CIM issues/requests

[MistressMonique]

I don't do CIM ... No thank you very much... But what I would like to reiterate is we are beautiful ladies as yet not replaced by robots... Please offer mutual respect and kindness ... be a gentleman and I will be a lady .. misbehave and you hear me ROAR

[AmorInfinito8]

I agree with you, specially when the girl doesn’t speak English…

Worth baring in mind!!

The meaning of CIM is very easily misinterpreted especially by girls who speak basic English or English as a second language

To avoid confusion and disappointment!?
use Google translate to make yourself crystal clear what you are asking and send a text

Girls list their preferred language on their profile

[jessicabp]

I don’t want write down here what I really think about non English speaking girls ( working with reception ).

Worth baring in mind!!

The meaning of CIM is very easily misinterpreted especially by girls who speak basic English or English as a second language

To avoid confusion and disappointment!?
use Google translate to make yourself crystal clear what you are asking and send a text

Girls list their preferred language on their profile

[AmorInfinito8]

I don’t want write down here what I really think about non English speaking girls ( working with reception ).

Well then that being the case Jessica

I'll presume it's all good and complementary!?

I've had regulars who started with basic English and learnt as well as teaching me a little Portuguese

Ironically our communication was better than I've had with most English speaking girls because it involved a great deal of time and effort on both our parts

If you're inferring to their independence I can assure you I only see fully independent girls irrelevant of their standard of English or Nationality
most of these girls use Google translate and not a receptionist as you might think

before you ask
yes I know for a fact of the complete independence of the girls I've seen

[bananabox999]

I much prefer when there are no "extras"

A fav list of things a girls is willing to do. This by no means is a check list, things that can/maybe/will happen.

I like things to feel natural, not like a choreographed routine. For me an all in approch works better in this regard, weather certain things happen or not is on us, however the course of the appointment goes.


However saying that, if you have paid for an "extra" you really should get it. Id just rather not see a list of extras tbh.

[Ikegodsey]

How different we all are xx

: I refuse to discuss anything of an intimate nature over the phone Or in person before getting horizontal .

I just Deliver My favorites .

I do what I want ; I cannot do otherwise .

Naturally if covered oral is requested that also is catered to , but owo is my thing .

: and in My mind :: I know what it feels like being at the apex of my orgasm and my guy moves off .

It’s Horrible .

I would never do that to another person : so at my house the natural progression from owo is cim .

: if I don’t feel like Kissing a guy - we will never even progress to the fun bits >> I just apologize

saying I’m just not feeling it , don’t want to waste your money , nor my time : I would Never

engage with a person unless I am comfortable providing All my faves .

To do otherwise is just beyond me :: But I would Never be discussing things on the phone or

even on my couch . In My world : I don’t talk about it - I Do …. what I feel like x

Always comes down to mutual respect, if a lady enjoys it rock on, personally I have no interest in it if the lady is not comfortable doing it, so so much nicer when she is.... building up a relationship with a regular helps, saying that, I have had some great once off experiences, some when it was not even discussed beforehand...

[reflex]

I've been having a bit of disappointment recently when looking for CIM, a particular favourite if mine ,
The issue is I've been let down a few times recently where I booked a meet with a provider who offers this on her page.
I have further mentioned "l like CIM, can we do this"? and after paying extra for it .. it never happens, there's a head turning episode at the very last second and so it turns into a OWO/hand job experience..

Perhaps there's a communication issue as one girl was fairly horrified when after the fact I explained what I was looking for .. which made me think , in view of her poor English that, she wasn't the one replying to my texts..

It's happened to me several times this year with Brazilian girls, does anyone else have the same experience?

Had the opposite experience with Brazilian girls recently lol

I usually just ask for GFE, FK and OWO beforehand, anything else is a bonus for me. Then things heat up and before you know it, we end up doing CIM. I didn't ask for it and no extra charge. It's like they can read my mind Or as Stephanie says, was just a natural progression.

If you want some recommendations, give me a shout

[Benny123]

I know the feeling, I called into my neighbour for a few teabags and as Stephanie said I just let things progress naturally and as well as getting Barry's tea bags I got CIM... Funny how things can happen sometimes 😁😁😁😁

[Larrii]

All extras you're paying for should be repeated by you and confirmed by her while you're counting the payment for her. If the horrified face hits then, it's much more convenient to back out then instead of asking for a refund when you're already naked in bed, or silently putting up with getting scammed. What I'm horrified by is the unreasonable disgust of c** in the industry. Why act like he's shooting poop from his d***? Girl...

The best advice. Always take a minute to discuss what you'd like. It's expected. Then make your "donation", take your shower and let the fun begin.

[IAmLIAm]

How different we all are xx

: I refuse to discuss anything of an intimate nature over the phone Or in person before getting horizontal .

I just Deliver My favorites .

I do what I want ; I cannot do otherwise .

Naturally if covered oral is requested that also is catered to , but owo is my thing .

: and in My mind :: I know what it feels like being at the apex of my orgasm and my guy moves off .

It’s Horrible .

I would never do that to another person : so at my house the natural progression from owo is cim .

: if I don’t feel like Kissing a guy - we will never even progress to the fun bits >> I just apologize

saying I’m just not feeling it , don’t want to waste your money , nor my time : I would Never

engage with a person unless I am comfortable providing All my faves .

To do otherwise is just beyond me :: But I would Never be discussing things on the phone or

even on my couch . In My world : I don’t talk about it - I Do …. what I feel like x

I agree. I am very happy to let the meeting take a natural progression rather than shoehorn in a fav.
I also don't discuss much more than a preference for GFE before a booking and really only mention specific acts once the fun has begun or in the downtime between the festivities.
The idea of running down a checklist beforehand seems a bit too businesslike and I require (at least the illusion) of intimacy.

I would be so happy if everyone realise he is paying for our time when we can do all favourites mentioned in advert but it’s still just idea what we can do. There is so many aspects around. To be honest i don’t continue a conversation when someone asked me with his list of favourites. Iam woman who offer her time but there is nobody who will tell me what i should do. Even this opinion i never had any problem with it as everyone treated me well or he didn’t have any problem to visit a bathroom again. I offer my time and its me who will decide if i will do it or not. Iam not a shop and i really don’t like if Dieve talk about herself like about shop. She should realise she is young woman who deserve every kind of respect. Talking about ourself like about shop is disrespectful for me. And it’s no hate.

I don’t think in this very personal service we should pay back any money, it’s not like you order a bag and you didn’t like it.

While I agree with the idea that favs are an indicator of liked activities and are never a guarantee of an activity. If an "extra" is additionally paid for, it should be performed or not charged for.
You have every right to spend your time with your companion in a way that you are comfortable with and without additional pressure to do anything you are not comfortable with.
This is where the argument for a discussion before hand has merit (even though I tend not too, but that is a "risk" I take)

As for Dieve's "shop", I kind of take that as her way to differentiate the business side of herself from the personal.
The same way one puts on a bit of a different persona if working in the service industry, or a theme park, or entertainment.
From a strictly pedantic view you are selling something (be it time or sex acts) so the fellas are "shoppers".
I'm not really a huge fan of the term but "shopper" is no different than "punter" , "monger" to me. "Hobbyist" is probably the least problematic.