Escort Reviews - An Update

[Patricia]

Hi,

Some escorts have complained to us that they find the current review system too sexually explicit. They say they wouldn't mind clients reviewing them in a way where the client could indicate if he was happy with the accuracy of their photos, the value for money of their service, whether they'd visit again etc, but they object to clients indicating they engaged in specific sexual acts with them and leaving descriptive text that is sexually explicit.

We see this as a genuine complaint from escorts and want to resolve this issue, so more escorts allow reviews.

It is currently planned that in a month or two, after a major update to our software, escorts will be able to opt to [1] accept reviews, [2] accept partial reviews (no sexually explicit content allowed) or [3] refuse reviews.

We believe this will be a change for the better, but before everything is cast in stone, I would apreciate any feedback on this issue especially from anyone who doesn't think this is a good idea or can see problems with this new system that we may not have anticipated yet. Also, if you think it is a good idea, please post saying so, so we can know clients support this new system.

Thanks

Pat x

[westside]

Hi,

Some escorts have complained to us that they find the current review system too sexually explicit. They say they wouldn't mind clients reviewing them in a way where the client could indicate if he was happy with the accuracy of their photos, the value for money of their service, whether they'd visit again etc, but they object to clients indicating they engaged in specific sexual acts with them and leaving descriptive text that is sexually explicit.

We see this as a genuine complaint from escorts and want to resolve this issue, so more escorts allow reviews.

It is currently planned that in a month or two, after a major update to our software, escorts will be able to opt to [1] accept reviews, [2] accept partial reviews (no sexually explicit content allowed) or [3] refuse reviews.

We believe this will be a change for the better, but before everything is cast in stone, I would apreciate any feedback on this issue especially from anyone who doesn't think this is a good idea or can see problems with this new system that we may not have anticipated yet. Also, if you think it is a good idea, please post saying so, so we can know clients support this new system.

Thanks

Pat x

Yep thats a good idea.Pat ,why did you have to wait for girls to complain??Women hate sexually explicit stuff coming from anywhere else but the bedroom.?You that better than me.They fuckin hate it.

Another thing i spotted too ,that id reckon would prevent an escort from putting up reviews, are the ones that do nothing but try to make fun out of her.Its one thing saying she is not as good looking as the girl in the pics and quite another saying stuff thats is nasty.

If it were me,i would just pull any descriptive text out of the review system entirely and open up a new section somewhere where a guy can complain if his time is wasted etc.Maybe a mark out of ten or something would help too.If he starts on about nasty stuff that pisses a girl off tyhen pull it down,no exceptions

Also i would start pulling posts on the forum that are too personal as well.This way you keep taps on things easy and prevent future probs down the line.

A good rule of thumb is what your level of tolerence as a former escort would be.Simply put,if it would piss you off then rest assured it would more than likely piss any other woman off too.


Westside.

[Honey/Alexi D]

I think thats wonderful. You can sign me up when that starts. PR's onlyangels20

[punterminator]

Good idea Pats....

[Patricia]

Another thing i spotted too ,that id reckon would prevent an escort from putting up reviews, are the ones that do nothing but try to make fun out of her.Its one thing saying she is not as good looking as the girl in the pics and quite another saying stuff thats is nasty.

Agreed Westie. Honestly, if we get this wrong sometimes it is an internal staff issue. We have several members of staff here, all of which do multiple tasks including approving reviews every day. The same staff are dealing with a lot of escorts phoning every day saying they have a review they want removed as it is unfair. All our staff know I don't want them removing negative stuff from reviews or deleting them completely just because a lady is complaining and I am very strict about this, as to be any other way about it would not be fair on clients. However, I do agree, unneccesarily nasty stuff should be removed from reviews. The problem is, it is a judgement call for our staff, and sometimes they get it wrong and don't remove something nasty, because they are being cautious to never remove something they shouldn't. We are working on it, but it is not as easy as it looks maybe, especially as our business grows and we have more and more staff and sometimes a fast staff turnover.

If it were me,i would just pull any descriptive text out of the review system entirely...

Can't agree with this. I think the reviews are a great read (I'm still laughing about some of deafboy's ) but to take away the descriptive text completely would to make them a boring read.

[westside]

Agreed Westie. Honestly, if we get this wrong sometimes it is an internal staff issue. We have several members of staff here, all of which do multiple tasks including approving reviews every day. The same staff are dealing with a lot of escorts phoning every day saying they have a review they want removed as it is unfair. All our staff know I don't want them removing negative stuff from reviews or deleting them completely just because a lady is complaining and I am very strict about this, as to be any other way about it would not be fair on clients. However, I do agree, unneccesarily nasty stuff should be removed from reviews. The problem is, it is a judgement call for our staff, and sometimes they get it wrong and don't remove something nasty, because they are being cautious to never remove something they shouldn't. We are working on it, but it is not as easy as it looks maybe, especially as our business grows and we have more and more staff and sometimes a fast staff turnover.



Can't agree with this. I think the reviews are a great read (I'm still laughing about some of deafboy's ) but to take away the descriptive text completely would to make them a boring read.

You should open up a new thread for updates on reviews.That will save you loads of time so you can spend it reading my bullshit.You wont have to stick a note on it.Say for example ,if the location is wrong or similar.Having a thread for that would save you time and it also gives the escort a chance to reply if neccessary.

Also to take a page out of IIE ,have a number system.If a girl gets a 10 then that s says more than all the reading in the world,even if it is bisexual firemen.

Im seeing an Ambulance driver next.Nope ,i have the pain more up the groin area sir,further,further,ooooooooooooooooohh right there babygotta love ya

Sincerely,
Westside.

[Patricia]

Also to take a page out of IIE ,have a number system.If a girl gets a 10 then that s says more than all the reading in the world,even if it is bisexual firemen.

I think statements like "Very Unhappy" "Unhappy" "Neutral" "Happy" "Very Happy" are better than numbers because different people have different standards when it comes to numbers. For example often people give 10 out of 10 too easily I find.

[dubM37]

Sorry I may have misunderstood your post patricia but giving the the escorts options to reject a review will then totally negate the review process. I understand their concerns of the sexual nature of the reviews and certainly something should be done about it but giving them the power to reject the review is make the review system pointless. They'll all have glowing reviews.

Why not put a filter in the review system to *BLAM* out certain words or give a limit to 500 or less. OR appeal to the better nature of the reviewer they've obviously taken the time to visit the site and leave a comment, just ask them before submitting the review to consider the escorts and their privacy and not to be to descriptive. You'll have one or two who will abuse this but you could give it a trial run.

[Little Willy]

PISSED OF .jUST AFTER SPENDINGTHE LAST 10 MINUTES REPLYING TO ABOVE TOPIC. WHEN i PRESSED THE QUICK REPLY BUTTON I WAS REDIRECTED TO THE LOG IN PAGE . i HAD ALLREADY LOGGED IN .tHIS HAS HAPPENED BEFORE ON NUMERIOUS OCCASSIONS AND HAS STOPPEP ME FROM REPLYING.
WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN.
ANNOYED LITTLE WILLY

[Flypan]

It sounds a very wise idea, sometimes should enough to say "she did all the services which are advertised and asked for... " and/or about her attitude "she was involved, or not, which helped me to enjoy my time, more or less", for example. The flipside to this, as in everything there is a flipside, is that when the review is positive enough the escort will rarely complain about any explicit sexual details discussed or described within the review. However, if the review was to be negative then the escort will use any means to her available to try undermine the genuinity of such review. So here it goes my question: Is it a matter of sexual descritptions, or there is also a component of tolerance on the part of escorts which they haven't learnt to deal with yet?

Maybe, one solution, could be making it "free flow", no restrictions at all in any part, both escorts and punters. As with traffic, the more traffic lights and roundabouts we encounter in our way the longer it takes to complete our journey, hence the greater the risk for accidents and conflicts. Funny enough, there is a city in Holland where they have eliminated all traffic lights, don't ask me how but it's working well (and escorts in Holland don't charge 250 euros/hour)

Maybe another way to avoid misunderstandings between punters and escorts would be to open threads especifically for punters, and other threads especifically for escorts, where I could read the escort's posts but not writte, and where escorts could read punter's posts but not writte. And then we could have the "boxing" thread for those who need to "meet" and let go their high spirits and help each other to coold down, after a negative escort experience or after an exhausting working day.