Domination

Domination

Domination is when a person shows power over another, taking control of them and ordering them to do whatever they please. A dominant person might be referred to as a dominatrix or mistress (female), or a master (male). Those willing to give themselves over completely to a dom might be called a sub (submissive) or a slave. The life of servitude is not for everyone, but if this is something you are interested in, finding the right partner is essential.

There are many different types of domination, and so you will need a partner who understands the type of domination you are after. Some may only do one type, such as dog training, while others may have a wider range of skills, such as inflicting pain, cock and ball torture, and humiliation. They will be able to talk with you, get to know you, and understand your limits. When they do, they will take you to the very edge of your limits and push you, seeing how you react. One of the key elements of a domination/submission relationship is trust, hence why it is so important to find the right partner for you.

You will need to tell your partner what you are looking for. If you want a traditional caning, it is vital to check your mistress has the equipment for it. Many mistresses will have it, and so it is just a case of letting them know. If you want some more extreme then let them know and they will do their best to provide the service you are looking for.

One of the key things to remember when engaging in domination is to use a safe word. A safe word doesn't make you weak in any way - it simply means that you need to take a breather or you want to try something else. If you need it, make sure you use it.