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    Why do we pay for sex? It costs loads, we feel guilty about it afterwards (especially if we are married). Psychologists say there are all these reasons like the feeling of power and all that but is that too simplistic?

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    Because it is enjoyable ;-)

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    We pay for it bacause its like any other craving that needs to be satisfied like when people try to quit smoking and all of a sudden that cigarette looks like the most delicious thing in the world and after you smoke it you find that its just another plain old cigarette.same thing with the sex thing if i havenīt got my end away for good while i can dig out the porn for a good old reliable tug but if i have the money and i remember that some sex with a woman who looks like the porntars on my televsion is just a phonecall away wild horses wonīt drag me away from satisfying my sexual urges.But of course afterwards, after my craving has been satisfied the guilt automatically comes,this isnīt the case with every man but iīd say its there with a good few of us.Is this good old reliable catholic guilt or that its short term meaningless cold sexual gratification i don't know,all i know is that these thoughts aren't going thru my head when iīm on the hunt only after so that might be my problem or maybe thers something niggling at the back of my mind saying i should be having sex with someone i love(idealistically)or at least just a girlfriend.But on the plus side and the other way of looking at things would be the view that its a very healthy endeavor when you look at the social scene in dublin on the weekends,people having to get pissed drunk to work up the confidence to talk to each other.The thing that would make you feel better about paying for sex is knowing that you donīt have to go out get pissed drunk and try all night to negotiate sex from some scanger that isnīt even worth two seconds of conversation and still theres the risk that you still mightnīt be getting any at the end of the night so on the other side of things the escort set up is perfect in that thers a simple understanding between two people you are there simply for sex and she is there to recieve money for sex so no bullshit games and acting has to take place.what do my fellow punters think of these points??

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    Default You can't help it!

    The reason men pay for sex, or seek it out for free in pubs, is a simple as our biology! Men's evolutionary prime directive is to spreed as much of his sperm around as possible, the more and different partners the better! But society and its totally artificial constructs have tried to inflict a boundary on the randy nature of the beast, of course to absolutely no avail! So, by going out and wanting to screw different ladies, perfectly natural, the guilt is UNnatutal.
    Just incase you want to know what the female's prime directive is, it is to select the best mate for our future off-spring, in other words we are ALL natural born Gold Diggers! A match made in heaven!

    RETURNING TO THE EMERALD ISLE SHORTLY
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    Because............

    Sex, sex, sex is everywhere - on the tele, billboards, "bottom" shelf mags, hell even on the radio

    My laberdor is losing her good looks and all the sheep run away from me!

    Theres never anything on the tele (except sex)

    Like all men, I cant help it, I am genetically programmed to always want it

    Call me warped, but I just like being in the company of good looking women with great bodies and it only costs me 150 notes - thats the same money as paying a gas man to look at my old boiler!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Violette View Post
    , or seek it out for free in pubs,
    What! There's free sex in pubs???

    You are on Violette, mines a pint, get your coat, youve pulled!

    I only get free salty nuts in my local!

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    Exclamation Because Because Because Of The Wonderful.................

    Ladies That You Encounter Who Can Drive You Wild And Make You Feel Special Who Take You Away From The Harsh Reality Of Every Day Life For An Hour Or Two.

    Having Said That, May I Take Some To Mention Some Of The Lovely Girls Whom I Have Encountered Or Briefly Spoken To Who Make This Business From A Punter S Point Of View A Good One.

    Cayla, A Mischevious Little Minx Who Specialises In Domination And Who Also Has Breasts And Lip To Die For

    Leah, Who Comes Accross To Be Great Fun, Entertainig With A Salaciously Good Body.


    Saffron Who Has The Ability To Please And Tease Any Man That Is Clever Enough To Have Called Her And Booked.

    Its Not Often I Bother To Pop On These Boards But Nevery Now And Again When I Have Chence I Enjoy It

    Mwah!

    And Myself Who Is Lucky Enough To Know These Girls



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    Quote Originally Posted by english rebecca View Post
    Ladies That You Encounter Who Can Drive You Wild And Make You Feel Special Who Take You Away From The Harsh Reality Of Every Day Life For An Hour Or Two.

    Having Said That, May I Take Some To Mention Some Of The Lovely Girls Whom I Have Encountered Or Briefly Spoken To Who Make This Business From A Punter S Point Of View A Good One.

    Cayla, A Mischevious Little Minx Who Specialises In Domination And Who Also Has Breasts And Lip To Die For

    Leah, Who Comes Accross To Be Great Fun, Entertainig With A Salaciously Good Body.


    Saffron Who Has The Ability To Please And Tease Any Man That Is Clever Enough To Have Called Her And Booked.

    Its Not Often I Bother To Pop On These Boards But Nevery Now And Again When I Have Chence I Enjoy It

    Mwah!

    And Myself Who Is Lucky Enough To Know These Girls
    I KNOW 2 OF THEESE LADIES AND YOUR GOOD SELF AND ALL U SAY IS TRUE SO I EXPECT U ARE RIGHT ABOUT SAFFRON ASWELL

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    Question Never Heard Of It!!!!!!

    Guilt ................... what's that????

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    Gone ........... and forgotten?

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    Why do we pay for sex?? because when you are done with it you don't need to think on what you owe her anymore, cause you have already paid her. Instead, if you got a girlfriend, it's like you are owing her something all the time... so people need to feel liberated once in a while, and so go for it!! Of course, there are lots of other reasons, but the best one is the one that applies to yourself, so try to find out by yourself why would you go to visit an escort...

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