An Interview with Nicoli
Several things that are remarkable about our escort community is respect, open-mindedness and a willing to embrace diversity, whether that be race, gender or sexuality. We have had some brilliant escort interviews in the past and this time I have had the absolute pleasure of interviewing one of escort-ireland's lovely transsexual escorts, Nicoli. Being honest, I have to say that this was one of the most insightful interviews I have held, as this was a chance to ask questions that many of us would always have always wondered, seeing a different side to the industry. Whatever your sexual preference, you have to admit that Nicoli is definitely easy on the eye!
Sam: Hi Nicoli, thank you for taking part in this interview. First of all, how long have you worked in the escort industry?
Nicoli: I have been an escort for about four years. I started as an escort in Portugal and have worked in Ireland about two years.
S: How did you get into working as an escort?
N: I started working at a stripper nightclub in Portugal. I was 19 yo when i started my transformation to transsexual and then i became an escort for the opportunity to connect more deeply with men and understand a litlle about this fascinating power the transsexual has on the male fantasy.
S: You have a beautiful figure! Looking at your photos, I would never have known that you were ever born a man had you not been named 'TS Nicoli'. Do you want to talk us through how it came to be that you wanted to become a woman?
N: I started my transformation at 18 years old, injecting hormones. Then I got plastic surgery; many of us are fortunate to be very feminine so we just need a few touches such as boobs. That would be the primary but we have to take care of a lot more than a woman to keep our female body as the prettiest possible. After all a man wants when looking at a female figure so we do everything possible to always be as beautiful.
S: Is there a lot of stigma with being transgendered in your home country, and if so, how did you deal with this prejudice?
N: I never suffered prejudice with my parents but I behaved as normal possible. I have a normal life in my country like any girl. I think from the time you respect the people you will be respected too. People seldom realize on the street I am transsexual, I pass unnoticed in most cases. Especially in Ireland, I have always been very well treated and respected everywhere.
S: Do you consider yourself male, female or transgendered?
N: I consider myself a transsexual. I never had the desire to be a woman but I try to be as feminine as possible. I am happy with my body and my sexual organ. I feel very happy in my sexual relations, both being passive and active. I know many who have the desire to make a change of sex but in my case it never made a difference. I feel comfortable as I am. After all transsexuals are considered a third gender, more powerful.
S: To ask an obvious question, as a pre-op transexual, are you happy living and working as a transgendered person or have you considered having going through through with the full transformation into a woman? I have spoken to TS escorts before and have been told that their manhood is their livelihood, if you can pardon the pun!
N: I do not think my manhood is my livelihood because not all customers want my masculine side. I am pleased and happy to be transsexual and I have no desire to change myself completely. When I stop working as an escort I will continue therefore. I think we have to accept us as we are and we most to the maximum to be so happy.
S: I see (to date) that you have 66 reviews, most of which are excellent, so well done! Obviously you are an excellent service provider. It seems that many men in Ireland (and in the UK) are curious about meeting a TS escort. When you started working in Ireland, were you surprised at how many male clients wished to satisfy their curiosity?
N: I think most men have a deep curiosity about being with a transsexual but they are afraid. Sometimes because they believe they will be taxed as passive or something like that. In Ireland (as in Portugal) men are always curious in relation to transsexuality but the biggest difference I've seen here Ireland was the respect and care that customers have with me. I've always been treated very well by them and in relation to my reviews, I try to my best for each client, trying to satisfy every desire of each. I consider my reviews a form of affection that the customers demonstrate to me. I consider it much more difficult to get a review being transsexual. I met with many popular reviewers of E-I that would not write my review for shame and they do not want people know about their secret fantasy. I do not care, the important thing for me is the satisfaction of the customer for they back again.
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