Ok im off.

[westside]

And another two posts, not one but TWO!!
I was actually on a mid-week break with my girlfriend in Rome west but that's neither here nor there, what I did take from your "you weren't even missed" comment is something quite telling about your own fairly fragile psyche ............. the belief that people should or could "miss" anybody from here. This is an internet forum west, it's not family west, it's not friends or a partner west ............ it's not love west is what I'm telling you so for your own emotional well-being please give up your quest to find happiness, acceptance or love from here.
Yes in fact I was missed by family and friends (that's what happens when you have family and friends west!) but not by random posters on an escort messageboard, those people are called strangers west.
Rome ............. very romantic I must say!!

Paws

ps Thanks for noticing I was missing west, I'm mildly touched!!

i never actually spotted that.Thanks for telling me.Anyway i stand over what i said.

Ok,what your saying is i need this place.Thats what your saying?

Ok,
West.

[bigpaws]

No west, I'm saying that you are emotionally retarded caused, I suspect, by the loss of your mother at a young age only to be then sexually molested by an adult male ................ these two tragic incidents have left you sexually confused (because of the abuse) and someone who has great difficulty in forming a normal relationship with a normal woman (also because of the abuse) as well as a distrust of women because your mother "abandoned" you in your child's mind which has carried on into your adult life leaving you in many ways (mostly emotionally) still a child.
It leaves me personally with an uneasy feeling to watch a disturbed person spiral deeper and deeper into a weakened mental state on a public escort forum .............. stop humiliating yourself here west and seek professional medical care. It's sad to say that you are getting this good advice from a stranger on the internet but it has become plainly obvious to me that there is nobody in your life who cares enough about your well-being to give you this advice so ............ anyway I hope you get better, it won't happen on here west.

Paws

[westside]

No west, I'm saying that you are emotionally retarded caused, I suspect, by the loss of your mother at a young age only to be then sexually molested by an adult male ................ these two tragic incidents have left you sexually confused (because of the abuse) and someone who has great difficulty in forming a normal relationship with a normal woman (also because of the abuse) as well as a distrust of women because your mother "abandoned" you in your child's mind which has carried on into your adult life leaving you in many ways (mostly emotionally) still a child.
It leaves me personally with an uneasy feeling to watch a disturbed person spiral deeper and deeper into a weakened mental state on a public escort forum .............. stop humiliating yourself here west and seek professional medical care. It's sad to say that you are getting this good advice from a stranger on the internet but it has become plainly obvious to me that there is nobody in your life who cares enough about your well-being to give you this advice so ............ anyway I hope you get better, it won't happen on here west.

Paws

hey ,so thats meant to upset me.

I do have great difficulty forming a normal relationship with normal women because they fuckin bore me.Thats why.Normal women are just that ,normal.I prefer women that are out of the ordinary,confident strong minded women.

The rest of you rubbish only tells people more about you than it does about me.

Sounds like i annoy you,
Westside.

[bigpaws]

No west my post was not meant to annoy you but rather to answer your question and in the process maybe help you re-adjust your sensibilities ............. I don't know why you called the rest of my post "rubbish"??
Do you deny that you lost your mother at a young age or that you were sexually molested by an adult male soon after??

This is not really the place for this kind of discussion and I'm not 100% comfortable posting it but ..........
west you suffer from two distinct personality disorders known as Avoidant Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder as well as showing some syptoms of Avoidant Personality Disorder.

The symptoms of these disorders, which you have displayed numerous times on this message board alone, include :

Marked social inhibition.
Feelings of inadequacy.
Extremely sensitive to criticism.
Intense unstable interpersonal relationships.
Marked lack of decisiveness and self-confidence.
Fantasy of grandiosity
A need to be admired by others.
An inability to see the viewpoints of others.
Hypersensitive to the opinions of others.
Preoccupation with uncontrollable patterns of thought and action.
Belief in hidden meanings.
Indifferent to social relationships.
Peculiarities of thinking and odd beliefs.
Usually do not have many friends.
Have difficulties in making new contacts.
Live mostly in the past or in the future.
Are attracted more to the theory than the practice.

It's ironic but obviously not unexpected west that your reply to my previous post displayed many of these personality disorder symptoms ...............

Paws

[westside]

No west my post was not meant to annoy you but rather to answer your question and in the process maybe help you re-adjust your sensibilities ............. I don't know why you called the rest of my post "rubbish"??
Do you deny that you lost your mother at a young age or that you were sexually molested by an adult male soon after??

This is not really the place for this kind of discussion and I'm not 100% comfortable posting it but ..........
west you suffer from two distinct personality disorders known as Avoidant Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder as well as showing some syptoms of Avoidant Personality Disorder.

The symptoms of these disorders, which you have displayed numerous times on this message board alone, include :

Marked social inhibition.
Feelings of inadequacy.
Extremely sensitive to criticism.
Intense unstable interpersonal relationships.
Marked lack of decisiveness and self-confidence.
Fantasy of grandiosity
A need to be admired by others.
An inability to see the viewpoints of others.
Hypersensitive to the opinions of others.
Preoccupation with uncontrollable patterns of thought and action.
Belief in hidden meanings.
Indifferent to social relationships.
Peculiarities of thinking and odd beliefs.
Usually do not have many friends.
Have difficulties in making new contacts.
Live mostly in the past or in the future.
Are attracted more to the theory than the practice.

It's ironic but obviously not unexpected west that your reply to my previous post displayed many of these personality disorder symptoms ...............

Paws

you really are doing your best to try and knock me but im afraid it cant be done.However just for the fun of it i will answer each of these items..honestly.



Marked social inhibition.
I wouldnt be the most sociable person but not a hermit either.I lack a happy medium.The fact that i lift at a high level means i dont drink that much.

Feelings of inadequacy.
This is depending on the situation i guess.If im in a room full of millionaires then of course i will feel inadequate.It depends.

Extremely sensitive to criticism.
Not really,i welcome criticism and actually learn by it whether i say it or not.We are all sensitive to criticism.ITs human nature.

Intense unstable interpersonal relationships.
I never heard of a relationship that wasnt interpersonal???

Marked lack of decisiveness and self-confidence.
Def not.I what you would call a quiet confident person.Im very confident.

Fantasy of grandiosity
Damn right i have.These are the dreams that keep us going or do you have any??

A need to be admired by others.
Everyone likes being admired by others.I have never met a human being,male or female that didnt want it.

An inability to see the viewpoints of others.
Yes definatly agree here.Nobody is perfect and this is one area where i do lack.

Hypersensitive to the opinions of others.
Repeating the same things dont make the post any better.

Preoccupation with uncontrollable patterns of thought and action.
Im always in control.what your mixing is i like to have fun and laugh and joke.Just look at all of these ladies on this site and look at my reviews.I do go to many.Sorry ,im always in control.

Belief in hidden meanings.
Nope, i may come accross like that but i always try to throw a different angle to something.

Indifferent to social relationships.
Repeating the same things dont make the post any better.

Peculiarities of thinking and odd beliefs.
Def.Yes,my beliefs and outlooks on life are very very different to most.ITs just how i am and im comfortable with it.

Usually do not have many friends.
I would say real friends ,about 6.All of the rest are just aquantances.

Have difficulties in making new contacts.
Not really.I like meeting new people though espeicially motivated and ambitous ones and of course love women.

Live mostly in the past or in the future.
This is one area where i try to balance.We have to refer to the past to learn and bring our experiences forward in order to help us progress.I think of the future only in terms of goals.I set goals ,a plan to acheive them and burst my balls to get there.

Are attracted more to the theory than the practice.
Not really and again you dont define any context for me.At times it is of course neccessary to examine a particular theory before practicing it.This again comes down to your above statement.We must examine the past references of the theory in a proper mode and apply it to where we desire to head.Only then can we practice.Many a person practiced well only to find out that the ladder was leaning against the wrong wall.

This is my last time talking on this thread because to be honest you have your mind made up and just repeating the same things in a diferent way doesnt really make any sense.


for once and for all i will prove to you that i have all the self control neccessary in the only way i can.


Westside.

[bigpaws]

"Marked social inhibition.
I wouldnt be the most sociable person but not a hermit either.I lack a happy medium.The fact that i lift at a high level means i dont drink that much."
The fact that you "lack a happy medium" is a problem west.

"Intense unstable interpersonal relationships.
I never heard of a relationship that wasnt interpersonal???"
It's the unstable part which should concern you west.

"Marked lack of decisiveness and self-confidence.
Def not.I what you would call a quiet confident person.Im very confident."
Again you missed the point, it's the lack of decisiveness that's a problem, ie "i'm leaving here forever and never seeing another escort" etc without the ability to follow through west.

"Fantasy of grandiosity
Damn right i have.These are the dreams that keep us going or do you have any??"
Dreams are normal, unhinged fantasies are not west.

"A need to be admired by others.
Everyone likes being admired by others.I have never met a human being,male or female that didnt want it."
Again you missed the point, liking something is fine but feeling a need for approval IS a problem west.

"Hypersensitive to the opinions of others.
Repeating the same things dont make the post any better."
Hypersensitive is the issue here which is a different matter to the previously mentioned problem west.

"Indifferent to social relationships.
Repeating the same things dont make the post any better."
Again you missed the point here, it's the indifference which seperates your psyche from that of a stable personality west.

"Peculiarities of thinking and odd beliefs.
Def.Yes,my beliefs and outlooks on life are very very different to most.ITs just how i am and im comfortable with it.2
Of course you are comfortable with it, it's easiar for a sick individual to be comfortable with their problems west.

"Live mostly in the past or in the future.
This is one area where i try to balance.We have to refer to the past to learn and bring our experiences forward in order to help us progress.I think of the future only in terms of goals.I set goals ,a plan to acheive them and burst my balls to get there."
This refers to your childhood molestation and "abandonment" issues regarding your mother ie you can't let go of the past and the present is too painful for you to deal with so you attempt to focus on the future usually ending in failure for persons suffering from your condition west.

"Are attracted more to the theory than the practice.
Not really and again you dont define any context for me.At times it is of course neccessary to examine a particular theory before practicing it.This again comes down to your above statement.We must examine the past references of the theory in a proper mode and apply it to where we desire to head.Only then can we practice.Many a person practiced well only to find out that the ladder was leaning against the wrong wall."
In theory you believe you are stabe human-being with lots of good points but lack the ability to put any of your "great" plans into practice in everyday life west.

"This is my last time talking on this thread because to be honest you have your mind made up and just repeating the same things in a diferent way doesnt really make any sense."
Running away from and ignoring your problems have left you in the fragile mental state you are in now west.

Paws

[ber]

jaysus lads
this is a escort website not a psychiatrists office
dont think by any chance things are getting a tad personal!!!!!!!

[bigpaws]

That's exactly my point ber, it IS an escort website and west needs to spend less time here and more time in a psychiatrist's office!!

Paws

[westside]

jaysus lads
this is a escort website not a psychiatrists office
dont think by any chance things are getting a tad personal!!!!!!!

Look at the trend here for one sec.Im speaking and having a laugh with Domy,an escort or a woman.For some reason this clown gets his knickers in a twist.then comes on with rubbish.I again state ,as i am now ,that he doesnt have a gf and cant pick up women.He comes back with a story about his gf of course.?His only recourse after that is to stoop down and take the piss out of someone dying,something that will all go through and he obviously hasnt experienced much of it.He has never even banged his head off something.

He is saying i cant stop here, so like i said i'll prove him wrong.Incidentl, he has all the makings of a failure with the ladies,he has no sense of humour, no wit, has to spend half the time thinking what he is goping to write and on and on and on and all he can come up with is personal stuff.He is totally in capable of debating anything without having to try and drag the other person down.He in fact,its little wonder how he thoguht of those points in his crock of shit post from above.

This guy is an assclown plain and simple and will spend the rest of his life with escorts because he cant pick up women.Oh ,and this is really going to piss him off.Im in my thirties and own my own 4 bdrm house as in own it,no owing to anyone.

I wish him luck, hahahha he fuckin needs it,
Westside.

PS he still cant see that i was taking the piss with this going stuff except at the start of the year.I love challenges and since he thropugh this little one at me ,fine.I can get loads of OWO from my gf but im very unhappy with the performance of this escort or that escort.ahahhahahahah give me a fuckin break please.

[westside]

That's exactly my point ber, it IS an escort website and west needs to spend less time here and more time in a psychiatrist's office!!

Paws

lots of courses available on picking up the ladies.


hahahahahhaha
Westside.