are!

[doodlebug]

For information if the client is registered here there is a reference section that can allow escorts view straight away what references have been given, saves time. I wholeheartedly agree escort safety must always be the number one priority.

[Clyde]

As most clients are not registered here it's difficult for them to answer, sometimes the guy might not remember other escort the escorts names ( Ella, Elle, Eliana etc). I remember making an appointment back in the day and being asked all sorts, who, where, when I found it off putting eventually after a few names one was recognised and appointment was made a fantastic time was had. Now what Kate has discovered here is the guy may have been ok but he doesn't understand that the escort needs to put herself first safety is the key, unfortunately some guys don't know the bad side of the industry and he became rude which is no excuse. Fair play to you Kate for standing by your principles and keep safe.

[Petros]

As most clients are not registered here it's difficult for them to answer, sometimes the guy might not remember other escort the escorts names ( Ella, Elle, Eliana etc).

The other issue is many escorts use either the same name or they spell it a different way — then there is the issue that the one they are actually looking for is out of the country at the time so the reference can not be used or could could come back negative as either the wrong escort has been contacted of she just can't remember the client!

Let's face it — how can an escort be expected to remember every client's name and number who walks through their door and may only spend 30 minuets with?

I always begin with "Hi, I'm Petros on E-I" — at least that way if I have not made contact via PM the lady can look me up and see I am not a time waster.

[Clyde]

The other issue is many escorts use either the same name or they spell it a different way — then there is the issue that the one they are actually looking for is out of the country at the time so the reference can not be used or could could come back negative as either the wrong escort has been contacted of she just can't remember the client!

Let's face it — how can an escort be expected to remember every client's name and number who walks through their door and may only spend 30 minuets with?

I always begin with "Hi, I'm Petros on E-I" — at least that way if I have not made contact via PM the lady can look me up and see I am not a time waster.

Very true unfortunately it can be difficult for the good guys.

[Petros]

Very true unfortunately it can be difficult for the good guys.

Sure nothing is perfect — we just have to make the best of it