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    Default This Kind Of Behaviour really is bad!!!!

    Hi there Gents of Ireland,
    Now before I actually write this whole post I already know that there will be some of you that will not agree with what I am going to propose and I would like to let you know thats perfectly ok, this is not an attack on normal clients who would just like to have a good time...The only reason I am actually posting this is I have really had enough of being threatened etc etc.....
    Basically this am I had a gent send me a text message wanting an appointment I asked him politly was he a member or had he met anyone from the site before. He answered that he was not a member and had met a few ladies, I then went on to ask him if he could please give me a reference as you gents know it is widly advertised this is the system I operate on, I do meet new clients but on a very strict basis which I have found genuine people are quite happy to contend with. I might add i dont meet a large amount of people daily and am a very discreet upscale escort for those gents who like the finer things in life.
    Anyhow this gent texted me back and said he was a gent from hong kong and no problem to meet right away and he was in an internet cafe and could we go ahead with the meeting and that he wasnt a bad person so I shouldnt worry about this at all but if I preffered to meet regular clients only that is fine but he wouldnt be able to tell me who he had met before. I politly declined this meeting only to recieve the following text message which I think only defines that this man is not a normal individual I quote the text message " Who goona rob a whore just for 250 euros? I was quite upset.If you mind your safety.just deal with something else.im gonna write a few review for your good attitude.thxs.
    Now I ask you is it not an escorts perogative to meet who she choooses to meet just as it is a clients perogative to meet who he chooses to meet.Unfortuantly an escort may not be free for meetings around the clock and may only see a few gents spread out over the course of a day...I would like to mention that the lasttime I was in dublin I had a gent that claimed to be from japan who was actually chinese attempt to rob me or god knows what what actually saved me is he realised that lynne was with me and I wasnt alone so it is within reason to take as many safty precautions as one can. On this trip I have had a threat in galway where I was told very horrid things for no reason, then again in wexford I was threatened which was totally uncalled for. In fact more and more ladies these days are being threatened out of p[laces where they tour to and I think its unfair and this is the reason I am being alot more strict with whom I meet. I am not a low quality escort and have travelled worldwide and like to enjoy what I do at the time of doing it but I cannot enjoy my time with someone if I am on edge and nervous etc etc..Im sure the gents that really meet ladies will understand this and most people comply with things fairly easily and readily and therefore have a nice time..I already will not be back in Ireland until July or possibly after because of this that has been going on...I dont think its really fair to threaten someone with bad reviews etc etc if they choose not to see you then certainly you could just meet another lady that suits you there are alot of them around.And to send this text about robbery etc etc just makes me thing he had those intentions to begin with....I am terribly sorry but I actually just needed to explain myself to those of you who are puzzeled about my strict booking proceedures etc etc and I also just wanted to have a little moan..I really look forward to meeting genuine gents who have a taste for fun and unrushed time and a nice gentle gfe with a touch of pse while I am in dublin for my last few days till and including the 19th...Once again I do not meet many in a day so an advance appointment would be the best way... Kisses hugs and snuggles alyssa xxxxxxx
    Will MISS you all... For those of you that will keep in touch you know how to do this.... Take Care Kisses Alyssa Jenkins xxxx

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    HI Alyssa, having been to see you in the past , I can confirm that you are one of the best escorts in the business, you are right to be selective and security concisious, however these low lifes are attracted by the knowledge that there is cash in the apartment, perhaps 2 to 3k, it does not matter to them wether you are a high class escort or otherwise, (at this point i want to state that I have maximum respect for any woman who operates in this business), it's a simple fact that if a girl comes from Hungary and stays for a week, she is not going to have a bank account, 4 customers a day at 250 a go, over 4 days is 4 grand takings, thats a nice earner for a theif, because the girl is alone, she is vulnerable, it's doubtful that she will go to the Gardai, although they would deal with it quitely, especially a detective.
    How do you stop them, you are obviously a good judge of character, and thats by using your cunning and experience built up over the years, but the younger girls have to so vigilant.
    I was once with an escort who left the money on the bedside table for the entire hour that i was there, I even said it to her that she should put it in another room.
    Hide your money in another room, low down, if you get into trouble with a theif and he demands the money tell him that its in the other room, he'll follow you in, reach down to get the money , but beside the cash, keep something that will do him damage, don't go for the face, that will not put him down, it will only anger him, go for the nuts, theres less distance for your hand to travel and less time for the assilant to react, i doubt that he will go to the Gardai.
    Sorry for the violent post but it annoys me to see any of the girls hassled

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    Thanks for that but you are right there are more vulnerable ladies as well and that is why I am posting on this site now for them to see and perhaps maintain a more secure way of meeting people..In regards to money I would suggest that ladies use money transfers these are widly availible to almost any country in the world should they not have bank accounts..You know its not the matter of being robbed and money being taken that frightens me as I dont keep much of that it the matter of having to go through such a traumatic experience really will one ver truly recover a violent attack mentally..This is what I am trying to say that this is all mental games and torture these persons that threaten the ladies are causing to be honest and it is not nice and I really know me being a reasonably experienced lady has difficulty dealing with this causing paranoia when accepting appointments etc etc I can only imagine what mental durress other newer ladies must be under.....
    In the states they use systems to verify clients and it all works out well is it not a time to consider these types of booking procedures??? Thanks a million all have a great day... xxxxx
    Will MISS you all... For those of you that will keep in touch you know how to do this.... Take Care Kisses Alyssa Jenkins xxxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alyssa Jenkins View Post
    Hi there Gents of Ireland,
    Now before I actually write this whole post I already know that there will be some of you that will not agree with what I am going to propose and I would like to let you know thats perfectly ok, this is not an attack on normal clients who would just like to have a good time...The only reason I am actually posting this is I have really had enough of being threatened etc etc.....
    Basically this am I had a gent send me a text message wanting an appointment I asked him politly was he a member or had he met anyone from the site before. He answered that he was not a member and had met a few ladies, I then went on to ask him if he could please give me a reference as you gents know it is widly advertised this is the system I operate on, I do meet new clients but on a very strict basis which I have found genuine people are quite happy to contend with. I might add i dont meet a large amount of people daily and am a very discreet upscale escort for those gents who like the finer things in life.
    Anyhow this gent texted me back and said he was a gent from hong kong and no problem to meet right away and he was in an internet cafe and could we go ahead with the meeting and that he wasnt a bad person so I shouldnt worry about this at all but if I preffered to meet regular clients only that is fine but he wouldnt be able to tell me who he had met before. I politly declined this meeting only to recieve the following text message which I think only defines that this man is not a normal individual I quote the text message " Who goona rob a whore just for 250 euros? I was quite upset.If you mind your safety.just deal with something else.im gonna write a few review for your good attitude.thxs.
    Now I ask you is it not an escorts perogative to meet who she choooses to meet just as it is a clients perogative to meet who he chooses to meet.Unfortuantly an escort may not be free for meetings around the clock and may only see a few gents spread out over the course of a day...I would like to mention that the lasttime I was in dublin I had a gent that claimed to be from japan who was actually chinese attempt to rob me or god knows what what actually saved me is he realised that lynne was with me and I wasnt alone so it is within reason to take as many safty precautions as one can. On this trip I have had a threat in galway where I was told very horrid things for no reason, then again in wexford I was threatened which was totally uncalled for. In fact more and more ladies these days are being threatened out of p[laces where they tour to and I think its unfair and this is the reason I am being alot more strict with whom I meet. I am not a low quality escort and have travelled worldwide and like to enjoy what I do at the time of doing it but I cannot enjoy my time with someone if I am on edge and nervous etc etc..Im sure the gents that really meet ladies will understand this and most people comply with things fairly easily and readily and therefore have a nice time..I already will not be back in Ireland until July or possibly after because of this that has been going on...I dont think its really fair to threaten someone with bad reviews etc etc if they choose not to see you then certainly you could just meet another lady that suits you there are alot of them around.And to send this text about robbery etc etc just makes me thing he had those intentions to begin with....I am terribly sorry but I actually just needed to explain myself to those of you who are puzzeled about my strict booking proceedures etc etc and I also just wanted to have a little moan..I really look forward to meeting genuine gents who have a taste for fun and unrushed time and a nice gentle gfe with a touch of pse while I am in dublin for my last few days till and including the 19th...Once again I do not meet many in a day so an advance appointment would be the best way... Kisses hugs and snuggles alyssa xxxxxxx
    im not judging you or belittling the fact that you receive this sort of rubbish but that is all it is................rubbish.So what?Let them text away.

    Another thing love and again dont take this out of context is this is something that goes with the territory.When your dealing with all sorts and types, of course you are going to come accross weirdos and idiots.Its like the guy that goes to an escort and gets a bad deal and then comes and complains.Well guess what?Yep goes with the territory too.The fact is in all professions you'll have bad and good and in certain professions because of illegalities, it really is a case of tough shit.Im not saying that its ok to have this crap thrown at you.Im not saying that because of your job then its ok to have to put up with it but you really have only four choices,

    (a) get the shit kicked out of him,
    (b) ignore him,
    (c) the police,
    (d) complain to the mob company (you will in turn tell you go to the police,

    As you can see (b) considering your right to privacy is the best option.

    As far as references go, there is no way i would get a reference,if i were calling in.No way,id just skip you.Nothing personal but i just couldnt be arsed.I can understnd why you have them but personnally i really couldnt be bothered.

    Throughout my long life i had many worries most of which never happened,
    Westside.

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    Hi Alyssa,

    I think this guy wrote a nasty review of you also, sounds like the same chap to me.

    The review was rejected and deleted on the spot because (a) It became clear the reviewer had not actually had a booking with you or met you and (b) He called you a "whore" which is totally unnecessary and offensive.


    Pat x

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    Default Doesnt make sense in any shape or form....................

    Quote Originally Posted by Patricia View Post
    Hi Alyssa,

    I think this guy wrote a nasty review of you also, sounds like the same chap to me.

    The review was rejected and deleted on the spot because (a) It became clear the reviewer had not actually had a booking with you or met you and (b) He called you a "whore" which is totally unnecessary and offensive.


    Pat x
    There is some piece of some puzzle missing here.I cant see how or why anyone would go to that trouble for nothing?Just came here ,picked out an escort ,wrote a nasty review..........for nothing???Not saying its right ,but something is amiss here for def.

    Doesnt make a grain of sense,
    Westside.

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    Westie, what does make sense to you? Does it make sense that a guy sees a girl, and feels horny, and goes and rapes her? And still it happens, and you don't try to understand it because if you want to understand him you may become him and you don't want that, right? So here it's the same thing, you don't need understand this guy, it happens and nobody needs a guy like this that's all we need to understand, that's why she explains it so to warn other girls, not to give you something to think about on a given Sunday. I give it a second of my thinking and put it down to frustration, depression, loneliness, etc... of which there is a large percentage of the male population of this country suffering, and some express it pacefully and some espress it on their own friky ways. I don't see the piece missing as you see it, and this is not a declaration of war, just a difference of opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flypan View Post
    Westie, what does make sense to you? Does it make sense that a guy sees a girl, and feels horny, and goes and rapes her? And still it happens, and you don't try to understand it because if you want to understand him you may become him and you don't want that, right? So here it's the same thing, you don't need understand this guy, it happens and nobody needs a guy like this that's all we need to understand, that's why she explains it so to warn other girls, not to give you something to think about on a given Sunday. I give it a second of my thinking and put it down to frustration, depression, loneliness, etc... of which there is a large percentage of the male population of this country suffering, and some express it pacefully and some espress it on their own friky ways. I don't see the piece missing as you see it, and this is not a declaration of war, just a difference of opinion.
    your talking to a guy that has posted here over 1500 posts and has only used a handful of escorts.My point,im well able to control myself so no fear of me becoming a rapist or something.I see your point but again for all of the fatcors that you give ie frustration, depression, loneliness, etc... there would still have to have being an initial contact at some stage.

    The piece missing is that if "The Sweetie" (reg tm) is correct in the assumption that the person who sent her the text is tha same person as that who posted the nasty review.That doesnt make sense at all.For a person to feel frustration, depression, loneliness, etc... and then to come here, pick out an escort like a lottery and then to text her while writting a nasty review calling her a vindictive word like whore suggests to me a feeling of hurt,or screwd or let down,ie some form of contact would have to have taken place.

    Peace man peace,
    Westside.


    PS just for the record if i were in control a convicted rapist would be hanged or at least castrated.

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    I must say I tend to agree a bit with flypan here...There isnt any reason for this sort of behaviour it is needless and horrid and basically it does not mean that when an escort wants references etc etc she is being offensive and niether does it mean when she says she isnt able to see you till after a certain time that she doesnt want to meet you.It simply means what she is saying that she basically cannot see you for some reason or another..I think alot of people presume that the times you are advertised to be availible you are just ready to meet anyone who calls however some people make advance appointments and sometimes there may be other reasons to not accept a visit...There is no hidden agenda or anything absurd or hidden here that doesnt fit I told the story as it happened and then got more abusive texts saying not to botha and that this review will now be placed I have patricias confirmation now that this person did try to do this..He was persistent that he wanted to meet right away and was waiting in an internet shop I could not make the appointment and he tried to write awful reviews in fact in the last text message that he sent he threatened several bad reviews....I am sorry that this gent has nothing better to do then be frustrated etc etc its sad really since there are many ladies around that he could have visited lets face it I am not the only lady in dublin and if someone really wants to meet me they book in advance generally or accept if I am not availible I may be availible at another time...I think its great that reviews are being checked before they get published as this stop false contamintion on the site..I also found it very offensive in his first text when he called me a whore and to be frank even if I had spare time after that text I certainly would not have met with this person.. We are all what we are however we need to respect each other as we will not enjoy our time together otherwise....Westside yes there are certain elements that are attached to this profession we all know this is true however the recent escalation of behaviour has gone way out of control..I ask you if you were threatened and ignored it what if that person was serious and made an example of you then what would you do..I have had those types of threats which I take seriously..I must say that in all my years of escorting never have I ever experienced such abusive behaviour as I have in past weeks.....This doesnt happen all the time and it shouldnt be happening all the time either.....Thanks for everyones opinions alyssa jenkinsxxxx
    Will MISS you all... For those of you that will keep in touch you know how to do this.... Take Care Kisses Alyssa Jenkins xxxx

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    Westside besides the initial texting there was no contact whatsoever we never spoke on the phone as I wasnt answering my phone this am we never met and I have not met a single client in dublin today as this has upset me to much to start my morning with..I was sat outside with a friend of mine when all of this took place there was nothing untoward or strange at all about this...I handle my contacts with people very well and am not rude or horrid to them all I tell them is my requirements and if they cannot do this then I prefer not to meet its simple as that....I dont know what got into this person or why he already called me a whore when I asked him inititally for the reference I quoted word for word his text message in the begining of this post generally he wrote a text back after with names and numbers of other ladies and a member name that i could not locate on the board I was still not impolite after this all I came back and said is that I am not availible till after 4pm which was the truth he then wrote a torrent of terrible texts back to me to which i replied i have advance appointments sorry he then went ahead and told me I am a trouble girl and that I must not bother cause bad reviews will follow..That is as it happened nothing altered or chaged at all....
    Will MISS you all... For those of you that will keep in touch you know how to do this.... Take Care Kisses Alyssa Jenkins xxxx

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