how rude do you have to be????

[gooner]

decided to take a look through the vast array of female "independent" escorts and called a few to check availability and prices as some had "P.O.A" in their profile!

on a few of them, i found that the numbers were disconnected (patricia - you need to check if the escorts are still here!!!), some had their phones off - it was 11.30am on sunday but they had schedule times from 10/11am to 24hrs - so whats the point in saying you start work if you have no intention of doing so???

but by far was some of the girls that did answer and just how plain rude they were on the phone!!!

i read in other threads by escorts that punters should be "nice" and "respectful" to them either on the phone or in preson - to which i say - absolutely!!!!

but just how much rudeness are we "the punters" supposed to take or put up with????

i think some escorts should be given a lesson in how to answer phones as this is potentially a client and its also the first point of contact with any business and if the client hangs up with the thought that the person on phone is just so rude - why should they do business with this person!

i know some escorts must get tired of answering questions from callers but this is part of the job - i always ask the escort questions as i want to know if i pay 250 - 300 euro for a 1 hour session that i'm going to get what I pay for - not what the escort wants to give me!!!

too many escorts put down things on their favourites list which they don't do or charge extra for, so i like to make it very clear what i want and how much its going to cost BEFORE i drive for miles to see them! this should be the way its done all the time - not, the escort saying "i don't discuss what i do on the phone" or "we can talk about it when you get here"!!!!

thats bollox - what they're saying is - go to the bother of showering/cleaning etc, get in your car and drive for god knows how far/long, try to get parking, and then when you arrive at the escorts place they'll decide what they're going to do and how much they're going to charge you - and if you don't like it, then off you go but they know that as you've gone to the bother of doing everything else there's a 90% chance you'll stay and put up with whatever they give you and be thankful for it!!!

well i'm sorry - thats just not good enough - if escorts want respect then it has to be a 2 way thing and as far as i can see it isn't at the minute! escorts can go on about how they have "messers" and "time wasters" ringing them and they get fed up with questions been asked etc - tough! it happens, build a bridge and get over it!

a few questions regarding services provided, price and location of escort are not justification to being rude or short on the phone!

i won't post the escorts names that i rang this morning as i didn't take all their names down as i just quickly went through about 15 names - i will say though that the section i went through was "black dublin female escorts"!!!

but from now on i will take note of the escort and i will post here if i feel they are being rude or if they have things on their favorites list that they don't do!!!

i know "paws" has his good/bad escort list but thats really for reviews of escorts after being with them - this would be a pre warning of sorts whereby the punter would be informed whether the escort is nice and courteous on the phone (therefore more likely to be the same way on meeting them) and if they do what they say they do for the price shown!

it'll take time to compile but after this morning's phone calls it has to be done!

sorry girls if you think i'm being hard on you but respect is a given - not earned!!!

[experienced punter]

yes this was an excellent post, what always makes me wonder is how on earth do these escorts who are rude on the phone expect to do much business? i have come across this frequently & honestly they have the manners of a pig

[Leah hudson]

Dear Grooner and Experienced punter
As an escort i think you are right some of us are very rude by nature. But why would you go see a rude escort any way?
Respect does work both ways and sometimes you call just after we have had a few people with nothing to do but waste our time have called, and, you get painted with the same brush as them and i'm sorry if my sisters out there gave you a hard time.
But speaking for myself i go out of my way to be pleasing and respectful to anyone who calls my phone even if i'm not in that city.
I'm back in Dublin on the 5 of March if you call me i promise not to be rude. kisses rhi

[bigpaws]

Good idea gooner to expose a much ignored aspect of the business ............ I'll certainly post here if I experience (as I have in the past!) rudeness on the phone with a link etc to the offending escorts profile.

Paws

[annasavicha]

Is that rudeness?
Guy that called just now did not said bye,but just hung up.

[diver]

No escort should be rude but it happens. It happens because the escorts have problems with guys who get their jollies by talking dirty to a girl on the phone. It might help if you did not mention specific acts but rather looked for confirmation that all the services listed were available at no extra cost. If the girl is a chancer, she will lie to you either way. If she is genuine she will appreciate your consideration in not going into graphic detail.

[gooner]

i just want to clarify to diver,

i know some escorts get "perverts" or "time wasters" calling them, probably playing with themselves, while talking to them but thats not what i'm talking about!!

when i call an escort, i would say hello and identify myself, and tell them where (website name) i saw their ad/profile before i ask anything!

i then ask if they are working that day, where are they based (not exact address) in the city, and ask if they they do what they say in their favourite's list!

(i ask this as generally the escort hasn't a clue whats in their list - its obvious it was written for them or they they just ticked every box!!

when the escort asks what i'm looking for or when they "yes" (and i know that they haven't a clue what i'm looking for!) i tell them EXACTLY what i'm after - no toying with them just plain and simple!

after that all i'm looking for is a simple yes or no answer and if its a yes then i ask is everything included in the price listed for an hour - some girls charge extra which is why i want to know now rather than later - i don't like surprises!

after that all thats required is a time - no messing around, no small talk!

this conversation is over in less than 1 minute - there's no rudeness on my part, the questions are straight and to the point and are not meant to embarass the escort (unless she lied on her favourites list) and therefore there's no need for any rudeness from the escort!

unfortunitely, this was not the case the other morning and in reply to "rhianna" - i won't visit ANY escort thats rude on the phone!

as for "annasavicha's" question - yes it was rude but i don't know what was discussed either - i never said punters weren't rude but i have read some of your posts here and if you talk that way on the phone i can see how some punters might hang up on you!

am i asking the impossible??????

[ninebythree]

as for "annasavicha's" question - yes it was rude but i don't know what was discussed either - i never said punters weren't rude but i have read some of your posts here and if you talk that way on the phone i can see how some punters might hang up on you!

talk about hitting the nail on the head

nbt

[punterminator]

i tell them EXACTLY what i'm after - no toying with them just plain and simple!

Totally, I always have and always will detail exactly what I want on the phone before getting into my car. If this part of the transaction doesn't go well, then I'm out.

as for "annasavicha's" question - yes it was rude but i don't know what was discussed either - i never said punters weren't rude but i have read some of your posts here and if you talk that way on the phone i can see how some punters might hang up on you!

Zing!!! Totally true, I wouldn't even consider seeing this girl because of her rudeness on the message boards. A little pleasantness goes a long way.

[Flypan]

They have all the right to be rude and cheaters as the industry conditions favors that behavior. They are here and no matter what the price is 250 euros, so take it or leave it. They know the top escorts cannot be there for everybody, so somebody has got to take the chance with other escorts. And we do take the chance, and we do regret it now and again, so don't blame the girls. It's ridiculous the way this pricing policy works, it's not like that in any other given country, and it doesn't benefit customers neither escorts cause most touring escorts have to pay a large percentage of their earnings in terms of accommodation, advertising, pimp fees, etc, it only benefits pimps. But as long as everybody accepts this situation nothing will change, it may take only two months for this pimps to go away and let escorts charge their own prices if we all stay 2 months on the side, i.e. not visit escorts. Anyway, you all know there are other options, just use your brains a bit.